No, I'm not pretending, it's abundantly clear that's what she meant! When a baby is born it's pretty much the first thing a doctor or midwife will look at, often even before birth. I daresay when you were born all eyes went to your genitalia.
The bottom line is, Trala has explained what she meant so you don't get to keep telling her/me/anyone who will listen what she actually meant. You misinterpreted what she said, she has repeatedly tried to clarify, so move on and stop using my baby as ammunition in this pathetic fight. Please.
As for that quote, once again, it has nothing to do with the fact that one person enquired about the sex of another persons baby.