Matthew Ames adjusts to life without limbs after toxic shock
Kate Ames Qweekend
The Courier-Mail
June 14, 201311:30PM
I'M SITTING in the chapel at Brisbane's Mater Hospital. It's a cold, wet Friday evening in the middle of June, last year. It's not a place I would usually be found, but upstairs, my younger brother Matthew, 39, is dying. He was fine the last time I saw him a few weeks earlier, when he and his family came to visit me in Rockhampton to celebrate my son's birthday.
Matthew's here because he has streptococcal toxic shock, an infectious disease that occurs when streptococcal bacteria that cause a sore throat (Streptococcal A) penetrate the body's bloodstream. It's random, and can cause organ failure, and tissue and muscle death. The disease, when it gets to the stage we're seeing in Matthew, is generally fatal. Matthew's arms and legs are going black, dying as his system shuts down. It's all happening very quickly, and our family has been asked to gather. While I wait, the chapel seems the only place to find some peace.
Raised in Fiji, Sydney and Ingham in north Queensland, Matthew moved to Brisbane at age 13 with his family and attended school at Anglican Church Grammar (Churchie) in East Brisbane. A bright young man, he went on to study environmental engineering at the University of Queensland, where he met his wife, Diane. The only son and youngest child of Roy and Christine of Morningside, also in Brisbane's east, Matthew spent much of his early life being the mostly willing slave to two older sisters, Rachel and me. He had travelled extensively, and was passionate about trying new things. Sitting still wasn't something he did easily.
A week prior to this admission to hospital in June, Matthew had been working as an executive with Origin Energy. Married at 22, he and Diane spent their first ten years together travelling the world seeking adventure. They'd climbed Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania, walked to Machu Picchu in Peru, and white-water-rafted in New Zealand. They renovated an old Queenslander in eastside Camp Hill, doing much of the work themselves. Then came Luke, now 9, Ben, 8, Will, 7, and Emily, 3[/I][/I][/I][/I][/I]
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