you can try to excuse her behaviour as much as you like Dys but bottom line is don't lead Jeremy on with constant mixed messages and then run to DR declaring your love for partner on the outside and think you're fooling anyone but yourself (and maybe Jeremy whose brains seem to be snuggled up soundly in his testicles because he too gives mixed messages)So BOTS then. Firstly, the more I see of that smug Kiwi who writes a column for a "Celebrity Rag" the more I detest him. Forever politically correct when it suits him, the rest is spewing venom in a very devious way with the smile of a Caligula on his visage.
Then, let us revisit Stephanie. With all the hysteria and dragging through the mud of the poor girl nobody ever seems to have given a second thought why she might be the way she is because we after all are so faultless and without a blemish.
I happen to know people from all walks of life... some are women who are caught up in a seemingly inescapable situation with a man who ostensibly provides them with a certain degree of security and gives them the feeling to be anchored, but little else. Everybody, including men crave for this type of save haven and security.
However, there is something else we all crave and wish for and that is perhaps the most natural of all human emotions: sexuality.
We are told that the degree of libido can differ from individual to individual.
Let us assume that Stephanie has a high libido and is caught up outside of the house in a situation where her partner provides her with the safety she needs but gives her nothing to satisfy her sexual needs. Would this not explain her seemingly erratic behaviour in the house?
I can see many of you scratching your heads and think what I am telling you is ludicrous. Perhaps you are too young or you have "conveniently" avoided thinking about this all important subject.
For those of you who are familiar with the concept however, you might have heard a reference by Kristina to that effect regarding Stephanie during BOTS today. Now it wasn't clear whether the "Ex" Kristina was referring to was the Sam guy or someone before Stephanie met Sam because as usual, the panel and yes, that includes Rylan. quickly changed the subject because talking about complicated relationships in the BBhouse is just to well.... complicated.
I say again what I've said at least twice before: If it weren't for Stephanie's apparent erratic flitting between the "anchor" outside and the tangible Jeremy inside, WHAT would you righteous folks pin on her?
Oh, and before you all get some silly ideas and want to crucify her as a Nymphomaniac - as with Zombies, there is no medical evidence that either of them exist or have existed.
It's called Shit or get off the pot ... Or Make up your mind and commit one way or the other ...
She's been in an abusive relationship in the past and hospitalised after a suicide attempt according to Kristina - does her past give her free rein to treat future love interests like disposable toys then? You just can't drag up the past as justification or excuse for your own behaviour when it suits you
Google Steph and no mention of either of these things comes up ... Except perhaps as a storyline for a character she played on tv ... The show she was sacked from because of her excessive drinking ... Which she then admitted too but then trotted out yet another excuse ... that her grandmas death made it worse .... Excuses excuses ... Grandma would be so thrilled Steph. Are you going to use Grandma's passing as an excuse for the rest of your life?!
She needs to grow up ... Admit she has an issue with alcohol ... Learn to recognise when enough is enough ... No one enjoys living with someone who gets abusive after drinking ... I'm not saying don't drink ... Just learn and recognise your limits (the urge to dance on table tops or swing from chandeliers or pash someone you previously found repulsive are all good signs to keep an eye out for lol)
If she knows herself ... If she knows she's going to seek out someone for comfort and cuddles why put herself in there in the first place whilst in a relationship?
The old 'Have your cake and eat it too' holds true for Steph ... She seems to still think the bf on the outside might still be there waiting for her ... So what if he is ... What then happens to Jeremy .. He gets his heart trampled on and looks the fool ... Men are not disposable toys otherwise you'd all come with on/off buttons, volume controls and remotes

Stop trying to drag up excuses for her poor judgement
Put yourself in the shoes of the people she is using as a crutch - it stinks from their side
She needs a good therapist to sort out her insecurities and issues ... One not found at the bottom of a bottle - especially if those stories of abusive relationship and suicide are true