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Do we have a politics thread to discuss things political?
- Thread starter Not a fan of Clara Oswald
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Mooseface
Little known member
Really?!I will aim to be less scary
maybe it is my own guilt thing! lol There are a lot of things I am thinking but not sayingCan you even BE any less scary
Columbo
Never again
Why is it so complex. Inigo isn't even here any more. Guilt is not a useful emotion to marry.
Get some effective therapy Reepbot.
yes, so right. inigo is not here at all. so right. she hasn't posted on this forum for ages mooseface. very observant observation from you there mooseface. it has been quite a while since she has posted here.
therapy is useless.
Columbo
Never again
maybe it is my own guilt thing! lol There are a lot of things I am thinking but not saying
you can say it. i can take it.
Columbo
Never again
Can you even BE any less scary
but you are a mooseface. scared of nothing or none. staring down demons with eyes ablaze with the mid morning sun.
"ABACK DEMONS!" you yell as you arch your shoulders back. Staring down the evil demons.
Columbo
Never again
I will aim to be less scary
Ok.
Mooseface
Little known member
Who is scarier: Reepbot or Isee ??!!
well...but you are a mooseface. scared of nothing or none. staring down demons with eyes ablaze with the mid morning sun.
"ABACK DEMONS!" you yell as you arch your shoulders back. Staring down the evil demons.
Columbo
Never again
Who is scarier: Reepbot or Isee ??!!
well...
I'm a kitten.
Columbo
Never again
The thing with therapy is that you have to 'mitmach'. ie, you have to actively participate. For it to be effective. Same with anything really.
You can lead a horse to water... etc
but do i really need therapy for the inigo situation?
Mooseface
Little known member
Well, hmmm, given you are still going on about it several years later and you didnt even meet the lady (as far as I know) plus she isnt even here any more, I would say ... yes????!but do i really need therapy for the inigo situation?
If not for 'Inigo' specifically, then for the underlying 'whatever-it-is' that is stopping you from letting things be in the past.
The fact you post about how wonderful Trump is on these forums as a way to impress a person who hasn't posted since he got elected, and even though you admit he might not be all that and a bag of chips you are too loyal to your obsession to her too stop saying stuff you are probably only half heatedly believing anymore indicates the need for therapy. You need to find a healthy way to move on from her, and you are not having any luck on your own or through seeking help online. A professional counselor may be able to give you some useful tools and techniques to help you healthily move past her.but do i really need therapy for the inigo situation?
Columbo
Never again
Well, hmmm, given you are still going on about it several years later and you didnt even meet the lady (as far as I know) plus she isnt even here any more, I would say ... yes????!
If not for 'Inigo' specifically, then for the underlying 'whatever-it-is' that is stopping you from letting things be in the past.
god i wish i could have met her. would have answered a lot of questions for me.
but a promising okcupid date would help me more i think. i mean a date with just a woman.
Columbo
Never again
The fact you post about how wonderful Trump is on these forums as a way to impress a person who hasn't posted since he got elected, and even though you admit he might not be all that and a bag of chips you are too loyal to your obsession to her too stop saying stuff you are probably only half heatedly believing anymore indicates the need for therapy. You need to find a healthy way to move on from her, and you are not having any luck on your own or through seeking help online. A professional counselor may be able to give you some useful tools and techniques to help you healthily move past her.
so i need to move on from caring about her? even on a platonic level? i couldn't do that.
Your thoughts may or may not be romantic that does not really matter. The reality is you are unable to move yourself past a non existent friendship that is not and never will be a friendship and you have become obsessed by it. Not a day goes by where she is not in your thoughts and in your posts and it has been years. You need to get healthy and move on for your own mental health and well being. If you ever want to have healthy relationships and friendships with other females, you will need to work through the issues you have tied up around Inigo and let it go.so i need to move on from caring about her? even on a platonic level? i couldn't do that.
Columbo
Never again
You can care about people forever. It doesn't mean you can't care about other things/people.
i care about things.