If I were you, eliza, I'd ignore or block derspatz. He's more dinasour than sparrow, I think. He seems to only be here to pursue a reactionary political agenda and to comment on threads in a way that treats women like commodities. His comments about men not needing to be with older women, that women are thrilled to by mauled by famous men, that male sexual misconduct is relative... these statements are all completely objectionable. He reminds me of those western men from only a few generations back who thought of 'their' women as property, to beat and to fuck at will. He feigns horror at the way his middle eastern brothers behave, but his behavior is little better, just coated with a veneer of supercilious worldliness.
I intend to block him. He has no ears; bigotry knows no reason.