I'm sure you have been upset many times just like there has been many times I've been many times I've been upset when I've never said a word. Apparently that's just how it goes. Although now I've been encouraged to use the ignore function so that's getting farther and fewer in between thankfully and it's something I'd suggest for anyone else who feels that way.
I get what's happening here for the past few weeks and while I can't stand it... I'd just prefer if you lot would target me than say someone like Lara. Disagree with what she says - come have a go at me in another one. Say I held a gun to her head to type those words, say whatever... this horseshit from thread to thread and especially when multiple people pile on aka @Veronica2005 with her passive aggressive crap - I know how to handle. Lara doesn't and she doesn't deserve it. Send it my way because y'all know I'll send it right back and forget about it tomorrow.
Not everyone has the same makeup though and you (collective) hurt her and now she's apparently gone. And even though we all had to defend our 'friendships' earlier this year as most of us hadn't met face to face, I do know and trust that the people involved are better than that.
This whole thing is beyond a joke now. I'm stunned that two soon to be forever forgotten HMs have managed to cause a rift like this and it's really upsetting. I went from checking here every 15 mins to every hour to once a day if I'm lucky and I'm a hard bitch. Imagine if you aren't one.
Just be kinder to each other. No pile ons. No passive aggressive bullshit. Who cares about these people... they'll be done and dusted and hopefully soon we'll have new ones to worry about. So not worth it.
You don’t get to decide what is appropriate behavior and what is not. You also don’t get to decide who should be placed on a pedestal and be protected from “the terrible David fans” and who is allowed to be subjected to an “attack”. I know myself enough to know I meant no harm and I know that the people you call sweet are not always sweet and the people you seem to think are the worst are in fact not as bad as you would like people to believe.
Going into others threads and liking trash talk about posters is not sweet, it is passive aggressive. And NOT ONE person from these threads including myself is truly innocent, not even Lara. I saw the post where Madonna tried to allude that I was fake, and I saw who liked that comment, sweet at this moment is up for debate depending if you are a David fan or a Priya fan. And as far as I’m concerned, not one or the other fan base is ahead of the other. I consider it equal. I treat posters individually!
If people want to leave because they can’t handle it, then it is nothing to do with me and I won’t feel an ounce of guilt for it. It’s an open forum and from what I can see everyone gets it just the same. I treat everyone the same, and I won’t give others special treatment depending on your opinion. You can keep talking about “being followed” all you want, whilst ignoring every other behavior. I have a different point of view on this, just like I think there are certain behaviors that have ruined this forum, but that’s from my angle.
Take all the opportunity in the world to try and shred me down to uplift your own opinions for your own agenda. Because at the end of the day, that is all I read