I really wish we didn't have to rehash that thread.
It does paint sapphire in a bad light and that could not be further from the truth. Some posters are more sensitive than others, and for sapphire, that was breaking point and they lashed out. They would be the first to tell you that it was an over reaction, but it happens. I don't want sapphire to feel inaquate now and leave because they feel posters will view them in a certain way. It was a moment of pent up frustrations of continued mockery that went out of hand.
It's best to use the ignore function sometimes.
I appreciate what you've written but SHE brought it up to have a go at me, so turnabout's fair play, surely? If she wishes to lash out, she needs to own what she's said - just as I have owned what I wrote both in that thread and everywhere else.