Oh okay, apologies. In your original post directed at me I was getting the distinct impression that you were trying to say that anyone who could understand what Jade said when she did was a bad mother. I immediately got on the defensive was was like "back the truck up!" because I can certainly understand what Jade said, and I also would understand it if my own daughter said something like that in that situation, and I don't think that makes me a bad mother.
I don't think Tahan's mum nominating Jade for that reason was what anyone had an issue with, but more the way she completely twisted what Jade said to give it a whole new meaning than what was said in reality. Like I said though, whether that was intentional or not I don't know.
I think we will have to agree to disagree with the "Tahan is the victim because it was one against four" line that's thrown around. I just don't buy it when I think it's very obvious why The Sugar Sisters, Jade and Mikk became close and a support network for one another to begin with. Tahan never wanted to be friends with them. She made that extremely obvious. She mocked them consistently with her own friends when they were the majority, but as Tim slowly but surely picked them all off all of a sudden the other girls were the majority and Tahan was on her own playing the "woe is me, I have nobody" card. She brought it on herself. They've all said and done mean things to one another, but I can't just forget the first half of the show and suddenly see Tahan as the innocent victim here because she ended up being on her own while the SS, Mikk and Jade still had one another. She brought it on herself.
And yes, I do find it very interesting how we can watch the same show and see things very differently