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Housemate #4 - Ben
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Tonight with Drew and Tully we really saw the positive and the bad side of ben.
Him in the pool was really funny as a viewer.
Him just rambling on later when Drew and Tully were trying to have a conversation and upset. Really showed how annoying and how he lacks empathy or understand of human emotions in others.
Around 18:30 of the episode on the official site.
Of course then based on clips and other stuff we've seen. He'd walk away from that feeling they were doing wrong to him by not engaging and embracing his taking crap.
Tully is crying he comes up when he's not needed and then just talks about how they are nice to him. That's really actually very disturbing behavior. No awareness of the situation and even the emotions of someone when they are crying in front of him. Talks about himself.
This is why I don't think he should win and he isn't a good person. Being innocent and vulnerable and what ever doesn't make you a good person. It's how you act to others. Not being mean doesn't mean you're being good and nice.
Him in the pool was really funny as a viewer.
Him just rambling on later when Drew and Tully were trying to have a conversation and upset. Really showed how annoying and how he lacks empathy or understand of human emotions in others.
Around 18:30 of the episode on the official site.
Of course then based on clips and other stuff we've seen. He'd walk away from that feeling they were doing wrong to him by not engaging and embracing his taking crap.
Tully is crying he comes up when he's not needed and then just talks about how they are nice to him. That's really actually very disturbing behavior. No awareness of the situation and even the emotions of someone when they are crying in front of him. Talks about himself.
This is why I don't think he should win and he isn't a good person. Being innocent and vulnerable and what ever doesn't make you a good person. It's how you act to others. Not being mean doesn't mean you're being good and nice.
So maybe what Heidi said about him was right then
what was that again?
murf
Well-Known Member
what was that again?
That he always made conversations about him and never asked her a question about her.
That he always made conversations about him and never asked her a question about her.
Cool. I think I fast forwarded her on eviction. That completely fits in with my observations about his event.
murf
Well-Known Member
Cool. I think I fast forwarded her on eviction. That completely fits in with my observations about his event.
It wasn't shown on her eviction night, it was in her goodbye video that they showed the night after and Ben had a cry to Tim about it and said "She said mean things about me"

Caleska
Well-Known Member
I found him funny last night, but I still don't know if I was laughing at 'him' or the character he's playing. Either way I was entertained.
He's not playing a character...
He's not playing a character...
I think some of it is pretty contrived. He has as big a game plan as anyone else in there.
Caleska
Well-Known Member
I think some of it is pretty contrived. He has as big a game plan as anyone else in there.
I would think so as well, but he has a heap of friends on Facebook who insist that what you see is exactly how Ben is.
I would think so as well, but he has a heap of friends on Facebook who insist that what you see is exactly how Ben is.
Fair enough. Maybe we've all become too cynical lol.
white_tulips
Active Member
In one of the clips he said he didnt have any friends. That he stays home watching blu rays. Something doesnt add up.I would think so as well, but he has a heap of friends on Facebook who insist that what you see is exactly how Ben is.
Miiiiike
Well-Known Member
So maybe what Heidi said about him was right then
Speaking of Heidi, her ugly mug is still not crossed out in the banner.
Elspie
Active Member
In one of the clips he said he didnt have any friends. That he stays home watching blu rays. Something doesnt add up.
Facebook friends doesn't equal real friends. It's must likely people that knew him for a heartbeat or knew him through a friend of a friends of a friend. People hoping for their own little 15mins of fame by claiming they know someone on the telly. Who knows if he is real or fake, whatever he is doing it seems to be winning over the people who vote and in the end that's what counts. I wonder if in this cast that in the end, even if he wins, if he will be someone people think of as a great housemate or that he just made it because people felt sorry for him.
murf
Well-Known Member
Speaking of Heidi, her ugly mug is still not crossed out in the banner.
Settle down it's being sorted
Sorceress
..Bow Down To Thee..
LOL....this is Heidi we're talking about?That he always made conversations about him and never asked her a question about her.
Possibly the most self absorbed person in there this year, wouldn't take what she said very seriously.