Episode Day 31 (8/10/2014) Daily Show & Nominations

up_all_night said:
My biggest damn issue with the whole thing was Aisha saying she feels bad for feeling bad and everyone essentially nodding and being like, 'yes.' That is no alright. She doesn't have to feel bad about feeling bad. No one should act like that is ok. I can't even really think of the words to express what I want to say, but the idea that a victim feels bad for the perpetrator or bad that they feel bad is a completely unhealthy attitude to accept and I was disappointed that no one in the house expressed this. Someone should have said, 'you don't have to feel bad at all.'
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I think this is my biggest issue tonight as well? I missed a bit of it and honestly I don't know what I thought of the whole drama but I feel like all in all they are actually perpetuating a pretty dangerous attitude. And maybe she did feel genuinely conflicted or confused about it all but I mean the editors decision to put that in, as well as the HMs reactions. They must have known what they're doing and for a show thats selling itself as 'family friendly' even though it starts near 9pm. I just think, its pretty bad to be modelling that, could be pretty dangerous in the long run.Nearly bleeds into victim blaming. I'm not saying thats what happened tonight, but I feel like that's what it could so easily turn into. Sorry I might be being an overanxious and very tired mum at the moment!! I definitely am. But from where I stand I never want my kids to feel bad for feeling bad, or feeling anything. We have emotions and feelings for a reason...don't shame them.

Sorry I haven't really said anything different just wanted to add my 2c, but I agree with everything you said!)
 
Seriously, someone needs to contact Alex about these stupid reason to nominate.. Priya shower for so long? He didnt like the burger? wtf?
 
MADONNA said:
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I hope you don't mind me stealing this

I already have anyways :)
 
Butterfly_Wings said:
And how selfish is Cat - to sacrifice Priya to save Travis - and yet no thought for Lawson. Just used him and spat him out.
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I figured it was because of his “don’t care” comment toward her (flash-back while David was nominating). If their 'thing' isn't over, it at least appeared pretty rocky based on that comment (and Cat's response).
 
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