One, you sound a tad too invested in the show with the 'praying good ol Sam is the decent guy...and is a better judge of character", and threatening boycott of the show and using editing for your own obsession for how you think things should be.
Which leads me to two, of course you 'know all about Snez'- I call bullshit! Seems like you are pushing your agenda for your own winner, being heather and again with the tad too invested comments of hoping she holds her head high, and obsessively will shame another woman to do so. 'Reputation with men', what an extremely judgemental thing to say- I hope you're not a woman, because I find that absolutely disgusting shaming another woman.
Snezena has done nothing wrong entering the show. This misplaced blaming is absolute bs! Why should the responsibility not go on the ex for not just saying no comment or the trash gossip magazines, who are both contributors to the affect this will have on snez's daughter. Oh yeah it's all the responsibility of a mother only- no one else should show any competency at all. I don't want to hear about that is how the world is etc etc, it's these things which people should speak up and banish others from holding over another human beings head. What utter nonsense!
Edit: I don't care to be pleasant to a newbie with that type of contribution and rather speak up before other so called newbies think this is absolutely fine. None of the regs here are like that, in fact I consider them open hearted and open minded.