Haha...I doubt she goes around calling one of her precious baby boys "emotionally stunted".
More than anything, I want Jade to wise up and walk away from Ed, because I don't think he will ever fully appreciate the complete package that she is. But being incompatible (and I've come to really think they are) doesn't mean that he's evil personified. I think he has way less impact on her than people assume when it comes to her views on other HMs, and I don't think all of her difficulties in the house can be traced solely to him.
If I'd ever seen any evidence that Ed is capable of relating in an emotional way to any other person, I would assume his treatment of Jade is deliberate. But I honestly think the idiot doesn't know any better. I feel sorry for him, most of the time, because he's really only half living life. At the same time, he could disappear into internet oblivion and I wouldn't give a darn, because I don't care about him personally. His impact on Jade is really the only reason he even crosses my mind at this point.