Jade 2013 Appreciation thread

Sweet_Geek said:
Bite their head back! Yeah I am a tahan supporter, but believe you should fight back too. I remember my grandfather once said to me, you don't act like anyone's fool, of course it was said in another language and sounded much more harsher, but the message is still the same no matter how it is said.
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Lol !!! Very true , it's like 4 against one , I was coming onto this thread thinking if someone was online they could defend me on there or at least give me a hand hahahaha , thanks xxx
 
Shazbb said:
Lol !!! Very true , it's like 4 against one , I was coming onto this thread thinking if someone was online they could defend me on there or at least give me a hand hahahaha , thanks xxx
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Honestly, with people like that I've found it's better just bow out and let them be. It's no use arguing with them and trying to get them to see your point when they've already made up their mind and cant take on other points of view.

Your little one in your avatar is very cute by the way! :)
 
Shazbb said:
Lol !!! Very true , it's like 4 against one , I was coming onto this thread thinking if someone was online they could defend me on there or at least give me a hand hahahaha , thanks xxx
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Delcan too the rescue
 
hughesy17 said:
I have noticed for a while that some posters (no-one in particular) feel that they can be critical of housemates (because the housemates are on a t.v. show), but they and their posts must be immune to criticism. Newsflash, you a posting your opinions on a public forum so expect others to agree or disagree with what you have to say, especially if your criticisms of housemates are overly harsh,etc. These are 'Discussion forums" so we are allowed to discuss not only housemates, but each others opinions, insights, etc. Heck we may even learn from each other.
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It happened to me and is happening right now !! On the betting odds thread , all I did was ask why there was so much hate for jade , and that was it , attacked ! So it's not just if you are negative about another housemate , if THEY don't like that housemate then that's it !!
 
Gemini said:
Honestly, with people like that I've found it's better just bow out and let them be. It's no use arguing with them and trying to get them to see your point when they've already made up their mind and cant take on other points of view.

Your little one in your avatar is very cute by the way! :)
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Yeah I really don't have the energy , I'm really upset about the things they are writing about jade , why ???? I don't know , I don't know her myself , but I know she's being portrayed differently , , but I shouldn't look into so much and take it personally because yeah it's a game and a bloody tv show LOL !!
And thanks for commenting on my sons pic , he's a little sweetheart .
 
Hmm from the live feed it seems to me that Jade and Tahan are getting around to talking to each other a bit more now for some reason, I'm looking forward to seeing this develop into an actual convo
 
Shazbb said:
they are defending a bully
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And they can turn around and say you're defending a girl who has thrown herself at a guy repeatedly and made a fool of herself. You think Tahan's a bully. They think Jade's whatever. See how that works?

Shazbb said:
Yeah I really don't have the energy , I'm really upset about the things they are writing about jade , why ???? I don't know , I don't know her myself , but I know she's being portrayed differently , , but I shouldn't look into so much and take it personally because yeah it's a game and a bloody tv show LOL !!
And thanks for commenting on my sons pic , he's a little sweetheart .
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You really shouldn't take it personally. As you said, you don't know her. Just like you have your opinions on Tahan or any other HM, they have their opinions on Jade. Your opinions aren't "right". Neither are theirs. They're merely opinions. The problem starts when someone starts to confuse their opinions for the truth and then takes to heart anything anyone says against them.

Just take it for what it is... a tv show with a bunch of strangers on it who wouldn't even know us if we passed them on the street. Jade nor any other HM is getting this worked up over us nor would they ever. So why do the same for them?
 
Shazbb said:
Yeah I really don't have the energy , I'm really upset about the things they are writing about jade , why ???? I don't know , I don't know her myself , but I know she's being portrayed differently , , but I shouldn't look into so much and take it personally because yeah it's a game and a bloody tv show LOL !!
And thanks for commenting on my sons pic , he's a little sweetheart .
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Which thread is it btw? Haven't been on here much tonight.
I find it hard being confronted by a group too, and it ends up feeling like you're being attacked personally instead of having a discussion. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have your say, but when that happens I'm sometimes convinced that they're not really listening anyway so nothing you could say would make a difference and its hard not to bite back.

Jade is my favourite but I can see positives in Tahan too so it always gets to me when it feels like they're saying things about Jade just because they perceive her to be Tahan's rival or something.

Anyway, we all get invested, even those who say they don't, and with that comes those who take it too far. Don't let it put you off, you have just as much right to your say xx
 
Shazbb said:
It happened to me and is happening right now !! On the betting odds thread , all I did was ask why there was so much hate for jade , and that was it , attacked ! So it's not just if you are negative about another housemate , if THEY don't like that housemate then that's it !!
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Try not to let it affect you Shaz, I enjoy your posts. Sometimes you just can't reason with unreasonable people. There does seem to be more and more of them these days unfortunately.
 
Peverell said:
Hmm from the live feed it seems to me that Jade and Tahan are getting around to talking to each other a bit more now for some reason, I'm looking forward to seeing this develop into an actual convo
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I've wanted this for a long time. Jade's problem with Tahan has always seemed to come from loyalty to her friends, and I don't think they've had a chance to really talk.
 
hughesy17 said:
Try not to let it affect you Shaz, I enjoy your posts. Sometimes you just can't reason with unreasonable people. There does seem to be more and more of them these days unfortunately.
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Yeah true !! Like I just saw a reply that I want to bite back to , about jade throwing herself at Ed , but I'm not LOL , I do have a problem with that but someone once told me on here "only reply to what you think is relevant" which was great advice .
 
Gemini said:
Honestly, with people like that I've found it's better just bow out and let them be. It's no use arguing with them and trying to get them to see your point when they've already made up their mind and cant take on other points of view.

Your little one in your avatar is very cute by the way! :)
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I agree with this.
 
Peverell said:
Hmm from the live feed it seems to me that Jade and Tahan are getting around to talking to each other a bit more now for some reason, I'm looking forward to seeing this develop into an actual convo
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If they do have a convo, don't expect to see it. They had one the other day but it didn't make the daily show. After the argument on Friday night's show, it would be beneficial to Jade and Ed if they showed tonight's convo between Tahan and Maddy which was essentially about Tim's fabricated friendship with Jade.
 
Shazbb said:
It happened to me and is happening right now !! On the betting odds thread , all I did was ask why there was so much hate for jade , and that was it , attacked ! So it's not just if you are negative about another housemate , if THEY don't like that housemate then that's it !!
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OMG, that's awful. People can get pretty horrible quickly.
 
Insomniac said:
I've wanted this for a long time. Jade's problem with Tahan has always seemed to come from loyalty to her friends, and I don't think they've had a chance to really talk.
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Yeah she didn't like the way Tahan treated the sisters , but they are the only 2 original females left they really should try and have a chat and even stand by each other , but Tahan is a lot like Tim she wants to win bad so she might not want jade in her way , even though jade doesn't have a chance against Tahan at winning I'd still like jade to be there at the end and I guess it would be great for two girls to be there at the end .
 
hughesy17 said:
If they do have a convo, don't expect to see it. They had one the other day but it didn't make the daily show. After the argument on Friday night's show, it would be beneficial to Jade and Ed if they showed tonight's convo between Tahan and Maddy which was essentially about Tim's fabricated friendship with Jade.
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Yeah would be good to hear that one !! They won't show it though grrrr
 
Insomniac said:
Which thread is it btw? Haven't been on here much tonight.
I find it hard being confronted by a group too, and it ends up feeling like you're being attacked personally instead of having a discussion. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have your say, but when that happens I'm sometimes convinced that they're not really listening anyway so nothing you could say would make a difference and its hard not to bite back.

Jade is my favourite but I can see positives in Tahan too so it always gets to me when it feels like they're saying things about Jade just because they perceive her to be Tahan's rival or something.

Anyway, we all get invested, even those who say they don't, and with that comes those who take it too far. Don't let it put you off, you have just as much right to your say xx
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It was on the betting odds thread for this weeks eviction !
 
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