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The Bachelor Australia 2015
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Me too. It makes the show a lot more fun to watch.
It's all weird. Her words post show don't make sense with him getting rid of her at Home Visits. Unless she is a really, really good actor
FatPants
Dogs are the best people
That's why I can't stomach the friend zone stuff, their chemistry is so obvious.
Maybe she's just been running interference post show?
Columbo
Never again
That's what one of the mags was saying. That's got to hurt though given she clearly had feelings for him
FatPants
Dogs are the best people
Well if she has been running interference after having her heart broken then she's one hell of a person
She definitely has feelings for him. The dude thing is a defence to avoid being vulnerable. She showed him and told him in many ways (maybe men don't pick up on subtle things) that she was interested. She could tell his lack of engagement this week and I could see her pulling back.
Given the amount of media interest in her I'm sure she was under very strict instructions not to divulge the final result which includes the fact she was sent home. It would have been hard for her definitely but remember a few months has gone by since then and she's probably reconciled to the fact he wasn't the one for her. She's handled it well though.
Of course we may all be mistaken and they run off together into the sunset but I can't see it.
Given the amount of media interest in her I'm sure she was under very strict instructions not to divulge the final result which includes the fact she was sent home. It would have been hard for her definitely but remember a few months has gone by since then and she's probably reconciled to the fact he wasn't the one for her. She's handled it well though.
Of course we may all be mistaken and they run off together into the sunset but I can't see it.
Wow, so I’ve finally caught up…a lot to digest there.
That whole episode was kinda awkward…ironic because they all spent so much time talking about how it’s not awkward lol. I think because playing all the dates right after one another it gives an odd sense and you do realize that Sam is saying the same things over and over again. I think they handled the “speed dating” thing much better with the editing last year. In fact the whole editing for tonight was odd. In the preview at the start they showed both Nina and Heather talking to Sam at the cocktail party but then they made it a point on the show that they didn’t. weird. And Sarah all of a sudden was getting a bit of a bitchy edit about Lana and she’s never seemed anything but sweet. Very odd. Knowing she and Lana are both in the final 3 I really hope they’re not planning on throwing her under the bus to help ease the reaction if Sam chooses Lana.
It’s sad with Sam and Heather because their relationship hasn’t progressed and I think it’s because they’re both completely clueless to the real issue and to their own involvement in that. Heather’s walls in regards to physical intimacy with Sam seemed to pop up a while ago (always having her leg between them, etc) and it coincided with falling for him. Knowing that’s made her vulnerable (and she seems to have some serious childhood baggage) I think she needs some kind of gesture from Sam to let those physical walls down. However it hasn’t come and I think it’s because Sam is simply under the impression that she's the only one at fault for trying to push them into the friendzone. I don’t think he actually realises how hard she’s fallen or considered the possibility that that’s made her vulnerable and shut off physically. The "dude" thing for me is a defensive thing but I think Sam only sees it as her friend zoning them. It kills the intimacy but not because she wants to. That part of the fault comes back on Heather because she doesn’t show Sam that there’s a lot more under the surface in terms of her feelings. She’s told the audience but she hasn’t told Sam. I get the impression that she thinks her place is pretty secure (or did until tonight) and doesn’t think she needs to give him anything else and put herself out there to get crushed until she knows she’s the one – but that kinda goes back on Sam because up until this point he’s made it very easy for her (first roses, on all the dates, etc).
It’s kinda sad because there was a lot of potential there but they didn’t get on the same page when they needed to.
Sorry about my long post - I can't believe I wrote that much about the Bach haha - but it just became apparent what I think has gone wrong for Sam and Heather tonight. I'm happy I got to see that because now i'll understand her leaving.
Now off to read your commentaries which I sadly had to miss tonight.
That whole episode was kinda awkward…ironic because they all spent so much time talking about how it’s not awkward lol. I think because playing all the dates right after one another it gives an odd sense and you do realize that Sam is saying the same things over and over again. I think they handled the “speed dating” thing much better with the editing last year. In fact the whole editing for tonight was odd. In the preview at the start they showed both Nina and Heather talking to Sam at the cocktail party but then they made it a point on the show that they didn’t. weird. And Sarah all of a sudden was getting a bit of a bitchy edit about Lana and she’s never seemed anything but sweet. Very odd. Knowing she and Lana are both in the final 3 I really hope they’re not planning on throwing her under the bus to help ease the reaction if Sam chooses Lana.
It’s sad with Sam and Heather because their relationship hasn’t progressed and I think it’s because they’re both completely clueless to the real issue and to their own involvement in that. Heather’s walls in regards to physical intimacy with Sam seemed to pop up a while ago (always having her leg between them, etc) and it coincided with falling for him. Knowing that’s made her vulnerable (and she seems to have some serious childhood baggage) I think she needs some kind of gesture from Sam to let those physical walls down. However it hasn’t come and I think it’s because Sam is simply under the impression that she's the only one at fault for trying to push them into the friendzone. I don’t think he actually realises how hard she’s fallen or considered the possibility that that’s made her vulnerable and shut off physically. The "dude" thing for me is a defensive thing but I think Sam only sees it as her friend zoning them. It kills the intimacy but not because she wants to. That part of the fault comes back on Heather because she doesn’t show Sam that there’s a lot more under the surface in terms of her feelings. She’s told the audience but she hasn’t told Sam. I get the impression that she thinks her place is pretty secure (or did until tonight) and doesn’t think she needs to give him anything else and put herself out there to get crushed until she knows she’s the one – but that kinda goes back on Sam because up until this point he’s made it very easy for her (first roses, on all the dates, etc).
It’s kinda sad because there was a lot of potential there but they didn’t get on the same page when they needed to.
Sorry about my long post - I can't believe I wrote that much about the Bach haha - but it just became apparent what I think has gone wrong for Sam and Heather tonight. I'm happy I got to see that because now i'll understand her leaving.
Now off to read your commentaries which I sadly had to miss tonight.
I think/hope them showing Eve is because Snez won. I don't see any other reason for putting a kid on television unless they need to so the final outcome is believable (Sam knowing Eve and thinking they can make it work).
sorceress86
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Their friendship was obvious, I don't think they had romantic chemistry... Their dates were pretty unremarkable in terms of romance.
Nina has posted on Instagram about her time on The Bachelor. This is Snez's response:
- snezanamarkoskiFIRST - HOW DARE YOU leave me and make me go into UGLY CRY - not cool at all!!! And secondly -CONGRATULATIONS on the end of one amazing journey and the start of another!!! I am so blessed to have met such a beautiful strong straight shooter with a heart of gold like yourself. You honestly made my journey in the house so enjoyable from our late night chats and giggles with bowls of ice cream to the early morning chats and giggles..... with bowls of ice cream ...... Hmmmmm I see a pattern here! you were honestly my rock inside the house and you were always there for me, especially when things got tough being away from Eve and I can never thank you enough for that. I have found the most amazing friend in you and you continue to be your honest amazing beautiful self outside the house (even when I get texts at 4.30AM ) Love you girl! Stay your gorgeous beautiful self and don't you dare change for anyone!!
Maybe the previews and tonight's episode (plus completely editing her out of the previous two) are to alert fans that she's going so they don't have mass backlash to deal with tomorrow? Also ratings and all that.[DOUBLEPOST=1441799851][/DOUBLEPOST]
It's sad that those would be two of their more riveting stories lol.
Nina has posted on Instagram about her time on The Bachelor. This is Snez's response:
- snezanamarkoskiFIRST - HOW DARE YOU leave me and make me go into UGLY CRY - not cool at all!!! And secondly -CONGRATULATIONS on the end of one amazing journey and the start of another!!! I am so blessed to have met such a beautiful strong straight shooter with a heart of gold like yourself. You honestly made my journey in the house so enjoyable from our late night chats and giggles with bowls of ice cream to the early morning chats and giggles..... with bowls of ice cream ...... Hmmmmm I see a pattern here! you were honestly my rock inside the house and you were always there for me, especially when things got tough being away from Eve and I can never thank you enough for that. I have found the most amazing friend in you and you continue to be your honest amazing beautiful self outside the house (even when I get texts at 4.30AM ) Love you girl! Stay your gorgeous beautiful self and don't you dare change for anyone!!
This is super cute. They seem to have a really nice genuine friendship.
sorceress86
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I'd agree cept I feel like showing Sam meeting Eve is end game...Snez.