Oh and I forgot to add, I wonder if the mentioned 'I can see Brinkpeople' on their profile, actually trys to help others?
Hey DebI am really quite concerned at the way some people (well, one in particular) posts on these forums. I was given a type load of words that was very nasty and for someone that says that they can see Brinkpeople is very concerning. The words that were spat at me, could turn a person, at the Brink - to make a very bad decision.
I think this persons words sum it up, who this person really is. I believe I am compassionate and try to understand whatever people posts are about and are going through. Going off topic on a thread, can happen - but to upset the people that are having a chat about a meeting up and by who would never intend to ever meet up, is beyond me.
This is what is had said to me
Kindly speak on your own behalf, hooley. You are neither objective nor mentally equipped to judge others. Your repetitive hard knock life self pitying skit and bellyaching are hardly intelligent, constructive or enjoyable. Move on. reepbot has more optimism in his 'dribble' than your jaded at life toxic bile.
And that was in response to this:
umm I think this thread was about a real time meet up, that I am sure you or WB would never be interested in - so why bother posting in here?
I can so understand Groovers frustration at your 'different' ways of posting, when she posts facts and how she really feels. I so get her frustration with the way you act around here, I get it but I have been trying to understand why you keep on doing so.......... attention seeking? I really don't get it.
Just to make life better for others on the forum, that wish to have a friendly chat and on the point - maybe I suggest, why don't you just stick to your own thread? You will get the people who wish to converse with you there. I do think you have good qualities - but sometimes you can be a really annoying poster - with nothing but dribble that makes no sense .......
Think about it ..........
ANYWAY - I won't be go taking my life over it, even though the person that can see 'brinkpeople', and he may want me to , seeing he said what he did about me and I am so not like that ......
The point is - that there are fragile people out there - those brinks - people do NOT need to be TOLD that they are this and that. He has it STATED on his profile that HE CAN SEE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!
This is so MAJOR BULLY TACTICS and what brings a person to do that, to another???????
Anyway, all is good - My Life goes on and maybe soon there will be no Forum here and that might be a good thing, if people like this are allowed to say things about others and drag up the past, that they have moved on from
After reading Deb's heartfelt and emotion filled response to the spiteful words he directed at her and how it made her feel, it looks to me that his "good behaviour bond" flew out the window quite before the "strong northerly, back-to-work flush of hot air" posted.*Good behaviour bond flys out of window due to strong northerly, back-to-work flush of hot air*
I changed to 'I see brinkpeople' when Groover first started waving her "I'm leaving" brinkmanship flag to throw her weight around before finally taking a low, gutter cheapshot at reepbot on the way out that few self-appointed social justice warriors have had the spine to point out. hooley's own rhetorical diva departure that she derailed multiple threads advertising lasted how long in preparation and how long in total? Threatening leaving is meaningless, especially of it's a free card to be vile to people, as hooley used it, only to return shortly after.
hooley, kindly name the list of people you have ushered to post in only a single thread other than reepbot. Your actions were passive aggressive bullying layered under unintelligent, patronising deceit and misdirection.
Nicely thread derailed hooley. Really spreading your net. Feeling sorry for yourself over the term 'brink' in a brinkmanship context really shows the lengths you go to to drum up sympathy, pity party planner.
Are you taking about Witty's post in the politics thread where he used you as the butt of his joke when he implied you were too stupid to understand what the Pirate Party stood for?it seems that discrimination against people with disabilities is encouraged very strongly here by posters. which is very scary. who knows how far they will go? which is sad as i thought that this forum was a place for tolerance and understanding.
the over worked and fair moderators can only do so much. but they can't change anybody's bigoted and frightening nature.
Catch up dopey, bluefin was spot on and providing prior historical examples of 'brinkmanship' usage that escaped hooley's low and selective grasp. And apparently yours. LOL that your failure to understand that now becomes 'proof' positive.All that proves is that you are unhealthily obsessed with me and you are completely fixated on a post you found from 2012, that involved consenting adults, laughter and sexual content. If you are not interested, why do you continue to search through my posts and fixate on me?
There are 24 hours in a day and personal responses and mood throughout that day varies. You can be playful, sad or sexual at one point in the day, and feel indignant at another. It is called a range of emotions, and it is a normal human response.
But to get this back on topic. RUOK? Because this mental forum crusade you have concocted where you are the self proclaimed truth speaker and clique slayer is not normal. This constant changing of custom titles, sig lines and profile pictures to try and mock and upset your newest fixation is not normal. Judging by the different interpretations to what you no doubt saw as clever mass debating word smithery with your "I see brinkpeople" proves you are no where near as clever or as easily understood as you think you are. Hooley thought it was about her, Bluefin thought it was about Mooseface, then came the surprise, after you explained, it was discovered that it was in fact directed to your newest fixation Groover! Again, this is not normal.
The vast majority of your interactions in this forum are argumentative, have you ever stopped and wondered why that is?
Given that I asked you a direct question I am quietly confident your cleverly well thought out response will include the usual:- I have a crooked tooth, I used drugs over 20 years ago, I have jowls, I am overweight, I like sex, and I once posted about using a champagne bottle sexually in 2012.
That brinkpeople is a PC play on 'brinkman'/brinkmanship and hooley's self harmy narrative was misdirected.
I think control is the wrong word. But I think its fairly clear that in general they dont like that you repeatedly post very random stuff that has nothing to do with what eceryone else is discussing and that you provoke. And - it seems - intentionally try to derail a thread. And they would like you to tone it down and have asked you to and you refuse. I think basically thats the 'issue'.why do people want to try and control me?
Yep, it's not "control" it's stop interrupting conversations you have no interest in.I think control is the wrong word. But I think its fairly clear that in general they dont like that you repeatedly post very random stuff that has nothing to do with what eceryone else is discussing and that you provoke. And - it seems - intentionally try to derail a thread. And they would like you to tone it down and have asked you to and you refuse. I think basically thats the 'issue'.
I think control is the wrong word. But I think its fairly clear that in general they dont like that you repeatedly post very random stuff that has nothing to do with what eceryone else is discussing and that you provoke. And - it seems - intentionally try to derail a thread. And they would like you to tone it down and have asked you to and you refuse. I think basically thats the 'issue'.
The bigger point is, every thread people choose to post in is important to them for whatever reason, whether it's about a TV show, chit-chat or about mental health. All troll posting anywhere is toxic. Don't like the posters, don't interact, don't like the topic, don't interact, it's not that hard.Ok Kids. Tonic. This Thread is for Support. Take the toxicity elsewhere.