camerashy1
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does 'Greg Miller' work for CH9, he seems to message people from CH9 shows? maybe the social president?
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missingout
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Possibly in his own little world he does. I'm leaning towards putting him with Bella / Sophie and they can share coffee and a chat about Ed.
Willoughby
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That would one reason to message them I guess. He claims to know a lot about the training of AFL athletes, some sort of sports job?
camerashy1
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i am going to sound very bad here, but he seems too nice to be a guy, unless he is being paid by someone to be nice, as in it's his job. should i be running?
maybe he is the real Prince Charming?
tim dormer @timdormer 1h
Walking with @TahnyLew &she sneezed out a booger...lucky we were near a chemist where she could buy tissues!! LOL
one of Tim's recent dare videos he tasted his own boogers..
Firstly ewwww. Secondly Tahan reads Japanese?
Willoughby
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Like a kind of rent-a-fan service? I can't see a Prince Charming, something not right with him. More Prince Smarmy for me, but I am suspicious by nature.i am going to sound very bad here, but he seems too nice to be a guy, unless he is being paid by someone to be nice, as in it's his job. should i be running?
maybe he is the real Prince Charming?
camerashy1
SWEEPA 10
we could be rent-a-fans, but instead of fake insty people we are the real deal. Baileys as payment, nothing less. i am turning into a freebee wannabe, i have learnt so much off the great teachers of the art
Greg is actually very polite, a good quality to have. if you are going to have a stalker he might be the sort to have as he is not entirely focused on one person, haha
Tully Smyth @tee_smyth 7m
It's been a long time coming...my thoughts on the reality of reality TV: http://youngbloodsocial.tumblr.com/post/85107894725/the-reality-of-reality-tv… off the back of today's @newscomauHQ story.
The Reality of Reality TV
This blog has been a long time coming. In fact, I’ve started to write it maybe three or four times since being evicted from the Big Brother house back in September 2013 however it’s a tricky one to put out there, mainly because you’ve got to be really careful at who you’re pointing fingers at. The last thing you would want to do- as someone hoping to stay in the television and media industry - is bite the hand that feeds you.
That being said, today’s article on news.com.au, featuring Kelly from My Kitchen Rules has inspired me to finally put my own two cents on paper (or screen, as it were).
Before I get into a few home truths about reality TV and the lives of the d-list ‘stars’ that are produced as a result of it- I need to get something very clear.
Despite the print and social media shit storm that I was greeted with upon leaving the house, and the continued online bullying and trolling that I am subjected to on a daily basis - and even what my friends and family believe was the crux of the public backlash I experienced- I never once blamed the editing of the show or the producers.
Did they force me to make the decisions I made in that house? No. Did they put words in my mouth? No. Did the producers call me into the diary room and ask me to act a certain way or use certain words? No.
Did they put me in alien situations where I would act differently to what I perhaps would on the outside world? Yeah, of course. Did they make conscious decisions to show certain clips of me, where I may have been at my most entertaining (even if that meant I was crying)? Yep.
But what did I expect? It’s a reality television program designed to entertain. I knew what I was risking, I knew what I was putting myself up for and I signed along the dotted line anyway.
With that being said, I think it’s a little rich for Kelly to blame editing for the way in which she wad depicted.
Was it a glowing example of her personality? Not exactly. Was it fair? Maybe not. But she knew what she was signing up for and she said every single word that was aired- she just probably wishes they hadn’t picked and ignored the parts they did.
Now that I’ve said that- what I will support Kelly whole heartedly on, and what I’ve discussed countless times with other realty television ‘stars’ (X-Factor, The Voice, The Bachelor, Australia’s Next Top Model, The Block and Big Brother just to name a few) is just how fucking tough it is after the bubble bursts.
One minute you are being pampered and cared for by everyone from executive producers of the show who can’t stop telling you how fantastic you are, to chaperones who’s one job in life for the next 10 days is to look after your every whim. You get cars sent to carry you from A-B, flights all over the country, publicists air-kissing you, patting you on the back telling you how fantastic you’re doing. You have the glowing prospect of a career in the field you’ve always dreamed of- shimmering just off in the future like an oasis in the dessert.
Yeah sure, there are a few negative Tweet’s coming your way but it’s no skin off your nose- you’ve got a plane to catch, a fancy dress to slip into and a celebrity event to attend.
And then it all stops.
As suddenly as it started and before you can say “but where is my hotel transfer?”- only a handful of those people give a flying shit who you are, how you are or what you’re feeling.
You struggle to slip back into your old life. Your group of friends, despite watching your every move through their television screens and feeling like they’ve really gone on this adventure with you- really have no idea what they’re talking about.
Your old job would probably take you back if you went begging with your tail between your legs but could you handle it? All the whispering and the looks? Doesn’t that mean the small window of opportunity has now indeed closed and you have failed at making anything of yourself?
You’re broke. Initially, stuck in a contract but then just struggling to find work. All the clothes on your back were a gift from brands wanting you to promote their stuff on your Instagram and all the parties you’re constantly photographed at meant you were fed and watered for free- in fact it’s the best meal you’ve had all week! You have to move back into your parents, live off your mother’s superannuation or borrow rent off younger siblings.
You’re exhausted. Emotionally, physically, mentally. Despite appreciating all the fun, excitement and once-in-a-lifetime opportunities that have been bestowed upon you, you feel like you need a 5 week holiday on a beach somewhere lying very, very still to recover.
You’re overwhelmed. Don’t get me wrong, all the online love from people who call themselves ‘fans’ is heart warming. You put up a half-decent photo of yourself and you’re inundated with compliments.
Unfortunately- the negative comments are the ones that stick with you, worming their way into your brain, making you question and second guess yourself. “Maybe my boobs ARE really saggy?” “I thought I looked good in that dress….” Whilst they were easy to ignore during and immediately following the show, back when you were up to your eyeballs with appearances and post-show commitments…now, back at home, by yourself, at 10pm at night, after a day of doing nothing because remember, you don’t have a job- they make you feel really fucking shitty.
However perhaps the harshest reality of reality television is the lack of psychological support.
I can’t speak on behalf of other reality television programs however at Big Brother, apart from the initial chat with the psychologist immediately after you are evicted- there isn’t a whole lot of help in that regard. Sure, you’re told you’re able to talk to the show psch whenever you want, post-show however you’re not exactly sure how open and honest you feel you can be with someone so closely affiliated with the program.
It got to a point where I requested the production company cover the costs of a psychologist of my choosing- which admittedly they were more than happy to do.
I do however believe it would be hugely beneficial for future reality television contestants of all shows, on all networks- to have compulsory check in’s with an independent psychologist once a week, 6-12 months after completion of the program. At least. And this is something I will be passing on to the people that be at Big Brother.
With that all being said- my memories and feelings towards Big Brother are by far and away, overwhelmingly positive.
I love all the producers and crew members like they are extended family members (weird Uncles and crazy Aunts). It was the most fun I’ve ever had in my life and if I could do it again I would, in a heartbeat. (Probably make some different choices, sure but hindsight is always 20/20.)
I guess what I really wanted to get out of writing this article is a little bit of empathy and understanding for people like Kelly.
Yes- we put ourselves in the limelight. Yes, we do receive certain benefits such as invites to some cool parties and free clothes here and there. But do we deserve the online bullying or constant public scrutiny after the cameras have stopped rolling? No.
We’re human. We’re people. We have feelings and insecurities. We make mistakes- just like you. We just happen to be silly enough to agree to have them filmed for a national audience.
And it’s not all doom and gloom, by any means. I’m sure the reality shock will subside and we’ll slip back into every day life painlessly, looking back on our time on the telly with the fondest of memories but just so you know- in case you hadn’t thought too much about it- the aftermath of a show such as MKR or Big Brother isn’t easy or as glamorous as you might think.
SO- next time you think about commenting on a photo of that new Voice contestant, telling her she looked chubby in her dress last night…maybe think again. Instead, tell her you’d never have the balls to get up on stage and give it your all in front of so many people and walk away feeling good about yourself.
It's been a long time coming...my thoughts on the reality of reality TV: http://youngbloodsocial.tumblr.com/post/85107894725/the-reality-of-reality-tv… off the back of today's @newscomauHQ story.
The Reality of Reality TV
This blog has been a long time coming. In fact, I’ve started to write it maybe three or four times since being evicted from the Big Brother house back in September 2013 however it’s a tricky one to put out there, mainly because you’ve got to be really careful at who you’re pointing fingers at. The last thing you would want to do- as someone hoping to stay in the television and media industry - is bite the hand that feeds you.
That being said, today’s article on news.com.au, featuring Kelly from My Kitchen Rules has inspired me to finally put my own two cents on paper (or screen, as it were).
Before I get into a few home truths about reality TV and the lives of the d-list ‘stars’ that are produced as a result of it- I need to get something very clear.
Despite the print and social media shit storm that I was greeted with upon leaving the house, and the continued online bullying and trolling that I am subjected to on a daily basis - and even what my friends and family believe was the crux of the public backlash I experienced- I never once blamed the editing of the show or the producers.
Did they force me to make the decisions I made in that house? No. Did they put words in my mouth? No. Did the producers call me into the diary room and ask me to act a certain way or use certain words? No.
Did they put me in alien situations where I would act differently to what I perhaps would on the outside world? Yeah, of course. Did they make conscious decisions to show certain clips of me, where I may have been at my most entertaining (even if that meant I was crying)? Yep.
But what did I expect? It’s a reality television program designed to entertain. I knew what I was risking, I knew what I was putting myself up for and I signed along the dotted line anyway.
With that being said, I think it’s a little rich for Kelly to blame editing for the way in which she wad depicted.
Was it a glowing example of her personality? Not exactly. Was it fair? Maybe not. But she knew what she was signing up for and she said every single word that was aired- she just probably wishes they hadn’t picked and ignored the parts they did.
Now that I’ve said that- what I will support Kelly whole heartedly on, and what I’ve discussed countless times with other realty television ‘stars’ (X-Factor, The Voice, The Bachelor, Australia’s Next Top Model, The Block and Big Brother just to name a few) is just how fucking tough it is after the bubble bursts.
One minute you are being pampered and cared for by everyone from executive producers of the show who can’t stop telling you how fantastic you are, to chaperones who’s one job in life for the next 10 days is to look after your every whim. You get cars sent to carry you from A-B, flights all over the country, publicists air-kissing you, patting you on the back telling you how fantastic you’re doing. You have the glowing prospect of a career in the field you’ve always dreamed of- shimmering just off in the future like an oasis in the dessert.
Yeah sure, there are a few negative Tweet’s coming your way but it’s no skin off your nose- you’ve got a plane to catch, a fancy dress to slip into and a celebrity event to attend.
And then it all stops.
As suddenly as it started and before you can say “but where is my hotel transfer?”- only a handful of those people give a flying shit who you are, how you are or what you’re feeling.
You struggle to slip back into your old life. Your group of friends, despite watching your every move through their television screens and feeling like they’ve really gone on this adventure with you- really have no idea what they’re talking about.
Your old job would probably take you back if you went begging with your tail between your legs but could you handle it? All the whispering and the looks? Doesn’t that mean the small window of opportunity has now indeed closed and you have failed at making anything of yourself?
You’re broke. Initially, stuck in a contract but then just struggling to find work. All the clothes on your back were a gift from brands wanting you to promote their stuff on your Instagram and all the parties you’re constantly photographed at meant you were fed and watered for free- in fact it’s the best meal you’ve had all week! You have to move back into your parents, live off your mother’s superannuation or borrow rent off younger siblings.
You’re exhausted. Emotionally, physically, mentally. Despite appreciating all the fun, excitement and once-in-a-lifetime opportunities that have been bestowed upon you, you feel like you need a 5 week holiday on a beach somewhere lying very, very still to recover.
You’re overwhelmed. Don’t get me wrong, all the online love from people who call themselves ‘fans’ is heart warming. You put up a half-decent photo of yourself and you’re inundated with compliments.
Unfortunately- the negative comments are the ones that stick with you, worming their way into your brain, making you question and second guess yourself. “Maybe my boobs ARE really saggy?” “I thought I looked good in that dress….” Whilst they were easy to ignore during and immediately following the show, back when you were up to your eyeballs with appearances and post-show commitments…now, back at home, by yourself, at 10pm at night, after a day of doing nothing because remember, you don’t have a job- they make you feel really fucking shitty.
However perhaps the harshest reality of reality television is the lack of psychological support.
I can’t speak on behalf of other reality television programs however at Big Brother, apart from the initial chat with the psychologist immediately after you are evicted- there isn’t a whole lot of help in that regard. Sure, you’re told you’re able to talk to the show psch whenever you want, post-show however you’re not exactly sure how open and honest you feel you can be with someone so closely affiliated with the program.
It got to a point where I requested the production company cover the costs of a psychologist of my choosing- which admittedly they were more than happy to do.
I do however believe it would be hugely beneficial for future reality television contestants of all shows, on all networks- to have compulsory check in’s with an independent psychologist once a week, 6-12 months after completion of the program. At least. And this is something I will be passing on to the people that be at Big Brother.
With that all being said- my memories and feelings towards Big Brother are by far and away, overwhelmingly positive.
I love all the producers and crew members like they are extended family members (weird Uncles and crazy Aunts). It was the most fun I’ve ever had in my life and if I could do it again I would, in a heartbeat. (Probably make some different choices, sure but hindsight is always 20/20.)
I guess what I really wanted to get out of writing this article is a little bit of empathy and understanding for people like Kelly.
Yes- we put ourselves in the limelight. Yes, we do receive certain benefits such as invites to some cool parties and free clothes here and there. But do we deserve the online bullying or constant public scrutiny after the cameras have stopped rolling? No.
We’re human. We’re people. We have feelings and insecurities. We make mistakes- just like you. We just happen to be silly enough to agree to have them filmed for a national audience.
And it’s not all doom and gloom, by any means. I’m sure the reality shock will subside and we’ll slip back into every day life painlessly, looking back on our time on the telly with the fondest of memories but just so you know- in case you hadn’t thought too much about it- the aftermath of a show such as MKR or Big Brother isn’t easy or as glamorous as you might think.
SO- next time you think about commenting on a photo of that new Voice contestant, telling her she looked chubby in her dress last night…maybe think again. Instead, tell her you’d never have the balls to get up on stage and give it your all in front of so many people and walk away feeling good about yourself.
^ I respect that
I was trying to find the words to say what I thought, but I think you nailed it.
missingout
Well-Known Member
i am going to sound very bad here, but he seems too nice to be a guy, unless he is being paid by someone to be nice, as in it's his job. should i be running?
maybe he is the real Prince Charming?
I actually thought quite a lot of him when he first started writing on Nick's blog but then when the long winded stuff got worse I changed my mind. I'm sure he is a nice man and he does know quite a bit about AFL, I'm just not sure where he fits into the picture and for a while there was a bit over the top towards Jade as well.
missingout
Well-Known Member
delete double post...stupid computer
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camerashy1
SWEEPA 10
this is a great read
i have no idea about the lady from MKR, i didn't watch it, don't know who she is, or what happened
i did watch BB however, and i will concentrate on Tully in my post
i think she maybe could have come out of this a lot better if she had left a couple of weeks earlier. there was so much discussion about her mental health that people were busy trying to diagnose what particular problem she had, but as a generic name for it, people called her crazy. i believed the environment she was in magnified her behaviour, and the fact she said she did not have the emotional support of her family and friends were a cause, she was not like this on the outside, she said so herself. the warning sign was there for BB to take some action and make sure she was ok, and to continue to make sure she was ok. i will say i never disliked Tully, but i knew as she walked out that house she was walking into trouble, and i was more than worried about her, i feared for her
what i don't get, and never ever will, is why did she keep going back and fueling the fire? she went back the night after her eviction, then for the freeze task, and again for Drew's eviction, even though she knew this would set off the hate all over again, and again, and again, and i was hearing my friends cringe at her name, but i thought she was actually being quite strong for doing this
now was this something that she had to do under contract because i thought that it was, or was there a stage at any point she could just say a simple no? would they have accepted that answer from her? is there an out, an option? it makes you wonder why people would risk this crap to be on a show, because as much as some people might have the urge to audition, can you come out the other side and handle the judgement from people?
lesson? one day everything will come to an end, be prepared. very fitting considering i saw Ben in his boy scouts uniform a while back, hahaha
do i also have to run after this post? longest post ever
i have no idea about the lady from MKR, i didn't watch it, don't know who she is, or what happened
i did watch BB however, and i will concentrate on Tully in my post
i think she maybe could have come out of this a lot better if she had left a couple of weeks earlier. there was so much discussion about her mental health that people were busy trying to diagnose what particular problem she had, but as a generic name for it, people called her crazy. i believed the environment she was in magnified her behaviour, and the fact she said she did not have the emotional support of her family and friends were a cause, she was not like this on the outside, she said so herself. the warning sign was there for BB to take some action and make sure she was ok, and to continue to make sure she was ok. i will say i never disliked Tully, but i knew as she walked out that house she was walking into trouble, and i was more than worried about her, i feared for her
what i don't get, and never ever will, is why did she keep going back and fueling the fire? she went back the night after her eviction, then for the freeze task, and again for Drew's eviction, even though she knew this would set off the hate all over again, and again, and again, and i was hearing my friends cringe at her name, but i thought she was actually being quite strong for doing this
now was this something that she had to do under contract because i thought that it was, or was there a stage at any point she could just say a simple no? would they have accepted that answer from her? is there an out, an option? it makes you wonder why people would risk this crap to be on a show, because as much as some people might have the urge to audition, can you come out the other side and handle the judgement from people?
lesson? one day everything will come to an end, be prepared. very fitting considering i saw Ben in his boy scouts uniform a while back, hahaha
do i also have to run after this post? longest post ever
camerashy1
SWEEPA 10
so I'm thinking Tim took his friend Jade along to the dentist he spruiked on his video ... what are the chances?Jade Albany @JadeAlbany 6h
Fining out you need $8000 of dentle work first thing in the morning is a great way to ruin my day #stressing #goodbyehousedeposit
smurfette
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WOW! THIS is the sort of photo that I've been waiting to see of Jade modelling ... the only other one that came remotely close was the one in the black dress taken in a warehouse of some sort ... that was stunning also
Just wish she'd had something like this to wear in the Finale!
Stephy18
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She isn't feeling sorry for herself she is expressing how life is like after BB and the experience she had. And about the trolling. And as far as Drew is concerned well he doesn't have a permanat job but he isn't doing nothing either. So don't hate on Tully or Drew.
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