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this is a great read

i have no idea about the lady from MKR, i didn't watch it, don't know who she is, or what happened

i did watch BB however, and i will concentrate on Tully in my post

i think she maybe could have come out of this a lot better if she had left a couple of weeks earlier. there was so much discussion about her mental health that people were busy trying to diagnose what particular problem she had, but as a generic name for it, people called her crazy. i believed the environment she was in magnified her behaviour, and the fact she said she did not have the emotional support of her family and friends were a cause, she was not like this on the outside, she said so herself. the warning sign was there for BB to take some action and make sure she was ok, and to continue to make sure she was ok. i will say i never disliked Tully, but i knew as she walked out that house she was walking into trouble, and i was more than worried about her, i feared for her

what i don't get, and never ever will, is why did she keep going back and fueling the fire? she went back the night after her eviction, then for the freeze task, and again for Drew's eviction, even though she knew this would set off the hate all over again, and again, and again, and i was hearing my friends cringe at her name, but i thought she was actually being quite strong for doing this

now was this something that she had to do under contract because i thought that it was, or was there a stage at any point she could just say a simple no? would they have accepted that answer from her? is there an out, an option? it makes you wonder why people would risk this crap to be on a show, because as much as some people might have the urge to audition, can you come out the other side and handle the judgement from people?

lesson? one day everything will come to an end, be prepared. very fitting considering i saw Ben in his boy scouts uniform a while back, hahaha

do i also have to run after this post? longest post ever

Well said @camerashy1 - I hated Tully, and I never wanted to see her again after she was evicted. I despised that they did that stupid interview after she was evicted, and then the freeze task. After the freeze task, Tahlia tweeted something along the lines of "way to show Australia you're a cheater" and this forum/SM went mental. And it dawned on me that maybe Tully was being "used" by BB to create ratings/SM talk. I still don't know the answer.
 
WOW! THIS is the sort of photo that I've been waiting to see of Jade modelling ... the only other one that came remotely close was the one in the black dress taken in a warehouse of some sort ... that was stunning also
Just wish she'd had something like this to wear in the Finale!

From memory, the 2 black dresses she wore in that warehouse shoot were from the same designer/person as this one

Edit - yep, same person -

jadealbany
6 months ago
Shooting gowns @nikiteljega thanks dan molloy for your great work x
 
Well said @camerashy1 - I hated Tully, and I never wanted to see her again after she was evicted. I despised that they did that stupid interview after she was evicted, and then the freeze task. After the freeze task, Tahlia tweeted something along the lines of "way to show Australia you're a cheater" and this forum/SM went mental. And it dawned on me that maybe Tully was being "used" by BB to create ratings/SM talk. I still don't know the answer.

i don't think we will ever know the answer, but if they play that same card twice we will
 
Tully Smyth ‏@tee_smyth
One of my most favourite people embarks on his very own USA journey today. @drewanthony88 safe travels & eat lots! ❤️ pic.twitter.com/Capmr3nonj
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Heidi Anderson ‏@RealHeidi 43m
@tee_smyth @drewanthony88 bye bye drewby! Love ya xx

Anthony Drew ‏@drewanthony88 41m
@tee_smyth gonna get fattt

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  1. Martine ‏@MarziSpace 46m
    @JadeAlbany Gee Jade I was so proud of how you defended Tully. So much so that I had tears in my eyes. Thanks for standing up for her. Xxx



  2. Jade Albany ‏@JadeAlbany 26m
    @MarziSpace i had had enough she doesn't deserve that, thank you for sticking up for her too x

Jade on Tully's instagram:

jadealbany
What does it accomplish to call tully names? for you personally what does it accomplish? Does it make you feel better about your life? Or make you feel good to hurt someone? Do you like it when people kill themselves because of awful things people write on social media? Does it make you happy to know you killed someone? made them cry and hurt? Just dont say ANYTHING! Get off her page and leave her alone go get a life and get off your phone stop spreading nothing but hate and sadness. Last time i checked no body is perfect and you dont know her i do and she is wonderful loving and caring. Your Awful comments are so unessasary!

I have loved these posts today - it gives me good vibes to see them all caring about each other. :smug: It has made my day:smile:
 
Well said @camerashy1 - I hated Tully, and I never wanted to see her again after she was evicted. I despised that they did that stupid interview after she was evicted, and then the freeze task. After the freeze task, Tahlia tweeted something along the lines of "way to show Australia you're a cheater" and this forum/SM went mental. And it dawned on me that maybe Tully was being "used" by BB to create ratings/SM talk. I still don't know the answer.
Granted I had a more positive view of her (as a person, not her actions, obv), but I certainly think it was a bit of both. I.e. that she has no one to blame but herself for taking part in those things, but I think it would be pretty farfetched to think she was driving the bus on it all. She wasn't just walking in and ending up on the show again. Or to put it another way, I think she was in a fragile state and clearly hungry for more attention, but the producers etc. were more than willing to take advantage of that.
 
I'm on the fence about a potential move as well. I think the signs could be there - between Tully's #changeisacomin post, her post about Drew being her rock, the frequent Melb visits, their generally more open interaction on social media and Drew's impending change in living situation - that it could foreseeably be on the cards.

I also think their breakup was likely as much to do with the circumstances of their lives as anything else. I wouldn't be surprised if it was more of a break than a breakup (no Friends jokes) and that they decided to go away for a few months, attempt to sort their problems out (ie Tully mending fences with her friends/Tahlia) and then see whether it's worth giving it another shot down the line. If they are getting back together, I can't really see them doing the long distance thing again given the way Tully's spoken about how awful it was.

But then again, a move to Melb makes way more sense to me and I can't see Tully doing it.

@littlebear I think there's every chance you're right about them just being friends. But I really don't think Tully's talk about being single indicates much either way. When they broke up she held out revealing it for a month in order to cash in on it. Maybe she's hoping for the same again? And given she's spoken about how the public pressure made things harder, it wouldn't surprise me if she planned to keep things as private as possible next time around.
@BlackJungle there is room on the fence for you as well - @Willoughby will just have to move over a little bit. Hope you like Baileys (that is is there is any left) :smuggrin:
 
She isn't feeling sorry for herself she is expressing how life is like after BB and the experience she had. And about the trolling. And as far as Drew is concerned well he doesn't have a permanat job but he isn't doing nothing either. So don't hate on Tully or Drew.

Hahaha I'm not 'hating' on Tully or Drew. They were my favourites in the house.
Neither of them have permanent jobs and Tully complained about having to borrow money so the obvious solution is to get a job. In my opinion, this would also stop her from thinking about the trolls and herself so much. "My opinion"
 
That is an excellent theory with which I concur. But I'm afraid the seating arrangements have changed. We used your spot to store more Baileys so you'll have to wait a while until we clear some real estate.
:arghh: :arghh: :arghh: . Now @Willoughby do you want me to throw a tantrum. I did ask you nicely to mind my spot for me. Maybe if I bring some more Baileys and a cheese platter? :shy:
 
Hahaha I'm not 'hating' on Tully or Drew. They were my favourites in the house.
Neither of them have permanent jobs and Tully complained about having to borrow money so the obvious solution is to get a job. In my opinion, this would also stop her from thinking about the trolls and herself so much. "My opinion"

Oh now I understand. I can see what you mean. They were my favs too in the house
 
Jade on Tully's instagram:

jadealbany
What does it accomplish to call tully names? for you personally what does it accomplish? Does it make you feel better about your life? Or make you feel good to hurt someone? Do you like it when people kill themselves because of awful things people write on social media? Does it make you happy to know you killed someone? made them cry and hurt? Just dont say ANYTHING! Get off her page and leave her alone go get a life and get off your phone stop spreading nothing but hate and sadness. Last time i checked no body is perfect and you dont know her i do and she is wonderful loving and caring. Your Awful comments are so unessasary!
I wasn't a big fan of Jade while on Big Brother, but since the show has finished, I have grown to like and respect her. She has a great attitude and a big heart.
 
WOW! THIS is the sort of photo that I've been waiting to see of Jade modelling ... the only other one that came remotely close was the one in the black dress taken in a warehouse of some sort ... that was stunning also
Just wish she'd had something like this to wear in the Finale!

This is the same designer.

Note to self: Read through everything before replying. duh !
 
Hahaha I'm not 'hating' on Tully or Drew. They were my favourites in the house.
Neither of them have permanent jobs and Tully complained about having to borrow money so the obvious solution is to get a job. In my opinion, this would also stop her from thinking about the trolls and herself so much. "My opinion"
I agree 100%, but she touches in the blog piece on the idea of going back to an old job and the fear of having to deal with the looks and gossip and comments. And, presumably, feeling like a failure for not landing the big media career. Which would seem to apply to any "regular" job as well. I get where she's coming from, but yeah, that'd probably be something to work on getting past psychologically. She probably feels a bit paralysed.
 
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