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littlebear said:
Who knows if Tahlia is even willing to hear a face-to-face apology? I think this is yet another damned if she does, damned if she doesn't. When she first got out people were basically demanding some kind of public apology. She finally gets it together to do it, and it's wrong. Meh.
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I agree, she is trying to make things as right as she possibly can, given all of the circumstances. Allso, she is showing remorse for the cheating and trying to get her feelings out properly. Now she gets criticized for doing what many said she failed to do. She can't win, there is a group of people that will rip her at every turn no matter what she does (I didn't realize so many perfect people were around).
 
Reaper said:
Sharon Smith ‏@SharonBBAU 1m
Great night catching up with great friends [MENTION=1]Tim[/MENTION]dormer [MENTION=27570]DREW[/MENTION]BB13 [MENTION=33269]jazz[/MENTION]BellBB [MENTION=33174]boo[/MENTION]gRoe @xavbait always rely on @13CABS to get home safely
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I need evidence of this!!

So Ed and Jade skipped this I guess
 
camerashy1 said:
i said last night that i hadn't read Tully's blog and my first read was a doozy

something has happened and clicked and Tully is facing it. such an honest and genuine post, it's truly from her heart

that emergency choc she ate has obviously worked its magic trick and she has realised the consequences of her actions. i hope her GF can see her apology for what it is, heartfelt, she is remorseful, and that is all she can give
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You take cheap shots at Drew and Tully at every turn, it is quite tiring.
 
crimmy said:
Olivier Lapont ‏@OlivierLapont 2m [MENTION=27570]DREW[/MENTION]BB13 @messy7682 u mean Flogs. Some of us may have even said hello at the Ch9 Xmas party !! In fact two us did.
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Can you tell I'm getting a bit sleepy-cranky?

Mrs Butterface ‏@ MrsButterface 9s

@ OlivierLapont @ DrewBB13 @ tee_smyth I wonder how Gaspard Ulliel would feel if he knew you were posing as him online? Friggen freakshow.
 
TullyLovesDrew said:
I agree, she is trying to make things as right as she possibly can, given all of the circumstances. Allso, she is showing remorse for the cheating and trying to get her feelings out properly. Now she gets criticized for doing what many said she failed to do. She can't win, there is a group of people that will rip her at every turn no matter what she does (I didn't realize so many perfect people were around).
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settle gretel, no one has ripped her anything that i can see, a few of us think it should have been kept private which is a legitimate opinion to have and not harsh at all. Don't turn every criticism into a "poor tully every ones being mean to her" post.

there is also a group of people who seem to think every thing she does is wonderful even when it's not, and that is annoying too.
 
Mrs Butterface said:
I'm with you 100% and that's why I've avoided saying anything until now as I feel like I'm setting myself up for something here. My interpretation of that whole thing today is that their mutual friends let Tully know on the weekend that Tahlia's not happy with what she's said about it all or didn't show enough remorse. Whether it's because Tully didn't say the right words, denied things at first, maybe sounded a bit glib, sold a lovey dovey story about her and Drew to a mag, who the heck knows. They might've explained to her that while it's lovely that the media and public are now totally focused on her new love story and that's all anyone's talking about now, she never took the chance to properly apologise to Tahlia publicly for humiliating her, cheating, etc when everyone was focused on Tully/Tahlia. So now I think Tully's been smacked in the face with the realisation that she could've done a lot more publicly to try to assuage some of the pain Tahlia was feeling but instead found herself caught up in the whirlwind of new love and BB commitments. And so now she's doing it.

That's my take on it all anyway, based on nothing more than what we've pieced together throughout the months about both of their personalities and behaviour. Again... just my opinion everyone!
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Yes, you read my post perfectly. I didn't go into as much detail as your post, but I can see how you read mine and added to it. Which I appreciate btw. Sometimes time is needed to gain perspective. I believe when tully first apologised, she probably made excuses, just like she was doing in her earlier interviews. But listening to tully now, she is owning her wrong doings. She is seeing the hurt the other bares. For that, I think she is really doing this for tahlias sake
 
Jo-bot said:
settle gretel, no one has ripped her anything that i can see, a few of us think it should have been kept private which is a legitimate opinion to have and not harsh at all. Don't turn every criticism into a "poor tully every ones being mean to her" post.

there is also a group of people who seem to think every thing she does is wonderful even when it's not, and that is annoying too.
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I don't think everything she does is perfect at all, and I probably wouldn't have made this apology the way she did (but I don't know all of the circumstances and this may be the only way to get it out). I just think that people need to see it for what it is, which is an effort to make things right. Tully is flawed but we all are and we all need to keep that in mind.
 
TullyLovesDrew said:
I don't think everything she does is perfect at all, and I probably wouldn't have made this apology the way she did (but I don't know all of the circumstances and this may be the only way to get it out). I just think that people need to see it for what it is, which is an effort to make things right. Tully is flawed but we all are and we all need to keep that in mind.
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i completely agree, which is why i didn't understand the whole "people ripping into her" thing. No one did, just not everyone thinks it was the best way to go about things. No one was nasty at all.
 
camerashy1 said:
????? wow, i wonder what i am like if i throw an expensive one? lookout cowboy

this is why i am misunderstood, ha. there were no shots thrown in my post AT ALL, thanky you very muchly
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I saw you questioning Drew's gesture with the rocks and then it seemed like you were questioning Tully's attempt at a heartfelt apology and tossing in a jab or two at Tim and that is why I made that comment. I re-read your comments on Tully's apology and can see where maybe I am off-base about them
 
Sweet_Geek said:
Yes, you read my post perfectly. I didn't go into as much detail as your post, but I can see how you read mine and added to it. Which I appreciate btw. Sometimes time is needed to gain perspective. I believe when tully first apologised, she probably made excuses, just like she was doing in her earlier interviews. But listening to tully now, she is owning her wrong doings. She is seeing the hurt the other bares. For that, I think she is really doing this for tahlias sake
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Well, it's about time, glad tully is finally owning it, wish she did this weeks ago.
I hope she is doing it publicly for the right reasons.
At least tahlia will finally be able move on and hopefully people will stop asking her about tully.
 
delcan said:
From Tully's Tumblr:

I’m Sorry

Boy oh boy it’s been an interesting 11 and a bit weeks since I left the Big Brother house.

Slipping back into reality as an ex-reality TV contestant has not been as seamless as I had hoped- in fact, to be frank, it’s been pretty fucking hard and I’m still struggling.

Obviously re-joining the real world has been a different experience for all the BB housemates, however it has been an especially overwhelming and difficult ride for myself- for reasons I need not mention.

I plan to write more on this later, however the purpose of this blog is to not talk about myself (because god damn I am so bloody sick of it).

The purpose of this blog is to apologise to someone extremely important to me.

It has been brought to my attention that during the circus that was my eviction and all the subsequent media interviews (most of which I left me feeling completely ambushed and railroaded) - I may have not sufficiently apologised to my ex partner.

Only now that the BB bubble has well and truly popped- my head finally out of my own ass and my feet firmly on the ground- do I fully realise the gravity of my actions during my time in the house.

My actions caused extreme amounts of pain, confusion, humiliation and heartache. Worse still, the person suffering was the one person I loved most in the world.

I cant explain or justify what happened- that house was a psychological experiment unlike anything any of the people reading this will ever experience or understand - however I am also fully aware that that will never be a sufficient explanation.

Tahlia- I was such an fucking royal ****, an absolute asshole and an idiot and I am so, so incredibly sorry. So sorry. I will never forgive myself for what I did to you.

And I’m sorry it’s taken me this long to say it.
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I think Tully was a very interesting character.....but damn...

She is really pretty oblivious..... now posting this for the public (and to just be coming around to this realization now??? Although I'll give her the benefit of the doubt that she just worded it wrong and has realized it and just got around to expressing her feelings about it)...

Send her a heartfelt note in private (or a discussion) just between the two of them (I'm sure the last thing that Tahlia would want (if she wants things to be amicable between them) is to have people bugging her again rehashing the past.........."Did you see the blog Tully wrote?",.... "Are you two getting back together..?"...I can just see the posts if a stupid twitter or Instagram follower heard about this blog)....
 
clb999 said:
Well, it's about time, glad tully is finally owning it, wish she did this weeks ago.
I hope she is doing it publicly for the right reasons.
At least tahlia will finally be able move on and hopefully people will stop asking her about tully.
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I wish she was able to come to the realisation sooner too. I do think it's a psychological thing to go into denial and not accept that you could be the one that ruined this relationship. That's why I think time is needed to gain perspective. Some people are just extremely slow at it I guess (aka tully :p). But I'm glad that she did in the end and tahlia can feel like their relationship was not for nothing and it meant something. I really don't think it was for the public sake. She humiliated tahlia publicly, so she is now taking ownership of blame, admitting wrongs and apologising publicly- the ultimate apology IMO. She is putting to the world that yes, she effed up and yes she was to blame and yes she was a selfish human being. Considering tully doesn't like to admit a wrong, this is huge for her IMO and she spoke on the same level she would speak to tahlia everyday, so I think she means every single word. I hope tahlia can move on as well, and find peace with it all.
 
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mikidiki said:
Question: Why wasn't Tully with Sharon, Tim, Drew etc.? Has Drew and Tully had a fight?
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I wouldn't want it to be true but it does kind of look like Drew and Tully had a fight or aren't getting along great, they are in different places right now, Tully is lonely, Tully is questioning her decision to be with Drew, Tully was never without feelings for Tahlia (this thing with the dog is more than just about the dog it is a tie to what things were before BB), Tully wants to make right in the whole cheating aspect, so this is what she came up with (I wouldn't be surprised if it was alcohol-aided) and she was especially irritated at that moment (snapchat). I think she is still with Drew but things aren't that smooth right now. THESE ARE MY SPECULATIONS ONLY
 
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