I don't know many guys who will give up alcohol tbh. Even if they don't enjoy it, they will still do it anyways. The same with coffee, it's almost like a necessity for some people, so to read someone who will say no to it is fascinating to me, but it also sounds like you are so firm on it as you apply it to your life in other areas, it just intrigues me. I don't know many guys who will restrict themselves on an intimate level either. I'm surrounded by nutters I think lol, my hubby beng the exception (he is as Mr Darcy as they come in this modern age).
I don't do coffee either, although I use to force myself to have it just to wake me up haha, but I did not enjoy the way my boddy became reliant on it, so detoxed it out of my system. I'm a tea girl easy, but I do love a red wine, I actually look forward to weekends as that is the only time I allow myself to indulge.
Seriously, good for you. I think girls only hear of guys like this in a novel or something, so it is refreshing to hear of a real life one