http://www.mamamia.com.au/news/toni-mchugh-gerard-baden-clay/
Saw this on my fb feed...
Toni McHugh has been punished enough? Please. She’s not a victim here.
Today Toni McHugh still has the chance to get on with her life.
She can kiss and hug her children. And if they’ve shunned her – she has the opportunity over the rest of her life to make up with them.
She can move overseas. Change her name. Change her hair. Find love. Remarry.
If she wants to find anonymity – sure it’ll be hard but there will be ways she can do it.
Let’s all remember that
another woman lost her life.
Toni McHugh and Gerard Baden Clay (Image via 60 Minutes)
Don’t ask me to feels sorry for
Toni McHugh when she pocketed probably $50,000, maybe $100,00 for that interview on Sixty Minutes to tell the world about how she justified having a three year affair with a married man who – at the time – had three little kids under six.
Don’t ask me to feel bad for a woman who – with her lover – flaunted her affair in front of their work colleagues – in turn humiliating a devoted wife at home who would eventually learn that “everybody knew”.
Don’t ask me to feel pity for a woman who had the audacity (with her lover) to have sex in his house when his wife and kids were away.
If you’re reading this right now and you’re having an affair with someone you know is married, let me tell you something.
Every time you ‘sneak out’ a lie is told at home to a waiting spouse who in turn starts to get worried or suspicious. When they express those fears, they are nearly always told by their cheating partner that they’re ‘imagining things’ or paranoid. And so the mind games begin.
Every time you have carefree sex with the candles and the music, there is a spouse at home hanging out washing, dealing with tantrums, paying the bills and wondering what the hell to get HIS MOTHER for her birthday.
As A
llison Baden-Clay said so beautifully in her letter to Gerard:
“You never lived in reality with her! Never had to deal with her family issues, placate her toddler when they were having a tantrum, clean up her children’s vomit in the middle of the night. You were never with her when she had broken sleep for years on end as her children were little and she was breastfeeding. You only used her breasts for other f*****g reasons. You only saw her when she had washed her hair, shaved her bikini line, put her good undies on and when she was ready for her lover!!!!! That makes me bitter!!!!!”
Don’t ask me to feel sorry for Toni McHugh. She showed no remorse on Sixty Minutes nor a moment of concern for the shattered lives of Allison Baden-Clay’s children. Instead she was self-absorbed, self-interested, selfish.
Which I guess are all the things you need to be, to be a mistress.
Read more at
http://www.mamamia.com.au/news/toni-mchugh-gerard-baden-clay/#rxQJWA3uEMuTkClW.99
