Housemate #5 TULLY!

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Mrs Butterface said:
Until we see photographic proof we have no way of knowing if he's like one of the scraggy toothless wonders who tried to fondle me on the cruise from Helsinki to Stockholm or one of the buff Adonis' that would strut around with their blond hair and brawn glistening in the (very limited) sunshine.
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chads seems to have mentioned Drew's good looks a few times in his posts and seems very upset by that fact, so maybe he's a scraggy toothless wonder and not a buff Adonis LOL
 
Mrs Butterface said:
Until we see photographic proof we have no way of knowing if he's like one of the scraggy toothless wonders who tried to fondle me on the cruise from Helsinki to Stockholm or one of the buff Adonis' that would strut around with their blond hair and brawn glistening in the (very limited) sunshine.
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i'm afraid this dream could end up with [MENTION=30760]MADONNA[/MENTION] having to settle for a stern telling off for perceived moral failings for hours and hours in the winter's gloom.
 
delcan said:
Rather than your claim of "vengance", maybe the rest of our moral "codes" are similar. Would you please explain your moral code if you think "ours" is "so 1913". What is cheating to you? A positive pregnancy test? Or would that just be from Drew peeing on the toilet seat and Tully going into to pee afterwards according to you? I've said I've been cheated on and had the guy pash another chick in front of me - so that's not cheating? I had the guy do that in front of my friends and colleagues, I think I can somewhat relate to Tahlia, although not as awful as Tahlia has had
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First let me say that I have seen no evidence of "cheating". The hysteria of the posts here are unwarranted.

Any moral code that is fit for 2013 must be based on the liberty of the individual.
 
chads said:
Give an example. I'm not that bad at English.
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Can you honestly say you have never "willingly' made a choice that you knew was wrong or later regretted?? Wow you must be a saint. I don't know how you can stand to live around all the other imperfect humans around you - you must be hell to live with given your sanctimonious self-righteous attitude - you should go be friends with Ed.
 
psykologist said:
Can you honestly say you have never "willingly' made a choice that you knew was wrong or later regretted?? Wow you must be a saint. I don't know how you can stand to live around all the other imperfect humans around you - you must be hell to live with given your sanctimonious self-righteous attitude - you should go be friends with Ed.
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That is what I find with some people. They seem like you say to be saints. I can only find them in this forum though, I must be very unlucky not to know them in real life. Or maybe lucky, because I am not perfect and they would probably crucify me :(
 
Drade 2013 said:
So you think just because she already dumped her that she won't be hurting anymore and that she might have already moved on? I guess it is possible that some people can "move" on easily.
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She is probably hurt just like anyone else who might suffer a break-up. All the so-called sympathizers are not exactly helping. But, quite frankly, I think she should be thanking her lucky stars that she is away from such an emotionally manipulative, attention-needy person.
 
delcan said:
Tully's friends have every right to bail on her, I'm sick of people using the "you don't know how it is like to be in a house with people for whatever days" - she cheated on her girlfriend emotionally and physically even before what Tully fans justify as the "break up". She did that because she is a selfish human being. She may have "fell in love", but there are plenty of people who "fall in love" but respect others enough to not cheat. I have worked professionally (and personally) with many gay men and women who have kept "secret" their love for 60 years plus for the sake of others. All Tully had to do was 3 months max - pretty much a standard persons holiday - without cheating. It's not that hard - I've known unlimited people going on Contiki tours for 3 months and they don't cheat, it's at best a lazy excuse. If things weren't that great with Tahlia (another excuse), she could've said that, and said "I need to work things out after this" like Reggie did. She has showed no remorse, no regret, (and the people I feel most for are Tully's family and friends), she has implied through her words and actions that cheating is ok. Part of me has compassion for the fact she is going to be torn apart the second she leaves the house, but in reality, as someone who has been cheated on publicly, no one can ever hurt her as much she has hurt her friends and family. She may be forgiven, but her selfish actions will never be forgotten
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Apparently not everyone is as strong emotionally or has as low a sex drive as you do.
 
psykologist said:
She is probably hurt just like anyone else who might suffer a break-up. All the so-called sympathizers are not exactly helping. But, quite frankly, I think she should be thanking her lucky stars that she is away from such an emotionally manipulative, attention-needy person.
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when I see her with Drew.. I just cant put it in my head that Tully was with Thalia ( who seems mature by her tweets) were together for 2 YEARS... whoa..
 
candysugars said:
Morals and integrity never go out of fashion.
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I don't think it shows high morals or integrity to continue to get so self-righteous & exhibit such high moral outrage about something that is, frankly. an everyday occurrence. It's really rather sanctimonious of anyone to try & judge a situation that has arisen from a contrived environment with such a limited & highly edited view. I realize we're all doing it about all of the HMs to add to the experience of watching BB, but I think a lot of people have gone way overboard on this issue with their hate & moralizing.
 
Crush Ad said:
when I see her with Drew.. I just cant put it in my head that Tully was with Thalia ( who seems mature by her tweets) were together for 2 YEARS... whoa..
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I agree. Some people like being needed - it boosts their own self-esteem. But, then again, it's likely Tully is not as bad outside where she has many friends to spread it around to & maybe has other outlets for her issues.
 
psykologist said:
I don't think it shows high morals or integrity to continue to get so self-righteous & exhibit such high moral outrage about something that is, frankly. an everyday occurrence. It's really rather sanctimonious of anyone to try & judge a situation that has arisen from a contrived environment with such a limited & highly edited view. I realize we're all doing it about all of the HMs to add to the experience of watching BB, but I think a lot of people have gone way overboard on this issue with their hate & moralizing.
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Why is it sanctimonious? This behaviour of Tully's is not a 'daily occurrence' for me, and clearly not for many others who feel strongly about it. To be perfectly honest, I think you are overboard in your 'tut tut' attitude towards anyone who has a firm opinion on the situation. I suggest you get off your very own self-righteous, high-horse before you judge others for having staunch views.
 
I think the Facebook page "Lets Murder Tully from Big Brother" is a bit steep!

Why does anything have to amount to social media pages with titles like that?
 
psykologist said:
I don't think it shows high morals or integrity to continue to get so self-righteous & exhibit such high moral outrage about something that is, frankly. an everyday occurrence. It's really rather sanctimonious of anyone to try & judge a situation that has arisen from a contrived environment with such a limited & highly edited view. I realize we're all doing it about all of the HMs to add to the experience of watching BB, but I think a lot of people have gone way overboard on this issue with their hate & moralizing.
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I agree
 
going into this any rational person would realize that there are number of things that can go wrong with a relationship from both sides with one person being sequestered and the other roaming free on the outside of the house...... is it a difficult situation yes, did Tahlia get hurt ?extremely likely she did, did Tully go in looking to have an affair? extremely likely she didn't, did Tully and Drew fall in love? it sure looks that way
Tully hurt Tahlia true but does it merit this level of hate and bashing I don't think so at all
 
LoveBB said:
Why is it sanctimonious? This behaviour of Tully's is not a 'daily occurrence' for me, and clearly not for many others who feel strongly about it. To be perfectly honest, I think you are overboard in your 'tut tut' attitude towards anyone who has a firm opinion on the situation. I suggest you get off your very own self-righteous, high-horse before you judge others for having staunch views.
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And that "firm opinion" - would it be based in any particular theology?
 
LoveBB said:
Why is it sanctimonious? This behaviour of Tully's is not a 'daily occurrence' for me, and clearly not for many others who feel strongly about it. To be perfectly honest, I think you are overboard in your 'tut tut' attitude towards anyone who has a firm opinion on the situation. I suggest you get off your very own self-righteous, high-horse before you judge others for having staunch views.
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It's sanctimonious because a lot people are moralistically judging someone as a horrible person based on one aspect of her behaviour to the point of hatred. I don't happen to consider it to be self-righteous to suggest that people try to take a little more balanced & distanced view. I don't care much for Tully's personality, but really, what she does or doesn't do in no way affects me. I realize it's easy to get caught up in the BB experience so sometimes I step back a little to try to gain some perspective. I'm just suggesting others might need to do the same because Tully hasn't committed a heinous crime - she's human & has faults like we all do.
 
psykologist said:
It's sanctimonious because a lot people are moralistically judging someone as a horrible person based on one aspect of her behaviour to the point of hatred. I don't happen to consider it to be self-righteous to suggest that people try to take a little more balanced & distanced view. I don't care much for Tully's personality, but really, what she does or doesn't do in no way affects me. I realize it's easy to get caught up in the BB experience so sometimes I step back a little to try to gain some perspective. I'm just suggesting others might need to do the same because Tully hasn't committed a heinous crime - she's human & has faults like we all do.
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Isn't this a discussion board for BB2013... If what Tully 'does or doesn't do' is of no interest to you... Why are you here?!

You think having a crack at anyone who has an opinion you consider to be overboard will change their mind? Go back and read the last few pages of your comments... You sway from left to right and then fence-sit. You take swipes at others with derogatory responses and personal insults. Please don't make me quote it all.

These forums are a place for open discussions, some people are more passionate than others. Go to FB if you want to see 'overboard'.
 
keke said:
First let me say that I have seen no evidence of "cheating". The hysteria of the posts here are unwarranted.

Any moral code that is fit for 2013 must be based on the liberty of the individual.
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Then you need to get your eyes checked. Her girlfriend has broken up with her after being her biggest supporter and even initially condoning her friendship with Drew as she thought it was innocent. Seriously come on now. Anyone who says that Tully hasn't crossed the line with her behaviour in the house for someone in a relationship is just being a troll at this point. I don't care how much of a Tully supporter you are or how you want to pull an actual Tully and derail the conversation by accusing people of being back in 1913. That's just embarrassing yourself at this point and even her biggest fans on here will concede that... they're just arguing that they're not judging her for it.


LoveBB said:
Isn't this a discussion board for BB2013... If what Tully 'does or doesn't do' is of no interest to you... Why are you here?!

You think having a crack at anyone who has an opinion you consider to be overboard will change their mind? Go back and read the last few pages of your comments... You sway from left to right and then fence-sit. You take swipes at others with derogatory responses and personal insults. Please don't make me quote it all.

These forums are a place for open discussions, some people are more passionate than others. Go to FB if you want to see 'overboard'.
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Exactly. If we're not supposed to dissect what we see of the HMs then 1. What's the point of a reality show featuring contestants with no discernible skill other than being judged on their personality and actions. This isn't The Block, X Factor, Masterchef, etc. This shit is ALL we can judge them on! 2. Why would I ever be compelled to vote if I wasn't supposed to judge them on those behaviours/actions and 3. why are any of us here at a forum solely dedicated to the show at all?

I think some people forget that this isn't the place to sing Kumbaya and say all's good in the hood simply because someone managed to blag their way onto a reality show. You act like an asshole and you'll be called out. Whether that's turkey slapping, saying racist shit or cheating on your partner. End of story.
 
LoveBB said:
Isn't this a discussion board for BB2013... If what Tully 'does or doesn't do' is of no interest to you... Why are you here?!

You think having a crack at anyone who has an opinion you consider to be overboard will change their mind? Go back and read the last few pages of your comments... You sway from left to right and then fence-sit. You take swipes at others with derogatory responses and personal insults. Please don't make me quote it all.

These forums are a place for open discussions, some people are more passionate than others. Go to FB if you want to see 'overboard'.
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I didn't say it was of no interest to me, I said it in no ways affects my life. Nor did I say I am immune from taking a position on some things. In fact, I said that's why it's good to step back once in a while. Whatever, you can continue with your bible-thumping, high morals & Tully bashing if you so desire as this too in no way affects my daily life. I'm so honoured you went back & read all my posts by the way.
 
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