In life I've actually noticed that a lot of uber intelligent ppl won't drive.
I'm not sure if its maybe to do with finding something difficult or failing so
they dont entertain the notion?
Ok, I'll admit this, I didn't get my drivers licence until around my mid 20s. I still know plenty of people who don't have theirs.
I had my learners from 17. Had taken driving lesson a few times of the years. Basically with me, there was just never the desire of "must get my licence" around turning 18. A lot of my friends got theirs early on. However they didn't live as close to the city and transport and so they had the need. Then once friends had their licences, for a lot of things there was always someone driving. You just get used to not having it. Then the life of going to Uni, or going out. It's all public transport and taxi's.
When you say intelligent people, maybe there is some tie in to the Uni lifestyle and not driving. Although there were plenty of people I knew from then that didn't go to uni, also didn't have their licence. There seemed to he waves. Those that got it at 18/19. Then a second wave around 21-23. Then the stragglers around 25/26. Then I can't think of anyone I know older than this with out their licence that have since got it.
I know a couple that's maybe early 40s who neither of them drive and they have kids. Fucked if I know how that works.
It sometimes got embarrassing not having it. However I didn't really mind having a girlfriend that drove. It did become awkward sometimes with relationships. Also sometimes there were things you couldn't go to. The older and more independent you get and the more people move away and the need grows from changes in life style.
However I did get to a point where I wanted my licence. I just was used to not having it, so there was no pressing need to get me motivated. Finally I got to a point and went, "OK I have to do this now, get it out of the way or i'll never get it." I don't regret waiting. Although I probably should have got it a couple years before I did. You don't understand how much freedom it gives you until you get it. Ultimately freedom was one of the bigger motivators. Was away at the beach with friends cruising around and it's like.. "I would like this freedom."
One of my friends even got divorced after she got her licence in her mid 20s. The extra freedom it gave her, helped change her perspective on things.
I think there's a slight part of if it's difficult or failing. But it's less than you think. I think there's a big mix of, eh i'll eventually do it and putting it off. Also with laziness. A lot of intelligent people are also some what lazy. If you're smarter than most of the kids in school naturally, you never have to try as hard. So you develop lazy attitudes towards work. I think Michael fits into that category. Myself also. It also ties into the sport and fitness. That takes effort. Not naturally going off your intelligence. Driving like everything is a skill you have to learn. You can't just wing it.
One piece of encouragement by dad gave me was by pointing out all the idiots out there who can drive, so I have no excuse.