prufrock
Well-Known Member
Clearly, we have completely different ideas about what constitutes bullying. As for your final sentence...
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Miiiiike
Well-Known Member
You didn't come in here for "a laugh/light conversation" at all.
You jumped into a serious conversation about how gay people are treated, gave me a condescending "that's right" and then launched into all the things you think Drew has done wrong. IN RESPONSE TO MY COMMENT. Where in my comment did I say I support any of those things? You saw my name and decided to launch...just like your friends in that JA thread.
Piss off with the pity party already. I came in here to discuss one thing. You decided to come at me with this whole list of things you don't like about Drew that had nothing to do with what I said.
You guys cry about being attacked... look in the fucking mirror. I'm done with all of you.
littlebear
Well-Known Member
What. On. Earth. I'm sorry--he ain't perfect, but the idea that anything that Drew has done in the house, among other adults, is comparable to the kind of bullying that leads to teen suicide is stretching things so far that I don't even know what to say. So why am I still typing? I wish I knew. Night-nights.
Angel
Active Member
You know what, I dont even know what your talking about as I have not seen all the feeds from today. So when I do I will judge based on what see when I see it. And when I was saying Bully type behavior I was not just talking about the flour. there has been a pack movement in the house and I have an issue with it regardless of who it involves.
I dont see what your problem is, seriously. How dare I point out that the housemates should be leading by example in everything and not just one thing?? Yeah, that make sense... If you dont agree fine, tell me you think accepting and treating a gay friend is the only issue in the world or only issue which you care about. But dont try to pick apart everything I say and put new words into my mouth.
Personally I dont live in a big town and I sure as hell dont hang around people who would treat our gay friends any way but how Drew treated Ben. In fact if you want to get into the debate I cant stand that they are even addressed as gay and dont view them any different to myself. I have a label for someone in a same sex relationship, its call IN LOVE. I was appalled by Ed behavior and have not been shy about how much I cant stand the guy. So dont you dare act as if only you could possible care about this issue or that I could not possible care about it if its not also the only thing I look for in a person... I think how we treat ANYONE gay, straight, asian, blonde, fat, whatever is an issue and I don't agree with making one more important then the other. Everyone deserves the right to be treated with respect and no one should ever feel like they are not good enough or be pushed around in life because of 1 specific thing about them when a person is made up of many things and not just that one thing. Which brings me back to the fact that I cant like Drew only because of one part of who he is when I find the other parts to be important too.
MADONNA
Scalp collector
Seems we can't laugh at anything these days without offending someone
Nice pic, Mike. You might want to get out into the sun a bit more tho xo
Angel
Active Member
I didn't even read the bloody threat. I was responding to the first post and made a comment in regards to the last few things once my post posted. I didn't realize that it was a requirement to read every post before replying. I didnt say or get into any of the 'serious conversation' as your calling it, I had an opinion on that one thing you said. I never said "thats right" I said That's great. I don't even pay attention to who said what, seriously get over yourself...
I never attacked anyone for crying out loud, read what I said. I said that's great but what about the other things he is promoting. I didnt say you agreed with them, this is where you should have bloody said I never said I agree with those parts of him or something instead of coming out all guns blazing over a very simple and innocent misunderstanding!!
I had no idea there was a conversation going on about anything serious, I read the first post which I found funny so I quoted them and pushed send. Say the comment about washing hair so made a joke and saw you state that for no other reason and this reason alone you will always like Drew so I commented to point out the reasons why despite the fact I agree with the importance of that point being learnt that I could not like Drew for one good action when he has made many more bad actions.
The fact that you have chosen to over react is not my bloody problem...
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I've chosen to overreact? You've just said you jumped into a thread and didn't bother to read the posts before it. How bloody arrogant can you be? You think anyone wants to hear your opinions when you don't have a f'n clue what you're talking about or what's going on? If you don't realise that you should probably read the thread to understand the conversation you're jumping into and especially the context then I'm really not sure what you're doing on a forum.
Just to remind you, this is what I said: "This is an excellent comment. No matter how much Drew might frustrate me at times, the way he treated Ben - especially in contrast to Ed's behaviour - will always make me like him. I really hope that some of the kids watching realised that this is the way you treat a gay friend."
Do you comprehend that? THE WAY HE TREATED BEN - ESPECIALLY IN CONTRAST TO ED'S BEHAVIOUR - WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME LIKE HIM. How much more clear can I make it for you?! Why on Earth you felt the need to attack what I said is beyond me and in a thread about Drew where I was talking about how he treated a gay person of all things. Heaven forbid, I should appreciate the way he treated Ben when many of my friends and family get much worse treatment from supposed 'friends' simply because they're gay.
Grow the fuck up already.
Angel
Active Member
Screw you, seriously. I am sorry for crying out loud. How the hell was I meant to know that a thread made to talk about how great Drew and Tully are had turned into a serious conversation about the treatment of Gays...............
I already feel bloody horrible, I am clearly upset so fuck off already. It was a bloody honest mistake and not once did I make any personal comments about any of you guys. Why the hell would I leave a beautiful and safe place when clearly I am not cut out for the shit like this. Its a shame that not everyone gets to grow up around beautiful things and beautiful people.
I am done, I dont know how many ways I can explain myself. How about giving people the benefit of the doubt. I have never done anything to warrant an auto response of attack and kill. And the whole "you cry about us attacking you" comment is bullshit. The only time I have an issue is when people come in the Jade appreciation thread all set for a fight. I dont go into the Tahan, Tim, Drew or any other one and try to start stuff. Its not the same situation, this was a Drew thread so figured I was ok to say something. Just because I support Jade does not mean I dont deserve the chance to explain myself. If you were offended by something I said then next time bloody say so and a simple reply from me of "ooh, my bad, I didnt realize there was a serious topic being spoken about, sorry" could have ended this whole thing...
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Angel
Active Member
Wow, you have issues. I never attacked you, Please read what I said again and explain to me who that was an attack on you?? I said that its great that Drew did that BUT IIIIII cant like him for that fact alone. I am not going to grovel for forgiveness refuse to lower myself to person attack which you clearly enjoy. Not in any rush to grow up any faster then life is making me. Seriously dont know why I even bothered trying to explain myself, clearly nothing I say will matter anyway.
Veronica2005
Well-Known Member
it's shame when an interesting conversation and topic that was starting up....
maybe there should be a Drew Appreciation thread like other HM's, so posters cant just come in and spew hate?
maybe there should be a Drew Appreciation thread like other HM's, so posters cant just come in and spew hate?
MADONNA
Scalp collector
prufrock
Well-Known Member
We don't need one. We'll just take the moral high ground and vote to save him
Jam
I don't like it
We don't need one. We'll just take the moral high ground and vote to save him
Yep, yep, yep...
hedgo18
Member
Oh Mrs Butterface, I just love you. Thankyou for showing intelligence in this forum.
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claire_michell
Guest
We don't need one. We'll just take the moral high ground and vote to save him
Yes - hahaha - Drew has been making me happy with his conversations, choice in actions and general all round behaviour - so Drew fans -
we know what we love about Drew - lets VOTE TO SAVE DREW - because he is the "voice of reason" in the house - love you guys on this thread that have been supportive and reasonable and great you know who you are.....hahahaha
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claire_michell
Guest
There is seriously a lot of bullying on the internet - so - I can imagine how "different" people must feel to go their whole life facing discrimination not only in everyday life but also on social media sites - whether it be for an opinion or a life choice...hey its live and let live...respect peoples differences ......everyone is entitled to their opinion.....im sure people who have been disrespectful and abusive feel ashamed for their actions....so lets all forgive each other...people make mistakes out of ignorance I believe and they can be pretty annoying in the process...hahaha..... me included......share the love guys ...hahahahaha