Is it really that hard to say to cat and Lawson "look I don't agree with what you are doing, I think it's cruel and I really feel for the girl on the outside but it's not my life, it's not my business, you're adults, you do what you choose, my opinion has no play on your life." Is it really hard to be honest AND rational? I hate what the two of them are doing, but it's not my life or business!