You leave Harry alone - you hear? Wassa matter with you girl? You hate men, you hate women... you're almost out of genders. About Harry:
...oh wait, perhaps a lesson in biology is appropriate. The female species of humankind undergoes a period of maintenance once every month. During that time, females tend to get emotional and quite irritating, some more, some less so... husbands and boyfriends tend to avoid their mates during this time of high tide and spend their time on the football field or in the pub.
It is quite possible that Harry is currently undergoing her maintenance. Duh... prove me wrong and prove to me that she isn't affected emotionally. Duh... again - duh duh duh
Harry cannot go off and have fun with others because Marc has succeeded in convincing those numb nuts that she's evil for whatever silly reason - her proclivity to walk in the nude for example, while he walks around in girly knickers everyday... see the hypocrisy?
Why is she supposed to be this strong, independent woman? Oh right... because she's a dominatrix. Just because they know where to aim their crop and heels doesn't necessarily make them strong women fyi... they're just like you and me... oooops
On BOTS they proclaim that Harry is jealous... I knew they'd screw up as usual. She ain't jealous but she is acutely aware of how she might pe perceived by the audience. Rightly or wrongly so, her concern is not to be made look like a fool and she's said that on several occasions.
Marc is not outspoken, he doesn't speak. He intimidates and yes, he's all of the other things you mentioned.
Danny IS arrogant, and a dick, he even BELIEVES that he is someone else, someone better, brighter than he is - now that's arrogance. Vanilla? VANILLA??? I think you're watching the wrong show and neener neener sounds very much like Dr Sheldon Cooper. Are you okay?
Poor thing