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I think Tim’s tweets have been very emotionally charged and not necessarily logical or strategic. He feels he was labelled a bully when Estelle said he used herself and Tully as punching bags, and he is trying to defend himself.
It's that childish behaviour where someone knows they did the wrong thing, but the people noticing or calling it out are the ones to blame. No self-ownership. Deep down they're ashamed but can't own it. It's emotional immaturity and narcissism. He could easily stand up and defend himself and his actions while taking responsibility. Yet he can't and won't admit fault. Can't even see it.
It's like when he was standing up for Drew doing wrong to her by trying to reframe it, through dishonest means, that Estelle was somehow wrong for being aggrieved by Drew's action.
It's a classic bully behaviour where you reserve the right to impose what you want on top of the rights of someone else. Someone else's right to comfort or property is at the whim of the bully, over their own right to it. Not considering others as having equal value or rights to oneself.