https://www.cosmopolitan.com.au/bachelor/bachelor-in-paradise-rachael-gouvignon-interview-26532
INTERVIEW WITH SANE QUEEN RACHAEL.
We always knew hearts would be broken in
Bachelor in Paradisebut seeing Rachael Gouvignon so visibly upset by rejection was particularly gut-wrenching.
Probably because we've all been able to empathise with this raw emotional desire to meet someone special at some stage in our lives.
Rachael was a latecomer to the series and while she had initial connections with Apollo (much to
Simone's disdain), American Jared and then Thomas, she left the island without finding love.
Cosmo caught up with Rachael to talk
being body-shamed, trolls and which couple she thinks will go the distance.
Seeing you get upset last night was very difficult to watch – how did it feel watching it back?
It was hard. Because they're the conversations I sit around and have with my closest friends and talk about. I've seen my girlfriends get very upset about this same topic. A lot of women now in their '30s and still single – and they're such beautiful women.
And it was hard to see my emotions on TV because it is the truth because it comes from the heart and that's my deepest darkest secrets. It was hard but I've had a lot of people since last night's episode contact me – a lot of girls feel exactly the same – there's so many, it's ridiculous.
We need these men to turn around and start doing something about.
You were the most honest and upfront about being there because you want to be with someone - Have you faced any criticism for your direct approach?
Oh you know, some people have said that I'm desperate but I don't feel like I'm desperate – I'm just hopeful.
And some people may have seen me crying after Thomas and I were having these conversations and think I was upset about Thomas but that was NOT about Thomas at all – it was just about how I feel generally.
It had nothing to do with him. It was more just the fact of seeing everybody else so loved-up and me wanting that, I guess. I was jealous because I didn't find love too.
Do you have any regrets – especially in terms of sticking with Thomas when American Jared was really keen on you?
In the morning, before Thomas had asked me on a date, American Jared did come over to me and he did say, "Look Rach, I think you're amazing, however, I'm looking to find love at first sight and that hasn't happened for me with you."
And I was quite taken aback because for me, love at first sight is very, very rare. So yeah, he said to me: "Rach, you know, you can go on dates with other guys if anyone asks you" so he was almost giving me permission. So I kind of got semi dumped. But you guys didn't see that. I didn't have an option. And then Thomas asked me on a date so I did it.
Do you think Thomas was there to stir the pot?
I think he was in there to get more airtime [laughs]. There's obviously no
Bachelor in Paradise for Canadians so he thought he'd come over to Fiji for a free trip and yeah, I think he was trying to play a bit of a game. From some of the facial expressions he's made, when I was watching the show, I was like "Hmm" – there's an underlying reason for why you're here and it's not for a relationship.
Had you any idea what you were letting yourself in for beforehand?
I'm a huge
Bachelor worldwide/nation fan [laughs], so I definitely had an idea of what was going to happen. I understood what I was going to. And I really,
really liked the fact it was so much more relaxed [in
BIP Australia] – there wasn't as much competition with the girls and we had more time and I think that's the most important thing – we had more time to get to know the guys which was really nice.
Did you know any of the contestants beforehand?
No, I'd never met any of them before. I'd only seen their faces on Instagram and that's it.
We watched your video telling people to lay off Simone [watch at the top] after she'd body-shamed you on the show – how important is it to support the other contestants?
When Simone was on
The Bachelor, she didn't come across as a villain at all. She didn't even have any trolling. Whereas when I was on my season, I had a lot of trolls. I had to sort of learn to deal with people saying nasty things and it really did break me at times.
As soon as I saw the flood of trolls that came her way, I was like "This is disgusting." I'm so anti-bullying and anti-trolling. It's just so nasty – you would never walk up to someone's face and say those things so do you think it's okay to sit behind your little screen and type away disgusting words at a human being.
And you know, these words, they do affect people. So I tried using the little power I had just to shut those people down because people need to grow up and get a life if that's all they've got to do is hurt other people. That's nasty – they need to work on themselves.
Do you think things would've been different if you hadn't come in towards the end of the show?
If I'd gone in earlier, I feel like there were people who were more suitable and possibly looking along the lines of what I was looking for which is a relationship. So if I'd gone in earlier I think I would've had a very different outcome.
Of all the Bachelor contestants – who do you wish had been in there?
So, because a lot of people have been saying to me "Michael should have been in there for you", it would've been nice to actually have met him because I feel like we are quite similar in age and he is looking to meet somebody.
So that would've been interesting to have met him. I was also intrigued to meet Luke but obviously he got quite into Lisa and there's been speculation after [Luke admitted to
cheating on Lisa to
Cosmo]. But what's meant to be is meant to be.
How's the love life now – are you dating?
It's non-existent [laughs]. No, I'm not dating anybody.
Which of the couples will go the distance?
So from when I was there I really felt a lot of love between Ali and Grant, Keira and Jarrod – Oh my god, Jarrod is just obsessed with Keira [laughs]. He was already telling me what handbag he was going to buy her in the outside world. I'm like "Woah."
And then
Sam and Tara. And when I was there - Megan and Jake, I guess, they liked each other but I just don't know how much and if it is something that could, you know, continue. I guess we need to wait to find out.
Who do you think is going to propose?
No idea. At all. One minute I think one couple and the next I think another – It changes all the time.
What has
Bachelor in Paradise taught you?
Oh my gosh. I guess, watching Megan on her date with Thomas. She doesn't give a lot and so it keeps the men intrigued. And when I watch myself, I'm thinking "Maybe slow down a little bit, Rach."
I think I maybe need to leave a little more to the imagination for the men. I guess, yeah, be a bit more intriguing for men instead of being so upfront and wanting to know what their intentions are I guess.