OK, here is what I would ask anyone who is posting about how concerned they are for Sam over this issue:
Q: so how many posts have you made about Sam & his time in the house thus far? What he is doing, how he is interacting etc?(This is a rhetorical question)
My Answer: I believe not that many; so how would anyone feel if the only interest shown in them was about their difficulties & disabilities? Because this is what happens time & time again, like taking up for the wounded bird - stuff whatever else he is doing, that's not interesting enough to post about but his disability .. hell yeah that's forum fodder!
Oh I wouldn't worry about that too much; you know as teenagers, we used to all drink out of the same bottle at sports carnivals! (shock ! horror!)