Des, darling. You missed my point.TraLa, darling, as someone with no horse in this race and who hasn't had a proper PM-back-and-forth with anyone here since 2008, I must admit it's slightly comical seeing you get worked up about these group PMs. Were you or were you not laughing just a few months ago about how you and some other "old school" members here PM each other making fun of other posters? So it's cool for you and your mates to behave like that, but when others do it they're losers with no lives? Okay![]()
I have no problem with private PM's. Personally, I love the feature.
It only becomes a problem when too many people get added to the conversation, and it gets back to the person who is being group sledged.
Example:-
Good:-- Me sending a private PM with the title DES! Discussing what a self righteous fuckhead you are, and you never knowing, is a good PM scenerio. I got to sound off, vent and you remain blissfully unaware. Because as people, sometimes we just want the opportunity to privatley sound off and vent.
Bad:- Me sending a PM with the title DES! Then linking 4 or 5 other members to the convo discussing what a self righteous fuckhead you are, then a couple of members cut and paste that PM and send it to you is a bad PM scenerio. Because while as people, we sometimes just want the opportunity to sound off, if the group PM's get back to the person via a few different sources, it of course fucks the person you are bitching about off. Because they have gone from being blissfully unaware to aware. While it is common knowledge many think that I am a cunt, it still hurts my feelings when I read that in a group scenerio.
I have no issue with private PM's. It is only when they are made public to the person who is getting sledged the clear calm blissfully unaware waters become muddied.