I hope you've found some peace. My best friend told me when something happened to her. Two twelve year olds trying to solve a problem didn't work, she was lucky we found the right adult to help. The bastard died in custody and she never had to testify. But she remembers every day. Best wishes to you.
I agree with you @Sweetgeek . I first thought it was Tully, but more and more lately think that Tully didn't really want to end it and has tried since to get back together with Drew. I believe she still wants him back, but maybe now is starting to try and get on with her life regardless. Although he only has to say the word and she will be there still.
I agree with you @Sweetgeek . I first thought it was Tully, but more and more lately think that Tully didn't really want to end it and has tried since to get back together with Drew. I believe she still wants him back, but maybe now is starting to try and get on with her life regardless. Although he only has to say the word and she will be there still.
That's sort of what I mean - she is definitely the one doing the chasing and trying to rekindle things. I only thought at the very beginning that Drew was chasing equally. At some point early on though, I had the feeling that he stopped being as committed. He was still happy for her to chase. I'm not being critical of him for cooling it - I agree he is not ready to settle down. Nothing to do with age, or graduate status, just personality as there are plenty of people in similar circumstances who are ready. He just has a lot of goals he wants to achieve as yet.
The good thing is they do seem to be friends. But like @Jt193 thinks, I too think that even though tully seems to be ok with the friend title, if drew gave her the yes for more, she wants it. So the only expectation I feel there is that tully was hoping that they could work it out again. If I take that article where she stated they are over, she also gave the belief that it wasn't completely over, I have a feeling she is holding on to that. She is making a huge effort to show she likes the Melbourne life. The one thing that keeps popping into my head though, is why tully a huge effort to show she likes life in Melbourne. Could that be a reason why they broke up and why she thinks it didn't work out. If that is the case, and it still won't work out, well that would hurt. Who knows, all in speculation.
Drew might have the travel bug after his trip, and if he was full-time at Uni, part-time working, then into the BB house, pretty full on. maybe he just wants to see what's next for him
I agree with you @Sweetgeek . I first thought it was Tully, but more and more lately think that Tully didn't really want to end it and has tried since to get back together with Drew. I believe she still wants him back, but maybe now is starting to try and get on with her life regardless. Although he only has to say the word and she will be there still.
I remember when I finished uni, I couldn't wait to travel. Most people seemed to be this way too. It's almost cliche in a way. I think he has the travel bug too.that's what i meant, but i didn't add
And we don't really know if the distancing is up to her.
I'm not sure that she is deliberately trying to distance herself from Drew, rather acting now in self preservation if he is not as willing to see as much of her. She needs company as we all know and I believe she is trying to protect herself from being hurt.
