I am a massive tahlia defender, she's been wronged but going to new idea (allegedly) isn't the right way to deal with it.
Even though you know nothing about Tahlia or her and Tully's relationship.
I ask anyone who takes a similar outlandish position in all this:
Think of all the relationships you have been in and your friends have been in. Can you think of a relationship you or a friend has been in where they were trapped or in it and unable to get out even though it was bad for them? Now imagine you or your friend going on Big Brother and finding the opportunity to get out of the relationship. I for one would be cheering my friend for ending it.
I am not saying that is what happened with Tully and Tahlia. I am saying relationships are very complex and complicated and there could be a myriad of reasons why Tully doing what she did was the best thing for her. We simply do not know. So when people attack Tully with blind and ignorant rage and defend Tahlia while literally knowing nothing about her, well it is just plain silly. Yet this thought process is exactly what is guiding so many Tully haters?
These are not things that happened but just examples of things that could cause what happened.
Tully and Tahlia get into a big fight the week before she leaves about some day getting married. Tahlia says she will never, ever, ever get married, no matter what.
Tahlia was a serial cheater who regularly met other woman at her night job and hooked up with them. Tully could never pull the trigger on ending things and Tahlia always said she was sorry.
Tahlia was very controlling of Tully and was constantly getting on her about touching people , both guys and girls, even though she is very tactile. It was a constant non stop nagging that even blew up into a huge demeaning lecture before she left.
I could come up with a hundred more. The point is nobody knows about their relationship except Tahlia and Tully. Yet people had no problem jumping in to defend Tahlia, someone they knew zero about.
Add into that Tully clear struggling with issues as it relates to her sexuality and it was and is crazy that people were taking sides in the end of Tully's previous relationship. It was either a bad thing or a good thing it ended. None of us here have any idea. What we do know it is over and has been over.
