Jade 2013 Appreciation thread

hedgo18 said:
Ed has wrecked Jade. At the start she was incredibly bubbly, sort of had independence to herself (when married to drew she didn't show interest in drew even though drew had an interest in her), she got along with everyone including Tahan, and had a type of confidence in herself.

But as the days passed and she became more inlove with Ed her characteristics started to become that of Ed's, she got jealous of Tahan being close to Ed, and got to involved with Ed that she had lost herself. I really liked her at the start (I even voted for her) and now I still like her but I hate seeing how blinded she is by her infatuation with Ed. She has become so dependant on him that If he were to leave this week she will not no what to do as Ed is her comfort. It's such a shame that Ed has brought her down.
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See I dont see it this way. Yes Ed ruined her in the eyes of the public but her change was taking place regardless of the relationship with Ed. She knew people were talking about her, she didn't feel liked by a lot of the people in the house. She is not built for this bitchy/backstabbing/negative environment. She had stages when she did great but all those stages were because she had a loving support network. As the 'cool' kids were evicted she felt safer but she totally picked up on when the bitching about her started again.

She ended up getting that comfort/support from Ed because it was not being given by anyone else. When the SS left she lost her happy place. I dont and by then Tim and Drew had moved on, Mik was going negative and Ben had bonded more to the others at that point. Its understandable that she began to rely on Ed, she didn't have offers lining up at the door.

Up people were evicted or choose to turn away from her she was putting in time. She never used to spend any time during the day with Ed so its silly that people blame that for her change. Maybe the change comes down to having no emotional support in the house (Mik was much like Ed in that there was never a shoulder to cry on, only a angry rant). I dont know about you but I can totally pick up on when people dont like me or are talking about me when I walk into a room. And honestly, it would make me withdrawal to better protect myself as well.

I want Ed to go this week and she will handle it like she has everything else. Without bitterness and with one foot landing in front of the other.
 
Jane Doe said:
The only disagreement I have with this (and with Gemini's original post) is that Tim had already started the "fun" group vs. the others with the whole pizza making/mince stealing that took place before Ben's eviction. It was Jade that noted that night that Tim would come in to the room and talk about the other group doing something, and then she was sure he would go back and say something to the other group about them, which is exactly what he did. Those two groups formed, btw, because Tim, Tahan, and Drew all gathered in a bedroom the day of nominations to complain about Ed's "pride", ie, the rest of the HMs that were all sitting around and chatting. I think what really upset Tim (and Drew by osmosis) is the fact that Ed had essentially infiltrated the misfits group using Jade as an entry point and solidifying his position with his "prince charming" persona. I think if Ben had stayed in the house, Tim and Ben would have floated between the two groups but without Ben, Tim committed himself fully to the "fun" group since there was no way he was going to play second fiddle to Ed.

On another note, the new video of Jade and Drew cleaning the parlor made me sadder than the Tim talk with Jade earlier. Drew seemed to be trying to start a conversation with Jade and she completely stonewalled him. It's not that I want her to talk to him, but seeing her absolute coldness towards him is a reminder of how quiet I'll expect her to be if Ed leaves this week. I do expect, as someone said earlier, that if Ed DOES go, Tim will attach himself to Jade and start a new "misfit" group, at least in the DR.
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You are right. I think he did it to test the groups and see who had the stronger players because with the sweet and nice SS going home he was left wondering what the public wanted. He was playing the game and that's why he was so upset when Ben left because in creating the groups and putting them against each other and floating between the groups he left himself and Ben vulnerable and in the end that strategic move lost him his queen (not calling Ben a girl, just trying to explain it in a way that makes sense both inside and outside my head lol). In all the other weeks Ben was up he kept Ben interesting enough but that week he was busy causing drama which made people forget Ben in the voting. I think he was shocked because he thought him and Ben were safe and was rattled by Ben leaving and by them being the bottom two.

Who knows though, would love to get inside his head that is for sure.
 
Gemini said:
Can I just say that I love how a Jade fan on a completely different site to this one made some bad comments and now we're apparently all crazy and vile?

Good stuff.
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We are all crazy and vile. ;)

I dont take it to heart. They already think we are dumb for liking Jade so why not add a few more names to the list. :)
 
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Insomniac said:
Sometimes, nothing you say is right.
Think I'll stay out of other places tonight..
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That's why I say it and dont bother going back to see what others think. I said what I wanted to say, that's good enough for me. :)
No wonder people turn to the dark side, its not easy living in the light.
Worth it though. Most days it looks like there are more nasty people in the world then nice people. That is why I embrace people like Jade and people like you ladies. <3
 
And we embrace you too [MENTION=35199]Angel[/MENTION], kind of crazy round the place tonight.
Everywhere I look I think 'what the??'

By the way, did anyone think Jade looked hot when she was wearing Drew's jumper?lol
I have a thing for wearing and seeing other women wearing a man's shirt that's too big for them.
 
That is what I was thinking. Its funny how Drew wanted to see her wearing it lol.

I know what you mean. There is a Drew is great thread I just saw and I just had to say something. Seems that because he was great to Ben everyone loves him. That's great... For Ben... What about everyone else in the world? :P
 
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