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HumanFrailty
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Some people mistake being a coward for being nice.
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Some people mistake being a coward for being nice.
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SandyZ
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lollalisha
New Member
That's good. I like this one too:
jad·ed adjective \ˈjā-dəd\
: feeling or showing a lack of interest and excitement caused by having done or experienced too much of something
Given the fact that the vast majority of fellow housemates who are with her 24/7 say she is a nice person should probably be your first clue and help you process the conclusion.
While I am no real Jade fan, from what I have seen, she is a sweet and harmless kind of girl. Sure she is flawed and obsessed with Ed, but I think for you to judge her completely on one meltdown is most unfair.
I have loved every housemate this year, they have been a great bunch to watch.
Have you ever considered that maybe you aren't very nice?
lollalisha
New Member
hahaha that's pretty funny. you judge me from a post on a forum. at least I am basing my opinion on 3 months worth of footage. so who's not very nice now?
Someone is a tad sensitive....
Read it again.
I didn't judge you, I merely asked if you had ever considered the possibility that it might be you with the problem, given that you are the one hating on someone you don't know.
MADONNA
Scalp collector
omg sis no.
Jade is so pretty. What a bright willowy young woman. Everyone loves you Jade xo
Beebeebee
Obsession Level: 10
Not everyone. The only thing bright about her is her bright yellow hair!!
lollalisha
New Member
I do dislike Jade, I don't hate her. I am mystified as to her appeal and asked an innocent question looking for clarification. If this makes me not very nice in your eyes, well and good. Can't see the point in attacking a forum user in defense of someone YOU don't know, but if that's how you roll...
Hope you have a lovely day [MENTION=30612]TraLa[/MENTION]
What are you even talking about?
Where have I attacked you?
You asked an "innocent question", and I answered it. I didn't say anywhere that you "are not very nice".
How is it my fault that you don't like the answer to a question you asked! If you don't want an honest answer or opinion from members, don't ask the question.
I will have a lovely day. I refuse to partake in bad days.
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babyblueeyes
Guest
I find it amusing that her hair colour is all you have to bag her about lol
blonde hair, whether natural or coloured takes a lot to maintain, considering shes only had a school teacher to help with that she hasn't done too badly
Its certainly not as nice now as when she went in but if that's all people have to use against her then good for her
For me its her stupidity with Ed, I thought she had him figured out and maybe she does but for whatever reason shes not letting go and TBH shes getting a little scary
Connoisseur
Well-Known Member
She hides her true self behind a veneer of niceness, I agree with you on that. It's quite obvious to me that there's more to her true personality, a superficial vacuous uppity side of her that was quite evident whilst she had the fake marriage with Drew but because she then went on to become pathetically obsessed over Ed it has remained dormant. That's why I've wished Ed would've left ages ago, to see the true Jade not watered down pathetic one we are seeing. I also don't get the impression that ALL the housemates unanimously think she's a 'nice' a girl, far from it.
lollalisha
New Member
Well the answer you gave me didn't really address the question I asked. So yes you're right, I didn't really like the answer. Then you turn around and ask me if I had considered that I may not be very nice. That was hardly called for. .
I was asking for opinions from forum users and you told me that the vast majority of people think she's nice. Very helpful thanks.
Beebeebee
Obsession Level: 10
Oh no babyblueeyes... I have plenty to say about Jade. I've been saying it over and over and over.. I'm sure people are sick of reading the same thing relentlessly. So I just chose to insult her but not bore everyone with my rantings!
I am starting to think you just want to be outraged for the sake of being outraged. And if you think me suggesting you reflect on your own possible flaws is attacking and uncalled for, you need to log out now, because the interweb will eat you alive.
Did you actually read my post? My answer clearly addressed your question. You were asking for opinions and I gave you mine which included how the housemates seem to perceive her. I clearly said:-
You are actually getting to the point where you are embarrassing yourself with your confused responses. Now before you once again launch into outrage, this is not an attack, it is just my observation.
lollalisha
New Member
I appreciate your observation and thanks for the concern but I'll be just fine on the interwebs. And thanks also for the answer to my original question, I guess I just saw the last line and saw red because you did in fact give an opinion which I didn't register on first reading so I will apologise for that. Beyond that I still feel your comment had nasty intent, so I guess we will just have to agree to disagree there. Anyway I have a busy day ahead so I will leave it at that. I sincerely do wish you a lovely day. Cheers.
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claire_michell
Guest
Jade's NOT PATHETIC she's being herself however "off track" she's been about Ed she's done it with grace however she has a very strong fan base
Beebeebee
Obsession Level: 10
Just want to say - yes. She's pathetic. If you tell a man you love him, then talk about it for the next two days saying you won't apologise for you feelings (fair enough) but then make him feel like it's ok that he doesn't feel the same way, kiss him, cuddle him, tell him he's amaaaaaaaazing.... while he tells you he doesn't feel the same and probably never will.... It's on YOU girlfriend. HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT. I AM SO OVER YOU.
tilliii
Active Member
I don't understand why she's not hurt by it..how she has the nerve to kiss him after that. Makes me think she doesn't love him. He's just a fun crush and she wants the sympathy vote. Or she's very, very optimistic and thinks it's only a matter of time he goes nuts for her.