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confused about Ben

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has single-handedly put the gay rights movement in australia back about thirty years.
 
phatbeats33 said:
You can bet your bottom dollar what you are seeing is an act to win BB.

Ben is the sneakiest game player in the house this year...the others, all of them, have at some point admitted to playing based on a strategy of some sort (which perfectly normal) whereas Ben wants to fool us he's not playing the game and he is just 'little old me, just trying to be a nice person, i miss you so much nan, "
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nan's like the kid is weird.
 
Mrs Butterface said:
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See that photo looks like Nathan and I think if he went in to the house looking like that he wouldnt go as far. the whole skinny, nerd thing is working for him cause he's an old man but is still so young (in his 30s)
 
He also says he can't see without his glasses, there have been plenty of times he has not had them on. Could be sample ones.
 
up_all_night said:
Acting like a super sensitive, can't cope with simple tasks man baby is just a coping mechanism he developed to make his life easier. He's much smarter than he lets on. He's quite clever and creative. He is also quite confident at times. Hence the going into Big Brother as well as the ability to essentially perform. However the conflict is, this persona he puts out to the world is really quite opposed to who he really is. Instead of breaking free, he reverts too much into the man baby persona as it's easier for him.

He was probably infantalised by his mother to an unhealthy age. Then as a result got picked on and didn't fit in with his peers. So at this point in his psychological development he could have broken free from his mother and grown up. However instead, as he was isolated from those it was much easier to retreat back to his mother and embrace the infantalised persona. The problem is, as it's a persona and not really him, you get the conflict that we witness with him being on the show. Hence why it looks like an act. It's the real person showing through the cracks. However he is now too trapped by the persona and mentally in a prison where he's too scared to break free. Even though right below the surface he wants to and when he lets his guard down it comes out. The persona is also really just towards how he expresses himself and communicates. Internally it's not how his mind functions.

As he was growing up, he would have found that a lot of the only love and attention he got that was not negative was through sympathy. Which helped reinforce the persona. However once he got older and away from the teenage high school bullshit. He could have broken free, but as he acted in this way he actually found it made him more accepted by a wider and larger group of people. So that's where it really set in. He went from being an outcast for being this way, to getting special treatment for being this way. He gets let off the hook, and can get a free pass at many aspects of his life.

As he worked as a flight attendant in the real world. This persona would have retreated. However once that ended and he was on the dole. He jumped right back into the shell to excuse his position in his life. To get a free pass.
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I think you have it right, right now Ben has made a lot of friends people he would be too shy to interact with in the real world.For sure he has lived a sheltered life with his mum and nana...them being the most important persons in his life..Being accepted by the house is a huge thing for Ben and he would be scared to go back to the real world...
 
Wow, before i even read the comments on that photo i thought it looked like brad pitt....
The more this goes on the more i doubt him
And re. The glasses, aren't they identical to his mums?.....Hmmmm makes you wonder
 
Benny Benny Benny... how you give off the poor little me persona pftt some fall for it, not all.

For the looking into the camera - does Ben have x-ray vision and can see through the mirrors ? cause he would have to be superman to know exactly where the bullseye of the camera is. But some how he does have a sixth-sense where the camera is on the other side of the looking mirror, so does Tahan.
 
ASSASSIN said:
Benny Benny Benny... how you give off the poor little me persona pftt some fall for it, not all.

For the looking into the camera - does Ben have x-ray vision and can see through the mirrors ? cause he would have to be superman to know exactly where the bullseye of the camera is. But some how he does have a sixth-sense where the camera is on the other side of the looking mirror, so does Tahan.
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The don't hide the cameras the way they used to, there are still cameras behind the mirrors but there are some in plain view. Tully mentioned them on last nights show :)
 
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