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reepbot said:
Or not hold onto something that has been lost?
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that too. What once was with IM will never be that way again. You need to really know and believe that in your heart before you will be ready to move onto the opportunity of something more healthy and happy for you.

I know that is easier said than done.
 
Isee said:
that too. What once was with IM will never be that way again. You need to really know and believe that in your heart before you will be ready to move onto the opportunity of something more healthy and happy for you.

I know that is easier said than done.
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do you think @Affable was right and that i was her lapdog? especially in regards to the witty thing?
 
reepbot said:
but i signed up to okcupid? i'm meeting new people. i mean it is going to take time. it isn't a pity party, it is a review party.
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I'm not saying you are holding one. I think that can be a tendency of people in general. I know it can be with me. Absolutely you seem like you are doing some interesting stuff, like toastmasters and writing. No argument there. And absolutely Things Take Time. Or they can.
 
reepbot said:
do you think @Affable was right and that i was her lapdog? especially in regards to the witty thing?
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Do you? I understand or agree with very little of Affable's views on life in general (based on what I have read and seen on this board and the attitude that goes with it), so I may not be the best one to ask.
 
Mooseface said:
I'm not saying you are holding one. I think that can be a tendency of people in general. I know it can be with me. Absolutely you seem like you are doing some interesting stuff, like toastmasters and writing. No argument there. And absolutely Things Take Time. Or they can.
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never really heard the phrase 'pity party' until i came on this forum. it's a great way to dismiss someone's concerns. not that i am saying you do that of course. you are quite reasonable.
 
Isee said:
Do you? I understand or agree with very little of Affable's views on life in general (based on what I have read and seen on this board and the attitude that goes with it), so I may not be the best one to ask.
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not sure about lapdog. but i am pretty sure that inigo is aware of the influence she has over me.
 
Isee said:
Do you? I understand or agree with very little of Affable's views on life in general (based on what I have read and seen on this board and the attitude that goes with it), so I may not be the best one to ask.
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I have to concur here. Affable seems 'unusual' in his approach to things. I wouldn't take anything he says too seriously!
 
reepbot said:
never really heard the phrase 'pity party' until i came on this forum. it's a great way to dismiss someone's concerns. not that i am saying you do that of course. you are quite reasonable.
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Well - I have a friend who I respect who uses the phrase. I don't particularly like the phrase myself - BUT - I concede that sometimes self pity can be a bit of a trap that stops you moving in and it does get across the concept quite effectively. I don't think one should dismiss feelings or not undertake a grieving process or a review. I just know for myself that sometimes it is important to act against my feelings or they can get stuck. It's a fine balance. Of course.[DOUBLEPOST=1450179730][/DOUBLEPOST]
reepbot said:
i like affable.
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Good!
 
reepbot said:
not sure about lapdog. but i am pretty sure that inigo is aware of the influence she has over me.
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you haven't really hidden it, so she probably does. That doesn't mean you are her lapdog. Would you blindly do something you didn't want to just cos she said so?
 
Mooseface said:
Well - I have a friend who I respect who uses the phrase. I don't particularly like the phrase myself - BUT - I concede that sometimes self pity can be a bit of a trap that stops you moving in and it does get across the concept quite effectively. I don't think one should dismiss feelings or not undertake a grieving process or a review. I just know for myself that sometimes it is important to act against my feelings or they can get stuck. It's a fine balance. Of course.[DOUBLEPOST=1450179730][/DOUBLEPOST]
Good!
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well i guess it depends what you want out of it? do you want anwers or enablement?
 
Mooseface said:
I have to concur here. Affable seems 'unusual' in his approach to things. I wouldn't take anything he says too seriously!
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I will say that he has taught me to never watch vanderpump rules - I think I would actually punch my tv having to watch that snarky bitchy face he keeps posting. (and no affable I am not calling you snarky and bitchy just the character on a tv program you watch based on the attitude in her gifs)
 
Mooseface said:
You do seem to be milking the whole Inigo thing a bit though...
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she is an interesting poster i think. 'cat big brother interesting'. by that i mean she is more interesting in regards to he relationship to some of the posters on this forum than her herself.
 
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