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Tully dumped by her girlfriend?

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jooles_x said:
I think you'd be hard pressed to find someone in a serious, long-term relationship that considers "drunken kiss" to be on the same level as "developing feelings for someone else". One is a drinking problem that can be resolved by just not getting drunk, and the other is a massive breach of trust and hugely disrespectful. HMMM, WHICH IS WORSE. I CAN'T TELL.
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Seriously. Granted, if my partner did the former, he'd be in the doghouse until I was good and ready to let him out. But the difference between getting sloppy and acting a fool and getting emotionally involved with someone else is enormous.
 
Who said it was a drunken kiss anyway? Is this just trying to say it's okay as long as they were drunk?
They've been leading up to this in words and actions for a while, and while I don't agree with the level of hate going around, to excuse it kind of defies logic.
 
Insomniac said:
Who said it was a drunken kiss anyway? Is this just trying to say it's okay as long as they were drunk?
They've been leading up to this in words and actions for a while, and while I don't agree with the level of hate going around, to excuse it kind of defies logic.
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think they are assuming that footage came after the party - but how do we know with the delayed supposedly "LIVE" footage we get drip fed anyway!
"sorry officer I can't be held responsible for my actions because I had a few drinks!" just doesn't cut it ...
 
Question is: Now that the official Nine news website has reported it, will they address the break up at all on TV?
 
This is BB's first major "controversy" so to speak since coming to Nine.

Situation permitted, I'm kinda happy in a way. At least it's getting people talking.
 
People saying letting a drunk kiss, and even to let their partner have sex with someone else. Is the issue here not mainly breaking the trust of a relationship? If you enter a relationship you're committing to one person for the duration. How is getting drunk and kissing someone else, or even having sex with someone else tolerable? It's breaking that commitment and trust which are foundations for most relationships. Unless you're a doormat who will let your partner do it as long as feelings aren't involved.

What Tully and Drew have done is no worse than what so many others world wide constantly do. But people with no personal connection are acting like they've committed some horrible crime.
 
^^The fact of the matter is they've done it on national television - Her girlfriend is very aware of it, it's like cheating on someone right in front of them or coming home and finding someone in bed with your partner.
Most people despise it.
 
BlackMask said:
People saying letting a drunk kiss, and even to let their partner have sex with someone else. Is the issue here not mainly breaking the trust of a relationship? If you enter a relationship you're committing to one person for the duration. How is getting drunk and kissing someone else, or even having sex with someone else tolerable? It's breaking that commitment and trust which are foundations for most relationships. Unless you're a doormat who will let your partner do it as long as feelings aren't involved.

What Tully and Drew have done is no worse than what so many others world wide constantly do. But people with no personal connection are acting like they've committed some horrible crime.
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So if everyone does it it's ok? Imo it is a horrible crime. In my world all cheaters would be jailed. That's right, JAILED!
 
Sorceress said:
^^The fact of the matter is they've done it on national television - Her girlfriend is very aware of it, it's like cheating on someone right in front of them or coming home and finding someone in bed with your partner.
Most people despise it.
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And I've stated earlier that it was handled poorly but people have massively overreacted to the situation. I've always said how horrible it must have been for Tahlia.
 
Sorceress said:
It wasn't an observation - She's clearly female, your post was out of line.
Ruining society? No its more to do with people like you.

Just your typical homophobia:rolleyes:
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^ This. Makes sense that someone with only two posts would cause problems.
 
People need to calm the fuck down on this. Tully made a mistake, she didn't hurt anyone here or anyone you actually know. Judge her on her actions if you must but keep some bloody perspective when you do.
 
Sorceress said:
^^The fact of the matter is they've done it on national television - Her girlfriend is very aware of it, it's like cheating on someone right in front of them or coming home and finding someone in bed with your partner.
Most people despise it.
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with regard to people saying its somehow made worse by being on National Television ... the whole idea with BB I always thought was that they would get comfortable amongst their HMs and for the most part (until BB interrupted their day) forget about the cameras ... or get complacent and think there would be places there that they can't be seen or heard ...
I'm thinking the 'hamster wheel' is a good example - the HM's probably dont realise they can so clearly be seen and heard in there ...

its that dropping of their guard that allows us to see them at their worst/best/most real at some point or another ...

i don't think Tully & Drew really thought OK This is a great idea ... let alone this is a great idea to do on national tv and be held up for everyone's judgement ... its happened ...and they won't realise the repercussions on the outside til they leave the house

They may however wake up to repercussions inside the house with HMs like Matt alreadying not liking what was going on even before the kiss under the doona ...
 
Tim said:
The housemates give the producers a handful of scenarios where they would be told things from the outside world (ie. "a member of my family dies").

Tully could have nominated this as one of those scenarios.

Sidenote: big big big props to [MENTION=32160]ryanseacrest[/MENTION] for scooping this one!
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#justsayin ... We were discussing this in the HM forum (HM Number 5 -Tully Thread - post 1094 on.....) a few hours before this thread!!

I doubt Tully would have foreseen this and nominated to be told if Tahlia dumps her.
 
Insomniac said:
Who said it was a drunken kiss anyway? Is this just trying to say it's okay as long as they were drunk?
They've been leading up to this in words and actions for a while, and while I don't agree with the level of hate going around, to excuse it kind of defies logic.
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crimmy said:
think they are assuming that footage came after the party - but how do we know with the delayed supposedly "LIVE" footage we get drip fed anyway!
"sorry officer I can't be held responsible for my actions because I had a few drinks!" just doesn't cut it ...
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Just to clear up any confusion: the "drunken kiss" that's been mentioned is not Drew/Tully, it's a drunken kiss Jade and Tahan shared last week. Someone here brought it up, to compare to Drew & Tully, although the comparison is silly.

Just trying to clear that up to squash any rumours before they have a chance to start.
 
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