phatbeats33
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Watched the footage again and it doesn't show much in the lead up to the argument. Footage starts with the HMs sitting on the outside sofas in a big group, the group appears to be involved in some kind of heated debate and Tim seems visibly upset about SOMETHING (?) and then BANG it's all on. There is no context whatsoever....I'm certain Tim lost it and called Ed an idiot for a reason, something was said or something happened that made Tim snap like that.
Any ideas what it was ?
THE FOLLOWING IS A TRANSCRIPT OF THE ARGUMENT.
MANY THANKS TO YASMIN WEAVER FROM THE BBAU LIVE FEED FORUM FOR THE INCREDIBLE WORK.
ALRIGHT. Just put it in writing for everyone bickering about it here, I've spent the last hour transcribing Ed and Tim's argument expressed trouble keeping up with them both (it was hard to write, I'll tell you that).
Pick it apart at your leisure, folks! (and excuse my typos where you find them.)
Tim: "Ed, are we cool?"
Ed: "Yeah."
Tim: "I just felt as though you were making fun of me, that's why I--" [cutoff]
Ed: "Nah, I was gonna speak to you tomorrow because I was just pissed off that you called me an idiot. I was just like, do you think that okay--"
Tim: "I know. I just felt like..." [trails off]
[both start talking at the same time here]
Ed: "Like, I know you--
Tim [contd from above]: "...whether you understood what I was saying or not--
Ed [over the top of Tim]: "No. That--"
Tim [contd from above.]: "-- you made me feel like an idiot in front of everyone and I was just trying to
get the ball rolling--" [cut off]
Ed: "You called me an idiot. And I was just like "Are you being serious?""
Tim: "Because you were make- I was like "Why are you doing this?" like--"
Ed: "Nah. Like, I'm not saying that. I just think--"
Tim [contd from above]: ""Why?" When I'm just trying to get the ball rolling, being vulnerable, you're
making me feel like a fool--" [cut off. Ed talks over the part after 'vulnerable']
Ed: "No. No you- you weren't, at all. I- I felt as if you just- you just pointed me out and I felt victimized,
on the point of, well, I'm not the one saying it. Everyone was saying it. So why just point out--"
Tim [over the top of Ed]: "No..."
Ed [contd from above]: "-- and say "Ed, you're an idiot" 'cause you said that. So I just felt--" [cut off]
Tim: "And then it was when Tahan--"
Ed [contd from above]: "-- it's extremely rude. And I was just like "Who's he-- who- you can- you
should never be able to call anyone that--"
[Maddie and Tahan walk in]
Ed [contd from above]: "-- it doesn't make it okay."
Tim: "I can when you're singling me out in front of everyone--"
Ed: "I wasn't--"
Tim: "You were--"
Ed: "I wasn't at all. And you're trying to play that card--"
Tim: "You did."
Ed: "-- and that's not going to roll with me because- that- you were, because you made me feel like and
absolute idiot and you say that in front of everyone when everyone else is saying--"
Tim: "I'm saying that because you made ME feel that--" [cut off]
Ed: "Tim--"
Tim: "I was calling you out on--"
Ed: "Does that make- does that make it okay to say- to make--"
Tim: "Yes. Because you made me feel like a fool--"
Ed [over the top of Tim]: "Does that make that okay?"
Tim: "--like a criminal even--"
Ed: "[unitelligible... "That's not okay"??]"
Tim: "You're calling- if you're making me look like a fool when I'm just trying to get the ball rolling on a
joke--" [Ed talks ove the bit after 'rolling']
Ed: "Who's making you out like a fool?" [he then repeats this when Tim is silent]
Tim: "You did!"
[it gets difficult to write here, because Tim is trying to finish his sentence and Ed keeps breaking it up and
trying to walk away]
Ed: "Tim--"
Tim: "You did. And when Tahan--
Ed: " Tim, all I'll say is--"
Tim: "--started explaining it you said "Let him say"- he--"
Ed: "All I'll say is that if you don't--"
Tim: "Ed--"
Ed: "I'll not stand here--"
Tim: "You did it. You did it."
Ed [contd]: "--and let you--"
Tim: "But, why--"
Ed [contd]: "--create something that doesn't exist." (walks away)
Tim: "I- Why would I say--" [cut off]
Ed: "No. Because I just thought that's pretty--"
Tim [contd]: "--you're bing an idiot. Why would I say you're a bloody idiot if I didn't feel--
Ed: "Because you're trying to win an argument. And I just don't feel--"
Tim: "What? There was no argument, Ed!"
Ed: "No. Exactly."
Tim: "I said--"
Ed: "Exactly."
Tim: "I said why- like- why--"
[cut to Jade and Maddie then back again]
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Tim: "I'm not out to get you--"
Ed: "I don't think that at all."
Tim: "There's some mass hysteria of paranoia happening in the last few weeks--"
Ed: "Has that been--"
Tim: "I'm not playing this game like that."
Ed: "Tim just think for a second. Jade's--"
Tim: "These new sides that they've- that you think is happening in the house, and that you're being singled out and left out, there's no cool group. We just wanna have fun--"
Ed: "Exactly. Go have fun. But, I don't feel that you understand how excluded I feel at times and things, and then you ask for trust about everything and the you go asking everyone else about it to back you up."
Tim: "That was Tahan, Drew and Boog. I--"
Ed: "So why haven't you said anything to them about it of they made you- did you just say they made you feel like an idiot as well?"
Tim: "No! Only YOU--"
Ed: "But why--"
Tim [contd]: "--made me feel like an idiot tonight."
Ed: "--would I--"
Tim: "That's my feelings."
Ed: "The only person--"
Tim: "That's my feelings--"
Ed: "You can feel that. But I feel that you just looked at me to say that--"
Tim [contd]: "-- so that's why I called you a bloody idiot."
Ed: "But, but that- Why does two wrongs make a right? Why is it okay for you to call anybody in this house any name."
Tim: "That's why we're talking about it now, Ed--"
Ed: "I definitely understand that. I'm trying to understand YOU."
Tim[contd]: "--to make sure that we're okay with what happened tonight."
Ed: "I'm trying to understand you, because-"
[cut to outside and back]
Tim: "Are you trying to make it out like I said that without her knowing I said that?" [Ed talks over the last bit of that...]
Ed: "No, no. I'm using that as an example. I didn't tell her that, did I? She doesn't even know about it."
Tim: "Why are you trying to make this out like some--"
Ed: "No, because you--"
Tim [cont]: "-- smoking gun!"
Ed: "No! I know what you do, Tim, and I'm okay with that, but all I'm saying is that you and I differ. If you want to pull someone in to try and win an argument then fine, but I don't think--" [Mikka is standing beside Ed here]
Tim: "You're trying to use the exact same thing." [pointing to Mikka]
Ed: "What you do."
Tim: "You're trying to--"
Ed: "Exactly what you do. You don't- you feel threatened by for some reason. And you feel as if you can make me feel--
Tim: "I do NOT feel threatened by you, Ed--"
Ed: "Well, Tim--"
Tim [cont]: "--THAT is the joke of this all: that I don't!"
Ed: "Well- Tim!"
Tim [cont]: "I don't need your validation at all."
Ed: "Tim, I have mates that are exactly have the same interests as you, work in the exact same thing, exactly studying what you're studying. You know nothing about me. That's what, in this whole thing, is so funny. You pass judgement upon me, whether you admit it or not."
Tim: "It's not about what we do for a job or what I'm interested in."
Ed: "No. It's who you are as a person. We- we've had this underlying... whatever it is, and that's fine, but--
Tim: "I just--"
Ed [cont]: "-- what it gets back to is, tonight, you think that, because of your underlying tone. I guess, I think that because my underlying tone with you, and the only reason that it makes it a bigger issue at times--"
[cut to Tahan in the Diary room, who then kicks them out of the bedroom]
{cut to out in the kitchen]
Tim: "Or do you want two groups? Sometimes--"
Ed: "I have never wanted two groups at all. Like, I'm happy- more of a natural progression on things."
Tim: "'cause I don't want two groups."
Ed: "Do you think there's two groups, Drew?"
Drew: "Don't think there is. There only is when... it starts to get acknowledged.
Ed: "Yeah. Exactly. Perpetuated."
Drew: "Yeah, it's an idea only."
Tim: "So, today when we're all having fun, we're not saying "We don't want those guys having fin with us". Like, I'm apologizing for calling you a bloody idiot--"
Ed: "Yep."
Tim: "--and explaining that was because I felt like you made me feel like a bloody idiot."
Ed: "Yeah, and I guess, like, if we can't come to an agreement then we can't come to agreement."
Tim: "Yeah."
Any ideas what it was ?
THE FOLLOWING IS A TRANSCRIPT OF THE ARGUMENT.
MANY THANKS TO YASMIN WEAVER FROM THE BBAU LIVE FEED FORUM FOR THE INCREDIBLE WORK.
ALRIGHT. Just put it in writing for everyone bickering about it here, I've spent the last hour transcribing Ed and Tim's argument expressed trouble keeping up with them both (it was hard to write, I'll tell you that).
Pick it apart at your leisure, folks! (and excuse my typos where you find them.)
Tim: "Ed, are we cool?"
Ed: "Yeah."
Tim: "I just felt as though you were making fun of me, that's why I--" [cutoff]
Ed: "Nah, I was gonna speak to you tomorrow because I was just pissed off that you called me an idiot. I was just like, do you think that okay--"
Tim: "I know. I just felt like..." [trails off]
[both start talking at the same time here]
Ed: "Like, I know you--
Tim [contd from above]: "...whether you understood what I was saying or not--
Ed [over the top of Tim]: "No. That--"
Tim [contd from above.]: "-- you made me feel like an idiot in front of everyone and I was just trying to
get the ball rolling--" [cut off]
Ed: "You called me an idiot. And I was just like "Are you being serious?""
Tim: "Because you were make- I was like "Why are you doing this?" like--"
Ed: "Nah. Like, I'm not saying that. I just think--"
Tim [contd from above]: ""Why?" When I'm just trying to get the ball rolling, being vulnerable, you're
making me feel like a fool--" [cut off. Ed talks over the part after 'vulnerable']
Ed: "No. No you- you weren't, at all. I- I felt as if you just- you just pointed me out and I felt victimized,
on the point of, well, I'm not the one saying it. Everyone was saying it. So why just point out--"
Tim [over the top of Ed]: "No..."
Ed [contd from above]: "-- and say "Ed, you're an idiot" 'cause you said that. So I just felt--" [cut off]
Tim: "And then it was when Tahan--"
Ed [contd from above]: "-- it's extremely rude. And I was just like "Who's he-- who- you can- you
should never be able to call anyone that--"
[Maddie and Tahan walk in]
Ed [contd from above]: "-- it doesn't make it okay."
Tim: "I can when you're singling me out in front of everyone--"
Ed: "I wasn't--"
Tim: "You were--"
Ed: "I wasn't at all. And you're trying to play that card--"
Tim: "You did."
Ed: "-- and that's not going to roll with me because- that- you were, because you made me feel like and
absolute idiot and you say that in front of everyone when everyone else is saying--"
Tim: "I'm saying that because you made ME feel that--" [cut off]
Ed: "Tim--"
Tim: "I was calling you out on--"
Ed: "Does that make- does that make it okay to say- to make--"
Tim: "Yes. Because you made me feel like a fool--"
Ed [over the top of Tim]: "Does that make that okay?"
Tim: "--like a criminal even--"
Ed: "[unitelligible... "That's not okay"??]"
Tim: "You're calling- if you're making me look like a fool when I'm just trying to get the ball rolling on a
joke--" [Ed talks ove the bit after 'rolling']
Ed: "Who's making you out like a fool?" [he then repeats this when Tim is silent]
Tim: "You did!"
[it gets difficult to write here, because Tim is trying to finish his sentence and Ed keeps breaking it up and
trying to walk away]
Ed: "Tim--"
Tim: "You did. And when Tahan--
Ed: " Tim, all I'll say is--"
Tim: "--started explaining it you said "Let him say"- he--"
Ed: "All I'll say is that if you don't--"
Tim: "Ed--"
Ed: "I'll not stand here--"
Tim: "You did it. You did it."
Ed [contd]: "--and let you--"
Tim: "But, why--"
Ed [contd]: "--create something that doesn't exist." (walks away)
Tim: "I- Why would I say--" [cut off]
Ed: "No. Because I just thought that's pretty--"
Tim [contd]: "--you're bing an idiot. Why would I say you're a bloody idiot if I didn't feel--
Ed: "Because you're trying to win an argument. And I just don't feel--"
Tim: "What? There was no argument, Ed!"
Ed: "No. Exactly."
Tim: "I said--"
Ed: "Exactly."
Tim: "I said why- like- why--"
[cut to Jade and Maddie then back again]
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Tim: "I'm not out to get you--"
Ed: "I don't think that at all."
Tim: "There's some mass hysteria of paranoia happening in the last few weeks--"
Ed: "Has that been--"
Tim: "I'm not playing this game like that."
Ed: "Tim just think for a second. Jade's--"
Tim: "These new sides that they've- that you think is happening in the house, and that you're being singled out and left out, there's no cool group. We just wanna have fun--"
Ed: "Exactly. Go have fun. But, I don't feel that you understand how excluded I feel at times and things, and then you ask for trust about everything and the you go asking everyone else about it to back you up."
Tim: "That was Tahan, Drew and Boog. I--"
Ed: "So why haven't you said anything to them about it of they made you- did you just say they made you feel like an idiot as well?"
Tim: "No! Only YOU--"
Ed: "But why--"
Tim [contd]: "--made me feel like an idiot tonight."
Ed: "--would I--"
Tim: "That's my feelings."
Ed: "The only person--"
Tim: "That's my feelings--"
Ed: "You can feel that. But I feel that you just looked at me to say that--"
Tim [contd]: "-- so that's why I called you a bloody idiot."
Ed: "But, but that- Why does two wrongs make a right? Why is it okay for you to call anybody in this house any name."
Tim: "That's why we're talking about it now, Ed--"
Ed: "I definitely understand that. I'm trying to understand YOU."
Tim[contd]: "--to make sure that we're okay with what happened tonight."
Ed: "I'm trying to understand you, because-"
[cut to outside and back]
Tim: "Are you trying to make it out like I said that without her knowing I said that?" [Ed talks over the last bit of that...]
Ed: "No, no. I'm using that as an example. I didn't tell her that, did I? She doesn't even know about it."
Tim: "Why are you trying to make this out like some--"
Ed: "No, because you--"
Tim [cont]: "-- smoking gun!"
Ed: "No! I know what you do, Tim, and I'm okay with that, but all I'm saying is that you and I differ. If you want to pull someone in to try and win an argument then fine, but I don't think--" [Mikka is standing beside Ed here]
Tim: "You're trying to use the exact same thing." [pointing to Mikka]
Ed: "What you do."
Tim: "You're trying to--"
Ed: "Exactly what you do. You don't- you feel threatened by for some reason. And you feel as if you can make me feel--
Tim: "I do NOT feel threatened by you, Ed--"
Ed: "Well, Tim--"
Tim [cont]: "--THAT is the joke of this all: that I don't!"
Ed: "Well- Tim!"
Tim [cont]: "I don't need your validation at all."
Ed: "Tim, I have mates that are exactly have the same interests as you, work in the exact same thing, exactly studying what you're studying. You know nothing about me. That's what, in this whole thing, is so funny. You pass judgement upon me, whether you admit it or not."
Tim: "It's not about what we do for a job or what I'm interested in."
Ed: "No. It's who you are as a person. We- we've had this underlying... whatever it is, and that's fine, but--
Tim: "I just--"
Ed [cont]: "-- what it gets back to is, tonight, you think that, because of your underlying tone. I guess, I think that because my underlying tone with you, and the only reason that it makes it a bigger issue at times--"
[cut to Tahan in the Diary room, who then kicks them out of the bedroom]
{cut to out in the kitchen]
Tim: "Or do you want two groups? Sometimes--"
Ed: "I have never wanted two groups at all. Like, I'm happy- more of a natural progression on things."
Tim: "'cause I don't want two groups."
Ed: "Do you think there's two groups, Drew?"
Drew: "Don't think there is. There only is when... it starts to get acknowledged.
Ed: "Yeah. Exactly. Perpetuated."
Drew: "Yeah, it's an idea only."
Tim: "So, today when we're all having fun, we're not saying "We don't want those guys having fin with us". Like, I'm apologizing for calling you a bloody idiot--"
Ed: "Yep."
Tim: "--and explaining that was because I felt like you made me feel like a bloody idiot."
Ed: "Yeah, and I guess, like, if we can't come to an agreement then we can't come to agreement."
Tim: "Yeah."