Please explain??Just reminiscing some of Sam's finest unmaterialistic charity work, I mean VIP pool party
never saw her at any of those things before the Bachelor though ... unlike say Lana who goes to them with her friend Laura ... and a lot of the things she went to were part and parcel of the post-Bachelor event merry-go-round the women were doing ...
it was a rhetorical question and the "we" was a general pronoun to encompass everyone not just specific people
you labelled her as "the sort who goes to the opening of an envelope" - but they all get on the merrygoround of invites and freebies when first out of the show these days ... THAT was my point - I don't think she deserves to be criticised or labelled as "the sort who ..." and I wanted to explain why I though that
Who was your favourite that year?
So you don't have a type? Or some personality traits that you'd like your future girlfriend to possess? If not then you'd probably be one of the only ones. More often than not the person you find is liked for themselves and not because they possess everything on the list but it definitely isn't an uncommon thing. Be honest now
He didn't spend time away with her though. It was like 2 days or something. He shouldn't have proposed (I don't think any of them should until spending time together outside) just for show. You make pretty broad assumptions based on tabloids lol.. oh and the fact she's part of the gender who broke your little heart
He was, he came in with a clean slate. Just because I don't think he's perfect doesn't mean I think he's at the opposite spectrum either, and just because there have been comments on certain actions doesn't mean that sample should be extrapolated to the whole of his existence. Put away your tiny violin
Well it wasn't, I was talking about a rag. Misquoting hmmm... do you work for the Daily Mail?
lol your lack of relevant knowledge of the subject matter is duly noted
They are very different kettle of fish. For starters they don't tend to be extroverted attention seeking dimwits willing to forgo their dignity in search for a few minutes of fame. 
On the contrary they're usually well adjusted individuals with at least a modicum of self respect which rules out ever applying for shows like 'the bachelor'. 
it was a rhetorical question and the "we" was a general pronoun to encompass everyone not just specific people
its a discussion - NOT an argument
I think she deserves to be given a clean slate for her new start ... that's why I was disappointed when Ep2 again started with the deep in thought looking back to last year stuff ... they should let her move forward and not keep bringing that up
Believe or not my opinion on reality show contestants ( female and male) has no bearing on my actual views I have of people of all sexes I come across in real life.
So please don't mistake comments I make on either sex (but particularly females since that seems to arc up the posters in here the most ) as my perception of people in general.
You could argue that I have a low opinion of the majority of reality contestants (with a few exceptions), especially dating shows where a bunch of women have no qualms in immediately competing with each other over a bloke they've never previously met.
It just sets a new low as far as I'm concerned and I make no apologies for stating my contempt for those (again male and female) participating in such a show.
But to reiterate that in no way extends to how I perceive the average normal person who stays away from these exploitative shows.
Nice try though.
yep my husband laughs and rolls his eyes as well ... but he still turns up to sit on couch and watch it each week
Just poking light fun at her need to distance herself from materialism. I'd happily be kept and shop the internet all day without shame if I can just find someone stupid enough to fund it.
