Seems to me what most folks in this thread are struggling with are not the HMs, but their own definitions of Love - Hate.
They are strong words and ye shall not take them in vain
Why not say I used to like Tim because he has such a powerful voice, but now I don't like him because he hasn't washed his hair for three weeks.
No Love - Hate required.
Or... I used to like Tahan because she knows how to put a ball through the hoop, but I don't like her any more because she's so damn pretty and I'm so ugly and I am green with envy.
See, even in a drastic case like this,
No Love - Hate required.
Live's easier without the Love - Hate thingy... trust me.