Firstly, Sandra knows he has a gf so she shouldn't be considering him that way to start with. Off limits, end of story.
Sam, on the other hand, based on what we see is very tactile with her - constantly hugging her, kissing her, touching her butt. To me this too is inappropriate. He may think of her as a mate and believe that she's on that same page too - BUT - when you're constantly touching a woman and calling her your queen, she's going to start reading things in that aren't there.
Having a crush on someone in and of itself isn't an issue - is when you start having the hope or expectation that something may eventuate that you start being wrong and this is the line I think Sandra crossed last night.
Lawson was worse than useless with this all (which I found strange because he has a g/f himself and I thought he'd be more protective of another's relationship) - in fact I found him to be encouraging Sandra, to what end I have no idea.
Sam's face when Sandra said 'you'll always be someone else's' - omg seriously??? Are you totally oblivious??? You were just happy to get your cuddles and kisses and physical comfort and have her look at you with adoration and then be completely shocked when you realise that she was getting other hopes? Pfffffft.
Voice of reason from Ryan (he exists!!) - he obviously told Sandra straight up to back off Sam as he has a g/f so she has no excuse now I don't think because even if she was getting carried away with the BB bubble and forgetting about the reality waiting for him outside she's been reminded. Also, Sam has no excuse either for continuing to be so touchy feely with Sandra pretending not to know how much she's into him because Ryan has told him flat out that Sandra wants more.
What needs to happen now is for Sam to set the record straight with Sandra and back off the touchy stuff and Sandra needs to decide if she can just be mates with him without wanting more. If not, she needs some distance from him. Not going to end well I think.[DOUBLEPOST=1411952660][/DOUBLEPOST]
Something I've been pondering through all of this... what actual proof do we have that Sam really does have a girlfriend? Apart from him saying so?
What if he decided it was all just a strategy/easier to go into the house and say he was dating someone, so that he would appear to be off limits and therefore not get caught up in any sort of showmance which could put at risk his chances of winning? Only he never figured on someone like Sandra being in there? A girl who is willing to overlook such details.. So what if that is why Sam looked so caught off-guard when Sandra said he would always belong to someone else?
With all the sleuthing that goes on around here, has anyone come up with a name of this girlfriend? A pic of them together? Found someone who personally knows Sam, that can vouch 100% no bullshit? Or is it all just on sam's say so? I mean, how easy for Sam to tell the producers he has a GF, okay no probs, we'll chuck that up on the website. Then he tells the HM's, okay no probs, we'll make sure they all know and will all talk about it. Could be completely wrong, but it's something that's been buzzing through my head since last nights show. His reactions just seem a bit off, and the things he is saying to Sandra and the way he is touching her.. something isn't adding up. Of course unless he really is just a massive douchebag.
They were asking him questions about when he met his g/f and he said they met in a club and she didn't know at first that he only had one leg and that she's fine with it.