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hooleydooley said:
Yes I was venting - He is handling the situation quite well now. I think the worst part was putting plans in place and feeling relief that all will be steady for a while and then to have uncertainty. The guy who owns the business has know him for
20 years and worked with him before.

The 'foreman' had attitude and on site they found a meth pipe and also a bag of ice! mmmmmmm so it makes you wonder!




He wanted to go back and have a chat with the big boss, but thought fuck em!



Yes, contractors do not have rights here.
Thinking we will put a report into Human Rights, just so it is reported.
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Having a word to the big boss still wouldn't go astray I suggest as he may not have been aware of the accoutrements onsite and would he be wondering where your partner is? If the foreman is pulling the wool over his eyes however, it may well be a lost cause. Not nice to off loaded so callously and suddenly though, especially when plans are made on the back of the contract.
 
crimmy said:
not really sure my comment was turning anything into a pity party

pity party would surely be along the lines of

awww poor thing - tell him we all love him and he's NOT old!!! they're just big meanies and we know he's got to be sooo much nicer than those nasty people

whereas I said they lacked the balls to do it face to face and basically they were gutless and it was a disgusting way to treat someone

hmm pity party? not so much!

crimmy & empathy 1
trala @ sarcasm/humour/MEMEME values big fat 0

(waiting for 'nek minutt' when u race back to tell me what a loser I am because I didn't wake up spooning your partner and being drooled on by your cute puppies ... oh but wait - I have my own partner ... but sadly these puppies - they be all my own! so hold the MEMEME vs the rest stuff - I'm not in the market for your ever-so-gracious put-downs and you'll just drag your bestie WB in here so you can both start chest-thumping over the joys of home ownership and bank accounts yet again *yawn*)

did someone say lunch? toodles!

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Firstly the way you are able to actually re-enact a pity party using a different size and font for effect is laugh out loud funny.

Why would I call you a loser for waking up spooning MY partner and being drooled on by MY cute puppy(not ies)? The only reason I even shared how I woke up is because you fucking asked!

As far as home ownership goes, I just bought my first home, the bank owns it! I don't even own the letterbox, let alone the front door! And as of today I have $1700 in the bank.

And seriously, is that what you got from my interaction with WB today? That we are besties?

I do like the way you rate your own ability to empathise though, only a true victim can do that successfully.

Fuck me sideways. Who are you people and how do you function in real life? I mean seriously? But the biggest question, why do I continue to log back in here even though I am faced with the same mind numbing retardedness every time? I hate what this place has turned me into. The only area of my life where I have any sort of drama or toxic back and forth unwitty banter is fucking here, and yet I continue to log in and engage. I swear to God it is like an addiction, if I don't do 30 days BBB sobriety without interacting with idiots like you, I am going to become you. Seriously, I would be ashamed if my partner, son and family could see the side of me this forum brings out, I need an intervention!
 
ROTFLMFAO - I swear if you had a penis you'd be strutting around here with a ruler!!

get this clear
I don't give a rats arse if you own your own home, have a mortgage, how much you have in your bank account ... WHATEVER

personally I don't judge anyone here on the stuff they have going on in their lives - but you're just loving turning each and every conversation into a pissing contest

I also dont come in here to look down my nose at anyone ... tell them they are stupid for worrying about something in their life that concerns them (or their friends) (most especially in a thread specifically aimed at being somewhere to come to vent or whatever) ... tell them they can't think one way because I think the other ... and I certainly don't come in here to rant and swear at them or call them idiots

I like to think I treat people with respect whether on this forum or elsewhere

you think I don't get the joke? well YOU don't get ME when I'm joking or being sarcastic either (ffs I KNOW you and WB aren't besties! blind freddie could tell that!) didn't see your interaction today with WB - to be honest I scroll past any interactions you have with one another because its a pathetic waste of my time to bother reading yet another pissing competition between the two of you

but in future anytime I TRY to put something across to you that needs to be read as humour / sarcasm I'll attempt to dumb it right down for your benefit with the good ole LOL clue. Because funnily enough everyone else seems to get it just fine ... but maybe its just because your heads so far up your own arse reminding yourself how wonderful you are that you don't actually take any time out to consider anyone else

have a nice weekend (oh and no need to come and report to me what sort of weekend you DO have because just like I didn't really give two shits what caused your uncaring rant at Hooley this morning other than to call it out for what it was ... I'm just happy to wish you have a nice weekend and leave it at that)
 
Anyway it all comes down to how you deal with a situation. I don't feel the need to give anything but positive advice, if I can.

My 'friend' has dealt with this situation in a good way. He seeked out a friend, that knew the person and the possible situation. He dealt with it in a better way, than I have dealt with shit in the past.

Does that make me a bad person, because I don't have that coping skills as alot of other people have?

I maybe weak, I maybe whatever ...... but I am a human that did not come with an instruction manual ........

Trying to deal with the ticktock life that we are all expected to live by ........... does my head in

Peace out .... Love you ALL
 
We all have different personalities and therefore we will all deal with things our own way and go about things the way we feel is right for us. There is no one way of doing anything.

I personally can't help but feel for someone sometimes. I try and understand the person as they are and not how I think they should be. What an utterly boring and one sided life if there was only one way to be. Some people are made to be teachers, others doctors, some as politicians, others as shop owners. Different fields with different personalities.
 
Sweetgeek said:
We all have different personalities and therefore we will all deal with things our own way and go about things the way we feel is right for us. There is no one way of doing anything.

I personally can't help but feel for someone sometimes. I try and understand the person as they are and not how I think they should be. What an utterly boring and one sided life if there was only one way to be. Some people are made to be teachers, others doctors, some as politicians, others as shop owners. Different fields with different personalities.
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That was a Tinariffic post, @Sweetgeek. Your deep capacity for understanding and empathy is truly an inspiration. Keep on shining on, Sweetgeek.
 
as much as I have tried to understand communication tralas way, I still don't get where she is coming from.
Maybe sharing a coffee when I move over that way, might make me feel and understand it all a bit better,

I don't know what it is all about. I don't need to defend myself nor do I need to do say how many times I suck on whatever for whatever. Leaves a bit of a bad taste in my mouth - just saying ........


I actually GET some of her posts ......... but sometimes the written word comes across the wrong way ....... but then again -
who the FUCK KNOWS, when a person hits SEND ????????

Like now ........ HAHAHAHAHAHAHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
 
Jam said:
This is the R U OK thread, isn't it? Am I right? Or have I misread that as the 'Attack posters on here that need some support' thread?

I'm not ok. I'm not sharing what I'm going through, that's for sure.
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Jam said:
This is the R U OK thread, isn't it? Am I right? Or have I misread that as the 'Attack posters on here that need some support' thread?

I'm not ok. I'm not sharing what I'm going through, that's for sure.
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You know how and where to find those of us you'd care to share with. Hoping all will be well soon.
 
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