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Post BB Housemate Antics - Part 3

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Veronica2005 said:
Tahan Lew Fatt ‏@TahnyLew 42
Today I am pretending 2be a dancer
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On set today for @pavdharia music video shoot
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MUA: Karla Top: @tigermistonline
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I love this makeup artists work!

One of my fave looks from Tahan was when she was dressed as a Spanish woman last year on the show and she rocked that bun look. I love her hair up, that face is gorgeous!
 
Consuela said:
I hope not cos it looks like she's next to Matt Boomer and if they're friends then I don't know is life is worth living any more.
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Just looked again and she has a photo of them together with Danny Glover posted. I could see Tully making friends with pretty much anyone fairly easily.
 

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Consuela said:
I hope not cos it looks like she's next to Matt Boomer and if they're friends then I don't know is life is worth living any more.
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It will be ok, Consuela. look at that face, can you see him being anything but sweet and polite... think of the exchange between tully and him as just that ;)
 
jasonroses
2 hours ago
Omg omg omg look what I was given as a birthday present from big brother. It was hanging in the music studio and I remember running up to it. It's not real but they know how much I love her. Yayyyy #bbau9

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goldstagram
19 minutes ago
Later podcast with evictee Jason. He has a crack at singing the housemates song, talks family dramas, the crazy party with @timdormer@tahny89 on the Gold Coast and we give him this birthday prezzie! #bbau #bigbrother #bigbrotherau http://traffic.libsyn.com/mikegoldmanpodcast/jason.mp3

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  1. Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    Errrgh I wish @BBAU9 would show the other side of Skye as well

    Heidi Anderson ‏@RealHeidi 5h
    @gemma6foot6 @BBAU9 what's the other side gem?


    Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    @RealHeidi @BBAU9 she is very bitchy and rude... Talks behind others backs and puts people down sometimes... Her edit makes her seem so diff


    Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    @RealHeidi @BBAU9 I know we all do that in there but bbau shows her very one sided .



    Heidi Anderson ‏@RealHeidi 4h
    “@gemma6foot6: @RealHeidi @BBAU9 I know we all do that in there but bbau shows her very one sided .” They do it every year
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delcan said:
Interesting you should say that. From Ben's facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/bennorrisaus):

MY BAD RELATIONSHIP.

I think everyone has a relationship or history with a person, where the facts are blurred and you don't know why things have blown so far out of control. I have seen it with people's friends, work colleagues and siblings, it's a very common story.

My bad blood has been with Tim Dormer - former Big Brother winner! I am not exactly sure how things got started. Probably spawned from jealousy, fear and a general competitive nature. It must have started when Tim was on the show. I was a massive fan and to be honest - he was actually housemate I voted for. He was the predecessor to my win of Big Brother and I was in awe of how incredible he was as a housemate.

Once the show finished I noticed a general competitive streak with Tim - it felt like he spoke down to me, lets be honest who really knows if he did or if I was paranoid. Emotions can be very blurred. Plus what Tim and I shared was not an ordinary kinship. It is an otherworldly connection. I had received numerous whispers that Tim had quickly revealed he didn't like me and that he felt if he aligned a friendship with me it would dilute the power he felt he needed to take on this media career he planned to have.

I had learnt A LOT over the twelve months of the show being over and I was keen to pass on all the help I could offer Tim. But I was never responded to with my several attempts to connect with Tim. Things got worse and I felt I was a victim of targeted bulling - texting people I was with (former housemates) at functions to state I was not worth hanging out with - one text sent to Drew while we were at lunch with Tully - said 'OMG lunch from hell.' I am not the confident person I always come across as. I actually felt more and more that I was becoming this loser who he was making me out to be.

The Logies had me tweeting some really nasty things at Tim and it was a low point. I felt that it was justified at the time but in actual fact it was the worst way to deal with my own private self loathing. It was embarrasing! I was way out of line and I was in the wrong.

Then came the continued claims that I bullied Estelle in my year of Big Brother. Tim was never there and didn't really know the whole story - who was he to tell me I had bullied Estelle? I had fast realised that the 'so called' cool group on Big Brother had been shifted from being a group and now Tim and Estelle had started to promote me as the ring leader and the soul responsibility for Estelle's bad experiences she had on Big Brother.

More pain was yet to come. He actively started telling people that he had inside information and that I was a false winner of Big Brother and the show was rigged. The rumours around me not deserving the Big Brother win was painful and untrue. But with such a huge fan base following Tim I began to be bombarded on social media - people tearing down my Big Brother experience on a daily bases!

This week - I noticed Tim and I were going to be at the same functions and I become infatuated with what I would say and how I would act. Could I be cool? Would I be confrontational? It was a sea of paranoia and a level of anxiety that I don't think I totally understood.

When it came time to meet Tim I approached him calmly and warmly and desired a friendly chat which hopefully would allow us to clear the air. The first attempt didn't work and he completely blanked me. The following night, opportunity presented itself again. I tried the same approach. We managed to discuss our feelings openly and honestly and didn't throw blame or negativity. We just were two people who never really understood why we didn't get along.

I am not sharing this story because I want to continue to publicly re hash my saga, pushing my fifteen minutes or wanting to defame anyone. I want people to learn from my story. Just when you think your relationship with competitor, the friend or the enemy can't get any worse, sometimes you just need to apologise! You say sorry things have been they way they have been and you own up to your mistakes. You don't have to be best friends but you certainly don't need to continue caring around negativity and unnecessary anxiety.

Was Tim wrong? Was I wrong? Was the Blame 50/50, 80/20 or or 100% one sided? Who cares - Tim Dormer was a brilliant contestant who won Big Brother and today I have felt a burden which has now gone. Have you ever wanted to know what it would feel like to drop a couple of kg's and to feel the weight you want to feel. Well let that burden go! When I see Tim Dormer I will high five him and have a laugh because I put everything on the line to sort it out like adults.

It is easy to hold grudges, it's easy to hold onto blame and to get caught up in ill feelings. However it is much more satisfying to let things go, move on and be happy in life. If you hold a grudge with a family member, work colleague, friend or loved one - stand outside the box and think to yourself, "Is it really worth the pain that comes with holding onto these emotions?"

Benjamin x
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Apparently Tim Dormer replied to this? Does anyone have it? I'm quite interested in Tim's take on this. :thumbsup:
 
Sandra Nixon
14 hours ago
Ryan you brilliant man you! Brains and beauty p.s tell Dave, Shelly from Chippendale is a fake and his goatie looks horrendous but I still love him ridiculously and miss our night time forearm hugs #teamryan #teamdavid
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Veronica2005 said:



  1. Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    Errrgh I wish @BBAU9 would show the other side of Skye as well

    Heidi Anderson ‏@RealHeidi 5h
    @gemma6foot6 @BBAU9 what's the other side gem?


    Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    @RealHeidi @BBAU9 she is very bitchy and rude... Talks behind others backs and puts people down sometimes... Her edit makes her seem so diff


    Gemma ‏@gemma6foot6 5h
    @RealHeidi @BBAU9 I know we all do that in there but bbau shows her very one sided .



    Heidi Anderson ‏@RealHeidi 4h
    “@gemma6foot6: @RealHeidi @BBAU9 I know we all do that in there but bbau shows her very one sided .” They do it every year
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Why are we not being shown this Skye?
 
FatPants said:
Sandra Nixon
14 hours ago
Ryan you brilliant man you! Brains and beauty p.s tell Dave, Shelly from Chippendale is a fake and his goatie looks horrendous but I still love him ridiculously and miss our night time forearm hugs #teamryan #teamdavid
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Why are we not being shown this Skye?
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1. Love this post- I noticed the goatee last night as well. Poor Dave.

2. Because the producers have earmarked her as the favourite to win. This has been obvious from the first week of the show.
 
reepbot said:
Remembr last year when Ben got to meet Bert and Patti Newton on his birthday?
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And Bradley's makeover in 2012, where the other housemates were locked in the backyard for who knows how long while it was happening, and then the reveal with the cringe worthy role playing. That boring, fake, scripted shit dragged on for ages while @Estelle.Landy breaking the bed, which was hilarious, didn't get aired.

 
Tizzie said:
And Bradley's makeover in 2012, where the other housemates were locked in the backyard for who knows how long while it was happening, and then the reveal with the cringe worthy role playing. That boring, fake, scripted shit dragged on for ages while @Estelle.Landy breaking the bed, which was hilarious, didn't get aired.

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This moment was brilliant !

All the actually entertaining non weirdo shit I did - never got aired.
 
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