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Post BB - Housemate Antics 2013

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Tully is never going to be truly happy unless she can be comfortable and at peace being alone and spending time with only Tully.

She might find people like she did with Drew in the house where she can focus so intently on that person it gives her a reprieve but ultimately if she needs attention that much to the point where she has to be the only centre of their attention then she's eventually going to become "too much" and she'll keep ending up in the same place she is now...unable to be on her own.

It's a problem I've seen a lot of people deal with and I'm sure her mother's situation might have something to do with her intense fear of being alone and not having attention.

Ultimately though if she can't make herself happy and feel content then she's never going to. If you rely on others to give you that feeling then you're never going to be truly happy...and from my observations of others you'll end up bringing misery to the people you need that attention from because there's just no downtime.

I just really hope she develops some self-awareness from this and learns to be content being alone before she jumps into something with anyone that's willing to give her their undivided attention for a while.
 
I still think the missing piece of information is how Drew feels about/is handling the whole situation as far as their friendship and future relationships (and as I've said before I can't see him as some hapless victim), but yeah, I agree with all that's been said. It's so important to learn to like being alone sometimes, even when you are in a relationship. I feel for why she might be that way, but it's something one has to work on rather than expecting life to bend to that need.
 
I'm finding the Tully and Tim post BB behaviour a bit disturbing. Were they both this bad before they went into the house (the gimme gimme gimme attitude) or has the BB experience created it... I can't quite blame BB because not everyone seems to be so entitled coming out the other side of the experience. Ben, the SS, Jade all seem reasonably thankful for what the experience has given them, even a little humbled at times. And seem constructive about building on the experience. Even Ed, much as I thought he was a nob inside the house...seems to have a reasonable sense of humour outside the house. Confident yes, no doubt, but as tedious as Tully and Tim, well surprisingly no! Xavier, Rohan, Heidi seem to be just enjoying their moment in the sun. Interesting what 'fame' is doing to them...
 
Mrs Butterface said:
Sad thing is she's lost 6k followers on Insta since the last time I've checked!!
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I noticed that as well. Most of the followers were lost when she went public with the break up from Drew. It seems to have plateaued now. When she goes to Melbourne she gains followers.
Interestingly, Drew has lost a similar number of followers which surprised me - although he does not post much so could explain some of it.

littlebear said:
I still think the missing piece of information is how Drew feels about/is handling the whole situation as far as their friendship and future relationships (and as I've said before I can't see him as some hapless victim), but yeah, I agree with all that's been said. It's so important to learn to like being alone sometimes, even when you are in a relationship. I feel for why she might be that way, but it's something one has to work on rather than expecting life to bend to that need.
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I agree. Problem is it is so hard to read Drew as he is completely silent on the matter. I noted that around the time of Tully's last trip to Melbourne , he started to interact again with her on SM, which I found interesting. He also posted a pic of her on his Instagram which he hadn't done for 3 months.
 
Jt193 said:
Most of the followers were lost when she went public with the break up from Drew.
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Whoa! Drully is OVER!? Since when? Please say it isn't so! I haven't been this devastated since Miley and Liam called it quits. It seems trew love isn't forever.

How things change; like this place all fancy like now.
 
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Sorry for the food porn but this is my dinner tonight! Smoked salmon Benedict with homemade hollandaise sauce!!! #yum#brinner#dinfast
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delcan said:
Tim's going to Brissy to see Kate, Wills and baby George:
Tara ‏@Taryabelle 3h
@timdormer where are u? going to meet the royals? Lol #RoyalVisitAustralia #Sydney

tim dormer ‏@timdormer 2h
@Taryabelle yeah I am on the royal hunt this weekend for TODAY show sat & sun!
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Tim said the other day he was going to Brisbane on Saturday but didn't say what for. I wonder if he will have time to catch up with Ben.
 
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