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Kristy Curtis said:
So I am guessing none of you have every been attached to a dog/cat/any pet!! to believe that they are that easily replaced...
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You have absolutely no idea. Sorry, but that's not true or fair and I'm not going to get into it because I don't feel like crying my eyes out. But sometimes in life you have to make some really, really crappy choices. And all I'm saying is that I hope neither Tully nor Tahlia miss out on opportunities in their young lives because they confuse making incredibly painful choices with not having choices at all.
 
littlebear said:
You have absolutely no idea. Sorry, but that's not true or fair and I'm not going to get into it because I don't feel like crying my eyes out. But sometimes in life you have to make some really, really crappy choices. And all I'm saying is that I hope neither Tully nor Tahlia miss out on opportunities in their young lives because they confuse making incredibly painful choices with not having choices at all.
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totally agree
 
littlebear said:
You have absolutely no idea. Sorry, but that's not true or fair and I'm not going to get into it because I don't feel like crying my eyes out. But sometimes in life you have to make some really, really crappy choices. And all I'm saying is that I hope neither Tully nor Tahlia miss out on opportunities in their young lives because they confuse making incredibly painful choices with not having choices at all.
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I agree with this. I can understand them wanting to share custody of the dog given neither want to lose her but I don't think it needs to be as complicated as it seems to be. I'm sure if one wanted/needed to go away for a while the other could just take her for longer. Or if they both did I'm sure there's someone that could after her.
 
Kristy Curtis said:
So I am guessing none of you have every been attached to a dog/cat/any pet!! to believe that they are that easily replaced...
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I like my 2 cats...but if I broke up with someone and we had the cat together, I'd give them the cat and get another one if we moved to different places....as long as they are taken care of I'm fine..

I would ABSOLUTELY never rearrange my life for pets if I didn't have to...(they probably have to coordinate all the time trade-offs and seemingly both go through withdrawal every time the pet leaves)

If I had kids I absolutely would...
 
Jo-bot said:
agree. I haven't been able to replace my beloved dog and don't think i ever will. But surely they can be rational about it. When one goes away the other has it longer, or one keeps it and the other can see whenever. Tully went away for months without the dog and survived so why she wanted to share care when she got back (and after the circumstances of the break-up ie: it was her doing) is beyond me
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I actually completely agree with what your saying here... And then some!!

I think most of this garbage with sharing the dog is to do with Tully being UNABLE TO LET GO! Sharing the dog means she keeps some kind of attachment to her past relationship... I don't think there is one healthy thing about keeping these ties to Tahlia...when there's a break-up, MOVE ON!!!!
 
littlebear said:
You have absolutely no idea. Sorry, but that's not true or fair and I'm not going to get into it because I don't feel like crying my eyes out. But sometimes in life you have to make some really, really crappy choices. And all I'm saying is that I hope neither Tully nor Tahlia miss out on opportunities in their young lives because they confuse making incredibly painful choices with not having choices at all.
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Sorry to offend you it wasn't my intention I wAs just wanting to put another point of view out there!!
 
Kristy Curtis said:
Sorry to offend you it wasn't my intention I wAs just wanting to put another point of view out there!!
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Welcome Kristy .. the thing is you jumped in and guessed and it came across a little like a harsh judgement ... when you stick around with us for a while here (and I hope you do - we love new perspectives!) you'll see we argue things up one side and right down the other when we're bored (and getting no news from the HM's) ... we can turn things round and round like a washing machine and twist ourselves inside out trying to see another side of the equation at times (either because or despite our individual biases for one HM or another)

So are you new and watching in NZ ... a lurker who's been so incensed you just had to say something ... an old reg who forgot their password and had to reinvent themselves? ... or just found the forum at long last

Personally I am new to it this year and coming hear to talk about BB with like-minded nuttas enhanced my enjoyment of BB so much I don't know how I managed to watch it before! :)
 
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crimmy said:
Personally I am new to it this year and coming hear to talk about BB with like-minded nuttas enhanced my enjoyment of BB so much I don't know how I managed to watch it before! :)
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I am also a new person this year and I could not agree more with what you have said. This forum has been a such a fun place to talk to other BB fans about the show, maybe that is why I didn't like the 2012 series that much compared to this year.... Oh what am I saying 2012 was a shitty season, but I am sure I would of enjoyed it slightly more if I were a member here.
 
crimmy said:
Welcome Kristy .. the thing is you jumped in and guessed and it came across a little like a harsh judgement ... when you stick around with us for a while here (and I hope you do - we love new perspectives!) you'll see we argue things up one side and right down the other when we're bored (and getting no news from the HM's) ... we can turn things round and round like a washing machine and twist ourselves inside out trying to see another side of the equation at times (either because or despite our individual biases for one HM or another)

So are you new and watching in NZ ... a lurker who's been so incensed you just had to say something ... an old reg who forgot their password and had to reinvent themselves? ... or just found the forum at long last

Personally I am new to it this year and coming hear to talk about BB with like-minded nuttas enhanced my enjoyment of BB so much I don't know how I managed to watch it before! :)
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Sorry about that, It was just that i logged in and what i first read were thow away comments on just get a new one( referring to the dog and i though that sounded heartless) But going past that we all have different views, pasts, up bringings, etc

I will read all posts completely before posting my views again. :)

I have been a BB fan since day 1 season 1, and a lurker of just this recent year.
 
Kristy Curtis said:
Sorry about that, It was just that i logged in and what i first read were thow away comments on just get a new one( referring to the dog and i though that sounded heartless) But going past that we all have different views, pasts, up bringings, etc

I will read all posts completely before posting my views again. :)

I have been a BB fan since day 1 season 1, and a lurker of just this recent year.
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umm good luck with that - it'll take you about a month just on this thread alone! lol
 
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