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LoveBB said:
The nasties and the El Creepos... She is selling a cheap version of herself and for mine, it comes across as either desperate or slutty or a combo of both. As Sweet Geek said, what is the intention?
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I feel so relieved that you are thinking like me. I don't want to use the word slutty but it is seeking attention, and what kind of attention does one expect from a pic like that? What I wanted to say in the post that I backtracked on was if you want a confidence boost, surely there are a million other photos you can pose in where you are not just in your underwear lying in your bad with a face that says I'm a bad girl... Okay I said what I wanted to say. Glad she got her high out of those type of comments.
 
delcan said:
I think there are several things that could be going on with her. I always like to give the HM's the benefit of the doubt. For Tully, I think 1) I suspect her mother is getting more unwell, and the end is creeping closer, 2) She is heartbroken - who ended it doesn't matter, 3) I wonder if Tahlia's trip to the US was something they planned to do together, she has been spending more time with Tahlia lately, so I imagine that would hurt and 4) I think she is genuinely fighting with herself about the regret she has from the hurt she caused Tahlia in the house. I don't agree with some of things she has done lately, but I can empathize with where she is coming from.

I hope you don't think I am trying to argue with you - but these things keep popping into my head. Occupational hazard - I can empathize with pretty much anyone. A strength for work, a weakness for life at times.
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This is an incredibly generous and thoughtful response. Like [MENTION=34950]crimmy[/MENTION], I've just about lost patience with Tully, so it's lovely to see someone remind me that Tully is more than just pics and words on an Instagram page.
 
crimmy said:
of course I don't think you're trying to argue with me ... I am just struggling with her antics of late.

I agree with your considerations - especially about regretting the hurt she caused. In her shoes I guess I'd become very introspective - sadness for the failure of the new relationship which came about at the expense of the old. I can't begin to judge her - I did see very real sparks flying between Tully & Drew

Living with what's happening with her mum would be pretty crushing - especially for one so young and vulnerable. Just when she could probably really do with a mother to coddle her and help her get herself together she is just rebounding off walls ...

I'd be really interested in hearing her speech about her time in Bali

I TRY to see things from all sides and give the benefit of the doubt too (witness my struggles with Jade and with Tim) but Tully sure does make it hard to get past the thought that a lot of it is essentially attention-seeking behaviour

I keep pulling myself up when I think that though because I'm very new to using twitter and instagram and what young people find perfectly acceptable use of SM I find myself being wary of it and thinking WHY would you post/say that? Showing my age ;)
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And that is why I replied to you :D I really want to hear her speech, not so much that I want to pay for flights to from Brisbane to Melbourne return and accommodation, but I hope we get to hear it. You do give people the benefit of the doubt and I admire that. You are not showing your age - you are just being caring.
 
crimmy said:
or something!

(like pulling their finger out and actually opening up their online store so we stylish gurus can critique it!)
(she says sitting on the couch in her nightie and hoodie - ohhh sooooo stylishly!)
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you have a hoodie on? i am wearing a singlet, ha

we are developing skills in the fashion area aren't we? we should start a label ourselves. what should we call it? [MENTION=34034]LoveBB[/MENTION], there is a list to be made ;)
 
prufrock said:
This is an incredibly generous and thoughtful response. Like [MENTION=34950]crimmy[/MENTION], I've just about lost patience with Tully, so it's lovely to see someone remind me that Tully is more than just pics and words on an Instagram page.
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My response to crimmy is for you as well :)
 
prufrock said:
This is an incredibly generous and thoughtful response. Like [MENTION=34950]crimmy[/MENTION], I've just about lost patience with Tully, so it's lovely to see someone remind me that Tully is more than just pics and words on an Instagram page.
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its just disappointing she resorts to that sort of pic. She has posted some photos of herself out and about and she looks like a totally different person ... not the shallow party girl
 
I feel like I'm up and down with tully. Not even two days ago I want to see her succeed and for her to find peace with whatever that causes her to self destruct. Today I'm not so sure I care for it all.
 
Sweet_Geek said:
I feel so relieved that you are thinking like me. I don't want to use the word slutty but it is seeking attention, and what kind of attention does one expect from a pic like that? What I wanted to say in the post that I backtracked on was if you want a confidence boost, surely there are a million other photos you can pose in where you are not just in your underwear lying in your bad with a face that says I'm a bad girl... Okay I said what I wanted to say. Glad she got her high out of those type of comments.
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i get where you and LoveBB are coming from - I have the same thoughts run through my mind in my immediate response to it ... but do you also think its part of us putting our own life/values onto someone who has a totally different life and life experience, who supposedly is an expert in the usage of SM (and I have to say at times I think WTF? about that whole idea that she KNOWS what she's doing and still goes ahead and does it .... that she KNOWS she's going to get grief for it but the good responses make the crapola ones fade into dust for her whereas to me they'd be absolutely mortifying and by now I'd have curled up in a ball with cocoa, chocolate, a stack of books to read and just switched any communication device off ...

it's almost as if she wants to goad people into the responses ... that she feeds off it ... and maybe that to her is a positive thing but to me it would just be a negative thing ...

I think that's what draws me into watching what she'll do next - trying to work out the why's and wherefore's ... part of my creepy voyeuristic BB-loving personality I guess
 
LoveBB said:
The nasties and the El Creepos... She is selling a cheap version of herself and for mine, it comes across as either desperate or slutty or a combo of both. As Sweet Geek said, what is the intention?
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i went looking for a sefie on images, someone or something, haha, and omfg. :o Tully's selfie is tame, just a bit of fun topless sultry, and she does sultry very well, i think she looked very hot. it is nothing more than the girls on Ed's posted photo, Miranda Kerr and Co, it is her followers that make it more than it is
 
Sweet_Geek said:
I feel so relieved that you are thinking like me. I don't want to use the word slutty but it is seeking attention, and what kind of attention does one expect from a pic like that? What I wanted to say in the post that I backtracked on was if you want a confidence boost, surely there are a million other photos you can pose in where you are not just in your underwear lying in your bad with a face that says I'm a bad girl... Okay I said what I wanted to say. Glad she got her high out of those type of comments.
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Don't worry, I'm in the club too. I started to type last night and deleted my response also. I'm not sure what her deal is lately but I've gone way past the point of even caring to give her the benefit of the doubt anymore. That pic made her look like she is desperate and trying too hard.
 
Sweet_Geek said:
I feel like I'm up and down with tully. Not even two days ago I want to see her succeed and for her to find peace with whatever that causes her to self destruct. Today I'm not so sure I care for it all.
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that's where I am ... and I'm the same way about Tim ...

guess we just have to take the good along with the bad ... they're only human and I know I'm not that wonderful ALL the time either ;) lol
 
crimmy said:
i get where you and LoveBB are coming from - I have the same thoughts run through my mind in my immediate response to it ... but do you also think its part of us putting our own life/values onto someone who has a totally different life and life experience, who supposedly is an expert in the usage of SM (and I have to say at times I think WTF? about that whole idea that she KNOWS what she's doing and still goes ahead and does it .... that she KNOWS she's going to get grief for it but the good responses make the crapola ones fade into dust for her whereas to me they'd be absolutely mortifying and by now I'd have curled up in a ball with cocoa, chocolate, a stack of books to read and just switched any communication device off ...

it's almost as if she wants to goad people into the responses ... that she feeds off it ... and maybe that to her is a positive thing but to me it would just be a negative thing ...

I think that's what draws me into watching what she'll do next - trying to work out the why's and wherefore's ... part of my creepy voyeuristic BB-loving personality I guess
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You're psychoanalysing me and you are hitting a nerve as uncomfortable as it is for me to admit. I like to add my own life experience and values when used in a positive way as it helps me be able to relate to them. I try not to if I think it will be judgemental, I like to try and understand a hm before making a comment, and I know I've jumped straight into it and made a decision with tully based on just that photo, which is why I think you hit a nerve, because I didn't try and understand it. In saying that though, feelings of how she was in the house are creeping back into my system.
 
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ok can I just say squeezing yourself into a tight lycra suit, throwing yourself down a track and leaping into a bobsleigh and then hurtling around a track at risk of crashing is just NUTS!!

(yep - still sitting on couch in #bondshoodie & #Jagnightie, enjoying dark chocolate/mint choccie and coffee ... and loving it!)

#muchsaferhere #goingforgoldinhoodiestyle
 
Mrs Butterface said:
Don't worry, I'm in the club too. I started to type last night and deleted my response also. I'm not sure what her deal is lately but I've gone way past the point of even caring to give her the benefit of the doubt anymore. That pic made her look like she is desperate and trying too hard.
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Yeah I'm in the don't care for it at all stage atm. Those feelings of how I viewed her in the house are in my system and eventually will make their way out on this thread. She isn't being paid for these photos, it's also not a photo in a bikini posed innocently, there is a desperation there and as hot as she looks, the word tacky also comes to mind. Sorry peeps, she is smart and I get that there are issues there, but when do the excuses stop?
 
Sweet_Geek said:
You're psychoanalysing me and you are hitting a nerve as uncomfortable as it is for me to admit. I like to add my own life experience and values when used in a positive way as it helps me be able to relate to them. I try not to if I think it will be judgemental, I like to try and understand a hm before making a comment, and I know I've jumped straight into it and made a decision with tully based on just that photo, which is why I think you hit a nerve, because I didn't try and understand it. In saying that though, feelings of how she was in the house are creeping back into my system.
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she is just pushing it, but as always she will turn it around, same as Tim. i see very erratic behaviour with her, she is a leaking rechargeable battery, still has energy, and one day it is going to have used up all of its charges
 
Sweet_Geek said:
You're psychoanalysing me and you are hitting a nerve as uncomfortable as it is for me to admit. I like to add my own life experience and values when used in a positive way as it helps me be able to relate to them. I try not to if I think it will be judgemental, I like to try and understand a hm before making a comment, and I know I've jumped straight into it and made a decision with tully based on just that photo, which is why I think you hit a nerve, because I didn't try and understand it. In saying that though, feelings of how she was in the house are creeping back into my system.
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yes and she's allowing those feelings to creep back and undoing the stuff that made us take notice and begin to think there was something MORE to be looking / waiting for

I'm not psychoanalysing you ... just trying to justify my own pussy-footing around ... maybe as a keyboard warrior I'm extremely reasonable but out in the real world I can be as judgemental as they come (a fault I recognise and hate in myself and TRY to rectify) - and maybe THAT'S why online I try NOT to be that way because I truly don't want to be a negative trolly-type person online (but as you know sometimes I just have to let it rip!!!)


why does the spellcheck red wiggly line try to tell me to spell it judgmental and now make me second-guess myself! I can spell dammit!!! judgement judgment judge judgemental judgmental OFFS ... now they ALL look wrong ... and I've run out of chocolate :(
 
crimmy said:
its just disappointing she resorts to that sort of pic. She has posted some photos of herself out and about and she looks like a totally different person ... not the shallow party girl
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I agree with you Crimmy. I'm just sort of glad someone is still in Tully's corner. It's looking like it's not me.
 
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