I will reserve my true 'feminazi' (pffft) hate for a bit longer then
I sometimes wonder if I ahng around truly unique people because no man I know would say he wanted his lady at home (not unless they wanted a hole in their head anyway!!)
Slightly OTT but I do remember an episode of Jennifer Byrne when she was chatting to Christopher Hitchens and he said Mrs Hitchens doesn't have to work and Jennifer got all uppity and said oh sexist pig and he was all no Jennifer I didn't say ALL women, I said Mrs Hitchens doesn't have to and Mrs Hitchens doesn't want to. I was offended that she was trying to twist his words.
So to clairfy - it's ok if a woman wants to stay home but it is not ok for a man to automatically assume all women will stay home.