Oh hai again
@Connoisseur.
Right, so you may have a point in saying that de facto couples and therefore same-sex couples have most of the same rights as married couples, bar the big one of actually
getting married, but the debate isn't so much about demanding the same 'rights' as hetros as demanding the same 'recognition'.
The reality is that marriage as a construct exists and so long as the government issues a piece of paper that says you're married thereby 'elevating' your relationship as something more than a de facto relationship it's definition and application is of great public importance. Whether you personally agree that this status is better or more important is irrelevant because the government by issuing these certificates gives the impression it is. It's this impression, this
acknowledgement, that marriage equality advocates are seeking not just the rights of marriage.
As for your argument that it'd be easier/quicker/more palatable to call same-sex marriage something else is frankly offensive. It evokes a whole separate but equal situation which is just wrong and still gives the impression that one is better than the other which achieves absolutely nothing because
nothing will have changed. You practically said it yourself that religious organisations do not own marriage. Marriage existed long before some religious were even formed and marriage has certainly not been their exclusive domain in Australia since 1973 when the first civil celebrant Lois D'Arcy was registered. With her appointment a new 'type' of marriage came into being in Australia, that of
civil marriage. So there already exists a 'new' word for, or subsection of, marriage - civil marriage and religious marriage. We don't need another one. You said it yourself that most people will still call it marriage so why the hell implement such an idiotic half measure.
As for your laughable offhanded comment about forcing religious organisations to perform same-sex marriages I know that must have been a joke because you'd be hard pressed to find anyone of sound mind who is actually arguing for such a thing.