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So sorry that you all went through what must have been a very scarey couple of days - they always say hindsight is 20/20 @Inigo Montoya -and its true when we are close to people we can miss what later seems obvious but I'm pretty sure your mum wouldn't want you feeling that way. She'll know in coming days how much she is loved and with the support she gets along with your love things will improve for all of you. Thinking of you and your mum and all your family. sending a big hug your way
 
Inigo Montoya said:
Oh that 3 dot post was me posting a link to a post on the NSW police Facebook page about my mum who had been missing since Monday morning.
We got a phone from one of the detectives that were working on this at about 10 30 am this morning and he told us she had been found.
I wasn't thinking last night when I put that post up and when I deleted it. I was honestly feeling so low and lost and confused and on the verge of breaking down for the last 2 days.

It looks like she has had a bit of a breakdown and I feel fucking horrible for not noticing the signs, they were there, but I was caught up in my own bullshit to notice them properly. This has been such a huge wake up call for me... And my family. My brother has taken the rest of the week off from the Navy and my sister is driving up from the bay now.
I have not seen my mum yet she is at the hospital, my dad and brother have gone to see her, I thought it would be better for me to stay home at this point in time as not to overwhelm her.

Anyone who read this please for me hug your love ones and let them know how much you love them because you never know when something bad might happen.
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Well don't I look like a bit of a cunt now.


It's good you've got the family there not only for your Mum but for each other too. Don't beat yourself up; it does no one any favours. Hugs all round. xo
 
Inigo Montoya said:
Oh that 3 dot post was me posting a link to a post on the NSW police Facebook page about my mum who had been missing since Monday morning.
We got a phone from one of the detectives that were working on this at about 10 30 am this morning and he told us she had been found.
I wasn't thinking last night when I put that post up and when I deleted it. I was honestly feeling so low and lost and confused and on the verge of breaking down for the last 2 days.

It looks like she has had a bit of a breakdown and I feel fucking horrible for not noticing the signs, they were there, but I was caught up in my own bullshit to notice them properly. This has been such a huge wake up call for me... And my family. My brother has taken the rest of the week off from the Navy and my sister is driving up from the bay now.
I have not seen my mum yet she is at the hospital, my dad and brother have gone to see her, I thought it would be better for me to stay home at this point in time as not to overwhelm her.

Anyone who read this please for me hug your love ones and let them know how much you love them because you never know when something bad might happen.
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Don't beat yourself up. Your a good person. We all miss these things sometimes. You're there now.

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Consuela said:
Well don't I look like a bit of a cunt now.


It's good you've got the family there not only for your Mum but for each other too. Don't beat yourself up; it does no one any favours. Hugs all round. xo
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Well don't I look like a bit of a cunt now.
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Admission is the first step to recovery. :p

I jooookes or okay maybe I was being semi serious. :biggrin:
 
Inigo Montoya said:
Oh that 3 dot post was me posting a link to a post on the NSW police Facebook page about my mum who had been missing since Monday morning.
We got a phone from one of the detectives that were working on this at about 10 30 am this morning and he told us she had been found.
I wasn't thinking last night when I put that post up and when I deleted it. I was honestly feeling so low and lost and confused and on the verge of breaking down for the last 2 days.

It looks like she has had a bit of a breakdown and I feel fucking horrible for not noticing the signs, they were there, but I was caught up in my own bullshit to notice them properly. This has been such a huge wake up call for me... And my family. My brother has taken the rest of the week off from the Navy and my sister is driving up from the bay now.
I have not seen my mum yet she is at the hospital, my dad and brother have gone to see her, I thought it would be better for me to stay home at this point in time as not to overwhelm her.

Anyone who read this please for me hug your love ones and let them know how much you love them because you never know when something bad might happen.
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Oh @Inigo Montoya, I saw that on the police fb page. Glad your mum was found. How absolutely horrible for u and your family. Take care xx
 
Winterbourne said:
Reality swings in to the reality TV website. Allow me to echo all the positive wishes and also apologies for mentioning the points. What a tapestry life is, playing silly buggers, watching footy or the Ashes, and someone's Mum is having a really hard time...
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Facebook really brings that home too. The game requests and inane posts keep coming in from around the globe and you're dealing with crises that no-one has any understanding or knowledge of. Very unsettling to see. As you say, life's tapestry. Inigo, your Mum is safe now and receiving care from professionals? A smile and hug from her children will never, ever go astray though to reassure her that she's loved. Love to you. F
 
Inigo Montoya said:
Oh that 3 dot post was me posting a link to a post on the NSW police Facebook page about my mum who had been missing since Monday morning.
We got a phone from one of the detectives that were working on this at about 10 30 am this morning and he told us she had been found.
I wasn't thinking last night when I put that post up and when I deleted it. I was honestly feeling so low and lost and confused and on the verge of breaking down for the last 2 days.

It looks like she has had a bit of a breakdown and I feel fucking horrible for not noticing the signs, they were there, but I was caught up in my own bullshit to notice them properly. This has been such a huge wake up call for me... And my family. My brother has taken the rest of the week off from the Navy and my sister is driving up from the bay now.
I have not seen my mum yet she is at the hospital, my dad and brother have gone to see her, I thought it would be better for me to stay home at this point in time as not to overwhelm her.

Anyone who read this please for me hug your love ones and let them know how much you love them because you never know when something bad might happen.
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Oh Inigo, I'm sorry to hear what happened, but rejoice with you that she is found and that she can get the help she needs. Sounds like your family are doing what they can. Praying for you and your family!
 
One, two, three back to me!!!!!

Introducing Master Frank Valiant!

Picked him up Friday, slept with him in our bed to reduce separation anxiety Friday night and woke up in a bed of dog urine, Kai made a dog crate for him to sleep in Saturday night to ensure I didn't suffer with separation anxiety due to Kai leaving me... Thankfully he slept like angel - both Kai and Frank that is.

We are 100% in absolute love. He is a mischievous little ball of sunshine and I feel so lucky to have found him. There is a Mills and Boon rescue story to him which makes his placement with us even more magical.

Frank

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Franks first poo outside :poop::poop:

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We are completely in love!!
 
Trala said:
One, two, three back to me!!!!!

Introducing Master Frank Valiant!

Picked him up Friday, slept with him in our bed to reduce separation anxiety Friday night and woke up in a bed of dog urine, Kai made a dog crate for him to sleep in Saturday night to ensure I didn't suffer with separation anxiety due to Kai leaving me... Thankfully he slept like angel - both Kai and Frank that is.

We are 100% in absolute love. He is a mischievous little ball of sunshine and I feel so lucky to have found him. There is a Mills and Boon rescue story to him which makes his placement with us even more magical.

Frank

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Franks first poo outside :poop::poop:

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We are completely in love!!
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What a little cutie. How has Billy taken to him?
 
Trala said:
One, two, three back to me!!!!!

Introducing Master Frank Valiant!

Picked him up Friday, slept with him in our bed to reduce separation anxiety Friday night and woke up in a bed of dog urine, Kai made a dog crate for him to sleep in Saturday night to ensure I didn't suffer with separation anxiety due to Kai leaving me... Thankfully he slept like angel - both Kai and Frank that is.

We are 100% in absolute love. He is a mischievous little ball of sunshine and I feel so lucky to have found him. There is a Mills and Boon rescue story to him which makes his placement with us even more magical.

Frank

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Franks first poo outside :poop::poop:

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We are completely in love!!
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Cute Pup. Hope you will all be in Doggy Love Heaven forever, together!

I am wondering about the white poopoo, you are so proud of -to me, it does not look healthy at all!
Post a brown one, and I will be convinced!
 
hooleydooley said:
Cute Pup. Hope you will all be in Doggy Love Heaven forever, together!

I am wondering about the white poopoo, you are so proud of -to me, it does not look healthy at all!
Post a brown one, and I will be convinced!
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We'll wonder no more. He has just started on Puppy Milk, hence the light poo. I can assure you, if my vets assessment is anything to go on, my Frank is thankfully a strong, mischievous ball of happiness.

Puppy potty training on the other hand is proving to be very time consuming. You literally can't take your eyes off him for a second! He is in fact trying to eat my iPad as I type!!
 
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