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Lucas said:
Oh god!
All the time I worry my looks will fade before I meet the right someone. Hence my "time is running out" worry.

Is that vain? Haha!

I do think some of the gay community though are really only interested in hotness instead of personality which sets off my worry.

We live in a superficial world. :(
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Aww Lucas, you are such a sweetie, the ones that are only interested in looks are just that, only interested in looks. Your perfect Mr will find you one way or another :) (and he better love your mind as much as your body ;) :D)
 
el'coopo said:
Aww Lucas, you are such a sweetie, the ones that are only interested in looks are just that, only interested in looks. Your perfect Mr will find you one way or another :) (and he better love your mind as much as your body ;) :D)
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Aww! Well isn't this lovely?
Thank you. You have made my day.
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I need to remember this. :thumbsup: :)
 
Physical attraction is essential for a relationship I feel, but that doesn't have to mean that the person is exceptionally good looking, just that there is some level of attraction, it's not always determined by looks anyway. Everyone has different tastes anyway.

Don't worry @Lucas, it will ultimately be your personality that keeps someone no matter what, and you are such a kind and sweet guy that you don't need to worry.
 
jessy_girl said:
Physical attraction is essential for a relationship I feel, but that doesn't have to mean that the person is exceptionally good looking, just that there is some level of attraction, it's not always determined by looks anyway. Everyone has different tastes anyway.

Don't worry @Lucas, it will ultimately be your personality that keeps someone no matter what, and you are such a kind and sweet guy that you don't need to worry.
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Thank you! :happy:
 
Lucas said:
Oh god!
All the time I worry my looks will fade before I meet the right someone. Hence my "time is running out" worry.

Is that vain? Haha!

I do think some of the gay community though are really only interested in hotness instead of personality which sets off my worry.

We live in a superficial world. :(
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You have nothing to worry about my boy, be open to love, a certain (large section) of the community are definitely all about the hotness, and you see them jump to one to the next, and we are all vain to a degree, but the end of the day when you spooning while falling asleep and talking, it has nothing to do with what they look like, and more to do with the person they are. Me removing myself from all that shit for a long time and focusing on getting myself ready for actual genuine connection and finding that has shown it to be true in my case.
 
mutleyp said:
Very quite! Good and bad, good everyone out there enjoying life, bad, cos not much to read when log on :p

Usually I would be done, this year, not so much, only my charity ones done so far, how about you?
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I'm all done with Christmas presents, thank fuck, and most are wrapped. I try not to get sucked in with all the hoopla of Christmas, I think it has lost its meaning. But I'm no Scrooge either. I went all out when my boy was a child, not so much now.. You working Xmas day?
 
shadow2 said:
I'm all done with Christmas presents, thank fuck, and most are wrapped. I try not to get sucked in with all the hoopla of Christmas, I think it has lost its meaning. But I'm no Scrooge either. I went all out when my boy was a child, not so much now.. You working Xmas day?
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I love giving gifts, thats one of my fave parts :) but not from a commercial point of view, but in a I appreciate you way. It has lost its meaning though :( and its more fun when there are young children, being caught up in that vibe :D I refuse to work on Xmas, I usually will swap with someone for NYE because I rather that, to me Xmas is about family, so being with them is more important than any job :)
 
I have noticed some people feeling the spirit of Xmas isn't around much now days, so I encourage the gift of Xmas Kindness, for example when I went and got my morning coffee, tired, bit grumpy cos I have a sore back and a lady gave me a bit smile, so I paid for her coffee without her knowing, and told them to tell her once she got it (I was gone by this time) to say "Thank you, I needed that smile, Merry Christmas" other things to do are if you parking on the street even for 30 mins, pay for the whole 2/3hours then when you done, and see someone park, give them the remainder of your ticket, if you at the supermarket, instead of returning the trolly to get your $1/$2 out, give it to someone to use, saves them the hassle and they get to keep the $1/$2, when in traffic and you see someone waiting to cut in, slow down, give them a smile and a wave and let them in! Small things can make someones whole day, and make your own day better, spread the love in a stressful season for many people, show them the kindess of strangers, regain the sprit!
 
mutleyp said:
I have noticed some people feeling the spirit of Xmas isn't around much now days, so I encourage the gift of Xmas Kindness, for example when I went and got my morning coffee, tired, bit grumpy cos I have a sore back and a lady gave me a bit smile, so I paid for her coffee without her knowing, and told them to tell her once she got it (I was gone by this time) to say "Thank you, I needed that smile, Merry Christmas" other things to do are if you parking on the street even for 30 mins, pay for the whole 2/3hours then when you done, and see someone park, give them the remainder of your ticket, if you at the supermarket, instead of returning the trolly to get your $1/$2 out, give it to someone to use, saves them the hassle and they get to keep the $1/$2, when in traffic and you see someone waiting to cut in, slow down, give them a smile and a wave and let them in! Small things can make someones whole day, and make your own day better, spread the love in a stressful season for many people, show them the kindess of strangers, regain the sprit!
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You are a beautiful soul Mutley x

We had ARK week in my community recently.
http://www.arkweek.org.au
 
mutleyp said:
I have noticed some people feeling the spirit of Xmas isn't around much now days, so I encourage the gift of Xmas Kindness, for example when I went and got my morning coffee, tired, bit grumpy cos I have a sore back and a lady gave me a bit smile, so I paid for her coffee without her knowing, and told them to tell her once she got it (I was gone by this time) to say "Thank you, I needed that smile, Merry Christmas" other things to do are if you parking on the street even for 30 mins, pay for the whole 2/3hours then when you done, and see someone park, give them the remainder of your ticket, if you at the supermarket, instead of returning the trolly to get your $1/$2 out, give it to someone to use, saves them the hassle and they get to keep the $1/$2, when in traffic and you see someone waiting to cut in, slow down, give them a smile and a wave and let them in! Small things can make someones whole day, and make your own day better, spread the love in a stressful season for many people, show them the kindess of strangers, regain the sprit!
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I love this soooo much! I do the traffic thing & let other cars in whenever I can. I mean 2 more seconds added to my trip really isn't that much. Oh my goodness! I bet that lady's coffee will be extra delish today! how thoughtful & nice :) And yep, spread the love x
 
el'coopo said:
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I love this soooo much! I do the traffic thing & let other cars in whenever I can. I mean 2 more seconds added to my trip really isn't that much. Oh my goodness! I bet that lady's coffee will be extra delish today! how thoughtful & nice :) And yep, spread the love x
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It's funny I have done it before again forget to do I it during the year when life distracts you, but last year I went to do it and the lady in front of me had paid for mine so I know how it feels, just a simple gesture! So I paid it forward, and later I went back and they told me everyone kept doing it, paying for the next person, so one small thing just can make so much of a difference and cause a beautiful chain reaction![DOUBLEPOST=1418254674][/DOUBLEPOST]
Cowie said:
I love you @mutleyp
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:kiss: Love you too @Cowie
 
I just did the parking ticket thing, paid 3 hours used 20 mins, saw a lady and her daughter going to get a ticket, ran my fat arse over and said excuse me, I have paid until 1 o'clock and I'm not going to use it would you like it? She was so appreciative, I just smiled and said pay it forward, then as I drove off I got big waves :) so good!
 
Our target store has flat $2 for two hours, I'm ever only in there for half an hour, an hour max. I always give my ticket away.
 
mutleyp said:
I have noticed some people feeling the spirit of Xmas isn't around much now days, so I encourage the gift of Xmas Kindness, for example when I went and got my morning coffee, tired, bit grumpy cos I have a sore back and a lady gave me a bit smile, so I paid for her coffee without her knowing, and told them to tell her once she got it (I was gone by this time) to say "Thank you, I needed that smile, Merry Christmas" other things to do are if you parking on the street even for 30 mins, pay for the whole 2/3hours then when you done, and see someone park, give them the remainder of your ticket, if you at the supermarket, instead of returning the trolly to get your $1/$2 out, give it to someone to use, saves them the hassle and they get to keep the $1/$2, when in traffic and you see someone waiting to cut in, slow down, give them a smile and a wave and let them in! Small things can make someones whole day, and make your own day better, spread the love in a stressful season for many people, show them the kindess of strangers, regain the sprit!
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Oh you are Beautiful @mutleyp I do most of those things too, it always feels good to help others, without expecting anything in return. I havent tried the parking one though, you are such a beautiful person xx
 
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