This is some serious Post Highschool Trauma you have going on. The fact many in here make friends so easily really sticks in your throat doesn't it?
I know you mentally justify this divide when it comes to posters and making friends to be all about your war against this mental "clique" you have created, but how do you explain the fact that almost every person you have ever developed a friendly rapport with has ended up despising you too?
Your entire day and most of the night is spent trying to engage/bait/stalk/obsess over people who can't stand you. You try and justify it is for some greater forum good, but the bottom line is, there is no greater good. You are a lonely, friendless 41 year old man who barely leaves his computer screen. I doubt there is even one poster in here who doesn't see you for what you are. The saddest fact is you aren't going anywhere, because quite simply, this is all you have. The hours you put in prove it.
You made an assumption of what you think AJ's life revolves around. I think you need to take a good look at what your life revolves around. Since you live for that search function, have a search of your own post history. Take a walk though what you contribute. All you do all day and most of the night is obsess about the ever growing number of people in here who can't stand you.